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23 Jul 2022, 1:49 pm

This thread is yet another reflection of how antichoicers don't care about facts, just their feelings. Dialogue with disinformed monsters isn't likely to advance human rights, eliminating their ability to organize and impose their barbarism would be far more effective.

Targeting where they organize, along with the fake counselling offices they run and other relevant parts of their infrastructure seems like a more viable method. Whether they're targeted by protests or other methods is up to one's own morality.


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23 Jul 2022, 1:59 pm

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If people need and can get medical services, they will get them. They are not idiots.
The problem is that some people cannot. Before that, once you get pregnant accidentally, you have to give birth.

Another myth. People can get health care in the US. They just choose not to. Part of that problem has to do with how much information people have to know about what services are available and how to get them. Leftist politicians and community organizers aren't always best served by an informed constituency. Never forget that. Data-driven by people still living in the most impoverished areas will normally reflect the absolute worst outcomes while minorities living in more homogenous areas will tend to have better outcomes.

It's the same reason why Canada’s system is reportedly far superior to the US. They don't collect data on race. BY LAW they cannot collect data on race. But if you examine narratives from middle eastern, black, and first nations, you find an entirely different story of class struggle and racism. What story would US stats show if race and economics were completely left out of reporting?

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Half of the maternal deaths can be avoided. So what about the remaining half?

What about them? I never argued that women can't have abortions if necessary to save lives.

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You'd better make sure that what you say is supported by "pro Life" supporters at the same time.
On the other hand, when these problems are still serious, and then suddenly, it is allowed to ban abortion directly?

You have me confused with someone who cares what other people say. I don't need permission from Pro-Life supporters to form my own opinions and express them. I don't support a total abortion ban. I do believe it is useful to debate some of the nuances, such as whether rape victims SHOULD have the right to abort. But there’s just no existential reason to ever have it if there’s no direct threat to the mother.

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Pure circular argument.
Non Christians do not share these ideas.
Areas where has never been Christian think the debate about "what fetus are human" is insane.

I don't recall making any unnecessary assumptions, if any. You are confused. This discussion isn't about religion.


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Reality doesn't happen in the order you designed, sir.
On the other hand, if this is something that needs to be pointed out, any contraceptive method has a failure rate.

Irrelevant. I had child from a broken condom. 100% of my paycheck goes to child support and his karate lessons. So what?

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People are not idiots, again. (I mean, most people)
Is the reason why people don't have a better life because they don't like it? They CANNT.

Don’t confuse one’s ability with one’s will. Often the problem isn’t so much ability but rather the flow of information about what options are available. The idea of “can’t” as a guiding philosophical principle is often, perhaps even MOST often, not rooted in reality.

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...But successful abortion always kills babies with botched procedures being the exception. Destruction of human life is almost always preventable...

Circular argument, again.

What circular argument? What exactly do you think happens to babies during an abortion?

I’d lay this out as a syllogism to show the logic...however, understanding what involved in a typical D&C should be enough. The baby is dismembered by suction. Ripping the baby apart kills them.

Other methods follow a similar pattern of killing the baby and removing it. The saline method pulls water out of the baby, killing them, and they are expelled from the womb. There’s the two-pill method that has gained attention in recent years--baby dies, is expelled from the womb. Partial birth involves killing the baby by giving them digitalis and/or cutting the umbilical cord. The baby dies and is then removed.

My actual argument has nothing to with defining abortion since it is reasonably assumed what abortion is. There’s no need to prove that abortion kills babies. My main opponents accept that there is a baby in the womb, that abortion involves killing the baby and removing it, and that the primary concern of abortion is that a baby is not born alive. My argument is this:

1. Murder is the intentional, unjustifiable killing of another human being.
2. An abortion is the intentional, unjustifiable killing of a human baby.
3. Therefore: Abortion is murder.

One could argue that the way abortion is defined in 2 means that getting rid of a baby because of cancer treatments, ectopic pregnancy, a pregnancy that is the result of rape, the removal of a baby that has died, the loss of a baby due to an accident, the loss of a baby due to nature causes beyond the mother’s control do not match the definition of abortion. Saving the life of the mother is self-defense. Termination as a response to rape might also qualify as self-defense, with other implications for the justice system. So those are examples of something that is justifiable. Justifiable homicide does not meet the definition of murder. Accidents happen, so the loss of a baby is not always deliberate. Miscarriages happen--also not deliberate. So any time a terminated pregnancy fails to meet BOTH qualifications of deliberate or premeditated AND unjustifiable, it is murder.

But I don't define ALL abortions as murder. I’m only pointing out premeditated and unjustifiable abortions as murder. Abortion definitions commonly include ANY pregnancies that have terminated, even spontaneous ones. And consequently I do not believe a total abortion ban is reasonable.

