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26 Mar 2011, 12:58 pm

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The very idea that feminism might even be necessary in the modern world is quite contentious.


It depends on who you ask-
for the average joe who works with women, goes to school with them, holds doors open for them, feminism might seem redundant.


Might seem redundant why?

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For those who make careers of studying cultural oppression as imposed by the media, institutional oppression as imposed by religion and politics, reproductive oppression imposed by religion, etc-

feminism is extremely relevant.


Yes I can agree with this for my own reasons, but why do you?



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26 Mar 2011, 1:18 pm

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Me I see feminism in the west as a way for women to extort power from the government, they already have the same rights as men, they have the same enforcements, they have the same access to education and most jobs, so why are they continueing to act like the west is wholely a traditional patriarchy, or that the western governments are condoning patrarchy in some way.


Equal legal rights do not translate to cultural equality, or economic equality, or domestic equality, etc
even IF one agrees women have equal legal rights.

As per it's colloquial definition, "a society in which men occupy most or all positions of authority",
the west, or America, at least, most certainly IS a patriarchy.


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26 Mar 2011, 1:21 pm

ikorack wrote:
Bethie wrote:
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The very idea that feminism might even be necessary in the modern world is quite contentious.


It depends on who you ask-
for the average joe who works with women, goes to school with them, holds doors open for them, feminism might seem redundant.


Might seem redundant why?



Because *HE* doesn't seek to oppress women-
I've noticed many if not most of those who find feminism outdated think feminism is an indictment of INDIVIDUALS (ahem, men),
as opposed to SOCIETAL FORCES,
and none of the INDIVIDUALS in that person's life are likely to be outright sexists or oppressors of women.
ikorack wrote:
Bethie wrote:
For those who make careers of studying cultural oppression as imposed by the media, institutional oppression as imposed by religion and politics, reproductive oppression imposed by religion, etc-

feminism is extremely relevant.


Yes I can agree with this for my own reasons, but why do you?


Why do I...?

Sorry. I am very bad with questions unless they are very specific. :oops:


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26 Mar 2011, 1:26 pm

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Me I see feminism in the west as a way for women to extort power from the government, they already have the same rights as men, they have the same enforcements, they have the same access to education and most jobs, so why are they continuing to act like the west is wholly a traditional patriarchy, or that the western governments are condoning patriarchy in some way.


Equal legal rights do not translate to cultural equality, or economic equality, or domestic equality, etc
even IF one agrees women have equal legal rights.


Yes but when your legal rights are equal(As they are) it becomes time to address such issues outside of the legal arena otherwise you risk creating privilege for your gender. The law can no longer fairly deal with the issues that feminism is meant to address. The law does not disparage women so there is no reason for the continuing legal posturing feminism is currently propagating in the west.

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As per it's colloquial definition, "a society in which men occupy most or all positions of authority",
the west, or America, at least, most certainly IS a patriarchy.


I recommended how feminism can address the cultural issues of equality without creating privileges for themselves, I did not suggest that their job is done, I did however say that they have accomplished equality under the law.



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26 Mar 2011, 1:27 pm

Okay, then. My mistake. :oops:


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26 Mar 2011, 1:31 pm

Bethie wrote:
ikorack wrote:
Bethie wrote:
puddingmouse wrote:

The very idea that feminism might even be necessary in the modern world is quite contentious.


It depends on who you ask-
for the average joe who works with women, goes to school with them, holds doors open for them, feminism might seem redundant.


Might seem redundant why?



Because *HE* doesn't seek to oppress women-
I've noticed many if not most of those who find feminism outdated think feminism is an indictment of INDIVIDUALS (ahem, men),
as opposed to SOCIETAL FORCES,
and none of the INDIVIDUALS in that person's life are likely to be outright sexists or oppressors of women.


But when a man does not see any men at all oppressing women or being outright sexists(? What do you mean by this, what sexism are you suggesting persists that isn't explicit) how can you claim it is unreasonable for someone to think society is equal when all he or she sees is equality? You can claim it is in error and then provide examples on why that is, but can you claim they are being unreasonable?

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ikorack wrote:
Bethie wrote:
For those who make careers of studying cultural oppression as imposed by the media, institutional oppression as imposed by religion and politics, reproductive oppression imposed by religion, etc-

feminism is extremely relevant.


Yes I can agree with this for my own reasons, but why do you?


Why do I...?

Sorry. I am very bad with questions unless they are very specific. :oops:


Why do you do you think the difference in views between people who study gender issues and people who do not generally persists?



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26 Mar 2011, 1:37 pm

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It is only contentious to idiots. What are you talking about, the only one who might create a strawman in this thread is inuyasha and he just showed up. Also the strawman of feminism is a reaction to feminism, feminism itself can't exist as a reaction to a reaction it brought about itself, or that is to say it can't exist as a counter-reaction to the strawman it's radicals have brought about themselves, it makes no sense.