Hopefully I’ve explained enough to show this isn't question-begging, or at least no more question-begging than any other argument.

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I also wrote another part. This is only the most intuitive and rapid one among those reproductive injuries.


And completely irrelevant, unless the injury will necessarily end the life of the mother, in which case the doctors will already know about it and advise her about her options. My wife once had a baby in breach AND placenta previa—putting her in less than 1% of pregnancies. Well...they’re both still alive, and the baby is now a teenager. So when we talk about reproductive injuries, we’re really talking about extremely rare instances where injuries are life-threatening, otherwise they are inconsequential relative to the purpose of this discussion.



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23 Jul 2022, 2:12 pm

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Then euthanize all the old people and the mentally ret*d. Easy peasy.


Old people and those with intellectual disabilities are still sentient.


And even if they weren't, their continued existence doesn't put a woman's health and life at risk. An embryo's/fetus' continued existence inside a woman does.

That’s almost entirely a myth. Current medical practice makes pregnancy and delivery easily survivable in almost every situation. Doctors managed to save both my wife and oldest daughter. They delivered my youngest daughter by section while discussing college basketball. So the risk to mother is entirely a myth unless you show me evidence otherwise. Heck, I’ll do it for you: ectopic pregnancies almost never make it to term, almost always rupture or turn septic, and almost certainly kill the mother if she attempts to make it to term.

Preeclampsia is extremely risky, requires constant monitoring. It is survivable, but is it worth the risk? That can only be answered by parents who have to endure it.

What if the baby dies in the womb or cannot survive outside the womb? That’s a tough one. But certainly a parent should have the right to medical options when there is no point in continuing the pregnancy.

The girl is very young, is the victim of abuse/rape? Well, that genuinely IS an issue for bodily autonomy and parents making the best decisions on behalf of their children. But to justify killing a baby, the abuser must be brought to justice. I don’t waiting for a conviction is necessary since it is possible to report a crime early and have an abortion immediately when a baby is detected—taking a test once a week and medically confirmed immediately after the first positive home test. That’s reasonable. I don’t LIKE the idea of destroying ANY child for ANY reason since it isn’t the fault of the child that it exists under unfortunate circumstances. But to decide to destroy a life must be a rational one, not simply a matter of wanting the pleasure of sex and none of the consequences. That can be avoided. So unless rape or abuse is the cause, conception is a choice.


Dude, a personal antecdote about your wifes pregnancy going smooth is not proof that abortion is obsolete or that the readily availible information about pregnancy complications and women talking about their experiences with such things are myths. Tons and tons of doctors and medical professionals who care for pregnant women would disagree. I am glad hers went well that is nice, but its not the case for everyone who gets pregnant.

Also, its confusing you think women should be able to end a pregnancy if it becomes too dangerous or the fetus is unviable, but you support legislation that gets directly in the way of doctors being able to perform an abortion in a timely fashion for those women and instead can force them to wait till the complications start killing or causing them severe health problems to intervene where abortion is the treatment. Like that article you think is a myth talked about a woman who's pregnancy wasn't viable but was told to go home and wait for signs of infection, so she traveled to a legal abortion state to get it taken care of rather than waiting for infection.

And it is a religious belief that sex for pleasure and not conception is a sin or whatever, that should not be imposed on people who don't follow such beliefs. I mean what do you think condoms or birth control is for? Your suggestion is really for couples who don't want kids is to just never have sex? That is ridiculous.

One person’s anecdote is another person’s lived experience. Come back and talk to me about it when you’ve been there yourself. There is nothing funny about your partner almost dying right in front of you.

And who is invoking religion? Sex naturally leads to pregnancy. B.C. methods reduce the risk to near zero. No sex = no baby. Ever.

And if you insist on invoke religion, abstinence only failed ONCE in human history, and even THAT girl consented.



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23 Jul 2022, 2:17 pm

Abstinence isn't a demand you're entitled to make upon anyone else and failure to maintain abstinence isn't an excuse to deny one's bodily autonomy.

No matter how many rhetorical knots you tie yourself in if you'll always be arguing to deny a person's rights on behalf of a non-person.


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23 Jul 2022, 2:29 pm

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As many as 50,000 women experience severe, unexpected health problems related to pregnancy each year. Some may have long-term health consequences, and others may not survive. Over 700 women die each year in the U.S. from problems related to pregnancy or delivery complications.


https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/allysonfelix/index.html

I was in the hospital for 10 days after I gave birth to my son.

My doctor informed me later that my situation gave him anxiety and insomnia. He met with other top doctors in the field in order to keep my alive.