As for the rest, the radicalisation of religion(As a reaction to feminism) and the idealisation of tradition, I do not see any evidence of such things, and you provided no examples. Anti-feminism is gaining more support because men are facing imbalances in certain venues and feminism have not yet responded in a fair and apropriate way. That is to say, the response of feminists to claims that the family courts, alimony, and certain practices of child support are unfair to men are responded to by feminists in less than an understanding way, and somtimes in a misandric way. Anti-feminism itself(In the context of the MRA, and in the context of the west itself) will fall to the wayside when feminists have had time to adapt. Anti-Feminism in other contexts such as the middle east do not really belong in this thread, those societies at least from a western perspective do need feminism, but many think that feminism should not continue as it has in the west.

Me I see feminism in the west as a way for women to extort power from the government, they already have the same rights as men, they have the same enforcements, they have the same access to education and most jobs, so why are they continueing to act like the west is wholely a traditional patriarchy, or that the western governments are condoning patrarchy in some way. I think feminism should reform itself as a protectionist organization, and what I mean by that is, they should be setting out to make sure the powers that have already been allowed by law are being used by the women who need them. I do also feel that MRA's need to roll back some of the family court laws and then fall into the same protectionist principles, that is protecting men and making sure they are using the law in an appropraite way, I also feel that the two would do well to advocate healthy relations between the sexes jointly. If the reaction of western feminism eventually goes the way I have guessed I will likely become involved with the two movements.


Actually, the thread was titled 'feminism vs. equality', the OP was erecting the strawman from the start. The strawman is drawn from radical feminism but radical feminism is not currently significantly active (except maybe in Scandinavia, I don't know).

I don't think the radicalisation of religion is a reaction to feminism, but I think the radicalisation of religion includes anti-feminism because Abrahamic religions hate women. The increasing popularity of conservative forms of Islam and Christianity is an idealisation of tradition. It's a form of 'radical conservatism' that severely seeks to reverse the gains made not just by feminism but by all modernist movements. The fact that this largely takes place in countries that I don't live in does not make this irrelevant to me. I live in a place with high immigration from these countries and it is an increasingly globalised society. Muslims living in Britain are still influencing British culture by virtue of living and reproducing here.

I do agree with you about Western governments not condoning patriarchy and feminism needing to take a protectionist role. I believe the protectionist role is very important. I also agree with you that the indifference or hostility of the Western feminist movement towards men's issues is damaging feminism, and that it will need to adapt. However, I don't think the intention was, or is, to extort power - at least not for the majority.

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I know how theory of mind works, but I cannot evaluate how well yours has worked without also hearing your views on racism.


I don't know what you mean.

I think racism is bad. This is hardly a real opinion, since it's such a common one.

I do think racism is due to a habit that people have of not fully recognising the humanity of someone that is different to them. This is why using theory of mind forces one to challenge this nasty habit. Again, this is hardly a real opinion.

Not everyone with a theory-of-mind malfunction is racist. I think that the collective theory-of-mind malfunction that societies have is the root of racism.


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26 Mar 2011, 1:39 pm

ikorack wrote:
But when a man does not see any men at all oppressing women or being outright sexists(? What do you mean by this, what sexism are you suggesting persists that isn't explicit) how can you claim it is unreasonable for someone to think society is equal when all he or she sees is equality? You can claim it is in error and then provide examples on why that is, but can you claim they are being unreasonable?



I can attest to the fact that those outside of a culturally-oppressed group are often blind to said oppression because they have no experience of it. I don't know how to answer if they are being "unreasonable", merely that those outside said group who *also* don't take on a holistic view of societal institutions and themes, as opposed to forming opinions about society from the daily grind of himself and the few he knows
rarely see recurring themes of oppression in said society.



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Why do you do you think the difference in views between people who study gender issues and people who do not generally persists?


Because views are informed by the information at hand, and those with more in-depth knowledge are likely to have different views?

That's universally-true.


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26 Mar 2011, 1:43 pm

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I think the radicalisation of religion includes anti-feminism because Abrahamic religions hate women.


Most definitely.

If an author wrote and tried to publish the holy texts of said religions today,
he would not land a publishing contract-
they're truly horrific tales of genocide, rape, and slavery.


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26 Mar 2011, 1:50 pm

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The strawman is drawn from radical feminism but radical feminism is not currently significantly active (except maybe in Scandinavia, I don't know).



Even this is fallacious,
as no part of radical feminist philosophy involves misandry.


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26 Mar 2011, 1:52 pm

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Actually, the thread was titled 'feminism vs. equality', the OP was erecting the strawman from the start. The strawman is drawn from radical feminism but radical feminism is not currently significantly active (except maybe in Scandinavia, I don't know).


It is uncommon for a threads OP to actually dictate the tone of a thread. But your assertion that radical feminism is inactive is false, radicals do not have to be at the forefront or in a controlling position in a group to have an effect. The reforms towards domestic violence(That is including gender in a law and subsequently throwing men under the bus.) and their effects on the family court(Domestic abuse allegations which while never making it to court, still affecting custody, and also feminism not going against the current trends of the family courts to award sole or primary custody to women.) have happened because radicals have convinced mainstream feminism that their primary concern is women, and as such their views leak into policies feminists are advocating.