The reality is that many women who experience my particular complication, and many others, do not survive or experience lifelong negative effects which can shorten their lifespan and quality of life.

Some women’s lives would be seriously at risk if they went on to have other pregnancies after such a serious health scare.

The point is that the issue of health concerns is one reason among many why abortion should be accessible to people. It’s by far not the only reason, though. There are so many unique situations. No matter what, we all should have the right to bodily autonomy.


(I also experienced domestic violence during and after my pregnancy. Narcissists do not like it when they aren’t the center of attention. Women should be able to safely and confidentially get abortions. Ideally, there would be no domestic violence, health issues, or complicated situations, but we aren’t living in an ideal world.)

With respect, I’m not going to respond to the usual extent I normally would...it’s pretty clear where we both stand and this is just beating a dead horse. I think the only thing I can contribute is that domestic violence is a separate issue and should treat as such. Men must not be allowed to get away with abusing women.

I just want to say that it sucks your partner mistreated you. I realize we don't live in a perfect world, but it blows my mind that as far as we’ve come since the 1940’s that people can still be this evil to each other. My position is that domestic violence has no gender and is always unacceptable. Narcissist men and Ambers should be things of the past by now.



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23 Jul 2022, 2:36 pm

AngelRho wrote:
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As many as 50,000 women experience severe, unexpected health problems related to pregnancy each year. Some may have long-term health consequences, and others may not survive. Over 700 women die each year in the U.S. from problems related to pregnancy or delivery complications.


https://www.cdc.gov/hearher/allysonfelix/index.html

I was in the hospital for 10 days after I gave birth to my son.

My doctor informed me later that my situation gave him anxiety and insomnia. He met with other top doctors in the field in order to keep my alive.

The reality is that many women who experience my particular complication, and many others, do not survive or experience lifelong negative effects which can shorten their lifespan and quality of life.

Some women’s lives would be seriously at risk if they went on to have other pregnancies after such a serious health scare.

The point is that the issue of health concerns is one reason among many why abortion should be accessible to people. It’s by far not the only reason, though. There are so many unique situations. No matter what, we all should have the right to bodily autonomy.


(I also experienced domestic violence during and after my pregnancy. Narcissists do not like it when they aren’t the center of attention. Women should be able to safely and confidentially get abortions. Ideally, there would be no domestic violence, health issues, or complicated situations, but we aren’t living in an ideal world.)

With respect, I’m not going to respond to the usual extent I normally would...it’s pretty clear where we both stand and this is just beating a dead horse. I think the only thing I can contribute is that domestic violence is a separate issue and should treat as such. Men must not be allowed to get away with abusing women.

I just want to say that it sucks your partner mistreated you. I realize we don't live in a perfect world, but it blows my mind that as far as we’ve come since the 1940’s that people can still be this evil to each other. My position is that domestic violence has no gender and is always unacceptable. Narcissist men and Ambers should be things of the past by now.


Domestic violence is not a separate issue. It’s one of the reasons wby people need access to abortions.

Domestic violence is unacceptable but it’s not going anywhere anytime soon.


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23 Jul 2022, 2:44 pm

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Abstinence isn't a demand you're entitled to make upon anyone else and failure to maintain abstinence isn't an excuse to deny one's bodily autonomy.

No matter how many rhetorical knots you tie yourself in if you'll always be arguing to deny a person's rights on behalf of a non-person.

Who's making demands? I just pointed out that it is a reasonable option. No sex = no baby, and that has been scientifically proven. I’ve never heard of human pathogenesis, and the oft-quoted Biblical example resulted in the birth of a human male, something that is impossible without supernatural intervention. I have no expectations for people to abstain from sex. But it's not unreasonable to point out that one thing leads to another and that actions have consequences. All I’d rather see are people being responsible for their actions rather than killing innocent people who had no choice over what their parents did. You make the choice, you accept the risks, you accept what might happen.



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23 Jul 2022, 2:46 pm

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What about them? I never argued that women can't have abortions if necessary to save lives.

Inevitable death occurs during childbirth. When it happens, it is death.
You can't send them into a time machine to have an abortion.

This is the inevitable part of all childbirth risks.


The question is, why can we take "fetus = baby/human" as the premise?
This is absurd in other cultures.


So uterine prolapse is an insignificant sequela? The goal is more human, not more people?
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Abstinence isn't a demand you're entitled to make upon anyone else and failure to maintain abstinence isn't an excuse to deny one's bodily autonomy.

No matter how many rhetorical knots you tie yourself in if you'll always be arguing to deny a person's rights on behalf of a non-person.

Who's making demands? I just pointed out that it is a reasonable option. No sex = no baby, and that has been scientifically proven. I’ve never heard of human pathogenesis, and the oft-quoted Biblical example resulted in the birth of a human male, something that is impossible without supernatural intervention. I have no expectations for people to abstain from sex. But it's not unreasonable to point out that one thing leads to another and that actions have consequences. All I’d rather see are people being responsible for their actions rather than killing innocent people who had no choice over what their parents did. You make the choice, you accept the risks, you accept what might happen.

Responsibility is equal to deciding and bearing the consequences.
Many people choose to drive and take the risk of car accidents.
But what is the logical relationship between this and "doctors forbid providing medical services to car accident victims because they are responsible for themselves"?


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23 Jul 2022, 2:49 pm

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Abstinence isn't a demand you're entitled to make upon anyone else and failure to maintain abstinence isn't an excuse to deny one's bodily autonomy.

No matter how many rhetorical knots you tie yourself in if you'll always be arguing to deny a person's rights on behalf of a non-person.

Who's making demands? I just pointed out that it is a reasonable option. No sex = no baby, and that has been scientifically proven. I’ve never heard of human pathogenesis, and the oft-quoted Biblical example resulted in the birth of a human male, something that is impossible without supernatural intervention. I have no expectations for people to abstain from sex. But it's not unreasonable to point out that one thing leads to another and that actions have consequences. All I’d rather see are people being responsible for their actions rather than killing innocent people who had no choice over what their parents did. You make the choice, you accept the risks, you accept what might happen.


The risks might include having to pursue termination.

There's no inherent reason why access to that procedure should be limited and none of the arguments trotted out by antichoicers are compelling enough to justify denying people basic rights like bodily autonomy.

There's no inherent reason why being forced to carry an unwanted pregnancy should be viewed as a "natural" consequences when it's one that exists because antichoicers seek to deny access to a medical procedure, not because that procedure doesn't exist.

Antichoicers ought to be dealt with like any other group that actively promotes denying others their fundamental rights.

They're the problem, not a lack of abstinence. Eliminating the problem will involve eliminating the ideology that drives it.


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Abstinence isn't a demand you're entitled to make upon anyone else and failure to maintain abstinence isn't an excuse to deny one's bodily autonomy.

No matter how many rhetorical knots you tie yourself in if you'll always be arguing to deny a person's rights on behalf of a non-person.

Who's making demands? I just pointed out that it is a reasonable option. No sex = no baby, and that has been scientifically proven. I’ve never heard of human pathogenesis, and the oft-quoted Biblical example resulted in the birth of a human male, something that is impossible without supernatural intervention. I have no expectations for people to abstain from sex. But it's not unreasonable to point out that one thing leads to another and that actions have consequences. All I’d rather see are people being responsible for their actions rather than killing innocent people who had no choice over what their parents did. You make the choice, you accept the risks, you accept what might happen.


Tell that to rape victims.


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Tell that to rape victims.


Sadly they will, often with quite a degree of hostility.
I've never seen a movement more devoid of basic compassion and empathy for people who aren't unborn.


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Domestic violence is not a separate issue. It’s one of the reasons wby people need access to abortions.

People need access to abortions to enable abusers?



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Domestic violence is not a separate issue. It’s one of the reasons wby people need access to abortions.

People need access to abortions to enable abusers?


Having a kid with an abuser makes it much harder to eliminate the abuser from one's life because of how parental rights will likely be applied.


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23 Jul 2022, 2:58 pm

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Tell that to rape victims.


Sadly they will, often with quite a degree of hostility.
I've never seen a movement more devoid of basic compassion and empathy for people who aren't unborn.


That’s true. I was raised to be pro-life and have heard it all.


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23 Jul 2022, 3:02 pm

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Domestic violence is not a separate issue. It’s one of the reasons wby people need access to abortions.

People need access to abortions to enable abusers?


Victims of domestic violence need to focus on their safety.

Some could find having a baby to an abuser horrifyingly triggering.

People may have to interact with their abusers regularly due to visitation (or whatever). This is extraordinarily triggering and could make it hard to work on PTSD-related issues. It could also lead to more abuse, and thus, be dangerous.


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Domestic violence is not a separate issue. It’s one of the reasons wby people need access to abortions.

People need access to abortions to enable abusers?

In China, a not uncommon immoral behavior is that men secretly destroy condoms to make women pregnant, and then control women. (this is actually something that can happen in any culture that still has patriarchy)
Imagine how doomed eternally she would be if abortion were banned at the same time.

It is impossible to enforce the law for destroying condoms.
But law enforcement is even crazier for abortion, which is still harmful to that woman, but less harmful than another possibility.

Such laws will help and encourage such victimization and prevent victims from escaping.


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