Significantly active is meaningless where radicals exist in a group in an uncontrolled manner their views well effect the policies and views of the group as a whole, regardless of whether or not the mainstream segments actually agree with them fully.

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I don't think the radicalisation of religion is a reaction to feminism, but I think the radicalisation of religion includes anti-feminism because Abrahamic religions hate women. The increasing popularity of conservative forms of Islam and Christianity is an idealisation of tradition. It's a form of 'radical conservatism' that severely seeks to reverse the gains made not just by feminism but by all modernist movements. The fact that this largely takes place in countries that I don't live in does not make this irrelevant to me. I live in a place with high immigration from these countries and it is an increasingly globalised society. Muslims living in Britain are still influencing British culture by virtue of living and reproducing here.


I cannot speak on this issue, I have no experience with it, and unbiased sources are hard to find. I will say that Abrahamic religions are not inherently anti-women, there are denominations which embrace feminism more than others, at least here in America.

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I do agree with you about Western governments not condoning patriarchy and feminism needing to take a protectionist role. I believe the protectionist role is very important. I also agree with you that the indifference or hostility of the Western feminist movement towards men's issues is damaging feminism, and that it will need to adapt. However, I don't think the intention was, or is, to extort power - at least not for the majority.


The effect is an extortion of undue power. Does the intent of the group majority really matter in this instance when the group is supporting the continuation of assigning rights and privileges to women, if the majority of the group really disagrees with these extortions then they need to stop them.



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26 Mar 2011, 2:00 pm

Bethie wrote:
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The strawman is drawn from radical feminism but radical feminism is not currently significantly active (except maybe in Scandinavia, I don't know).



Even this is fallacious,
as no part of radical feminist philosophy involves misandry.


Are you serious? What is your definition of radical feminism, because there are prominent radical feminists who's philosophies could be argued as misandrist.



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26 Mar 2011, 2:03 pm

Bethie wrote:
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I think the radicalisation of religion includes anti-feminism because Abrahamic religions hate women.


Most definitely.

If an author wrote and tried to publish the holy texts of said religions today,
he would not land a publishing contract-
they're truly horrific tales of genocide, rape, and slavery.


A religions holy texts to not dictate the entirety of that religion. And while there are arguments you can use to say that the bible is anti-women, the existence of genocide rape(I suppose punishments of rape and being rape could be argued as anti-woman, but that is not what you said.) and slavery in it's pages is not one of them.

Bethie wrote:
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Why do you do you think the difference in views between people who study gender issues and people who do not generally persists?


Because views are informed by the information at hand, and those with more in-depth knowledge are likely to have different views?

That's universally-true.


This assumes that the information obtained is valid and necessary to form a valid opinion, aka it assumes that anyone who has not studied said information is wrong by virtue of ignorance. Would you agree this is what you are saying? If so i am curious what standards do you apply to processing new information? What kind of information (supporting an argument) do you require to accept an argument as true? Also I am curious if these are your standards why do I not see you supplying sources backing up your claims?



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26 Mar 2011, 2:03 pm

Bethie wrote:
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The strawman is drawn from radical feminism but radical feminism is not currently significantly active (except maybe in Scandinavia, I don't know).



Even this is fallacious,
as no part of radical feminist philosophy involves misandry.


Apart from Valerie Solanas?

Though really, most radical feminism is just Marxist and some of it is separatist. I find it more androphobic than misandristic.


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26 Mar 2011, 2:04 pm

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But your assertion that radical feminism is inactive is false, radicals do not have to be at the forefront or in a controlling position in a group to have an effect.

No, but it's fallacious to ascribe the philosophies and policy advocacy TO said group,
when they are, in fact, espoused only by a MINORITY of that group.
....keeping in mind, of course that feminism is NOT a cohesive group at all. :D
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Significantly active is meaningless where radicals exist in a group in an uncontrolled manner their views well effect the policies and views of the group as a whole, regardless of whether or not the mainstream segments actually agree with them fully.

How might some feminist groups and individuals "control" other feminist groups and individuals? I'm curious.

It's disengenuous to claim that one branch of a philosophy necessarily takes cues from another-
they are distinct entities for well-defined reasons.

It would be much more accurate to assert that one branch affects PUBLIC PERCEPTION of the philosophy as a whole, even wrongly.
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I cannot speak on this issue, I have no experience with it, and unbiased sources are hard to find. I will say that Abrahamic religions are not inherently anti-women, there are denominations which embrace feminism more than others, at least here in America.

Of course they are. The texts they consider divinely-inspired are full of rape, sexual slavery, and more fun themes. "Misogyny" is less-fitting in a description of them than "vicious sadism against women".


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26 Mar 2011, 2:05 pm

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Bethie wrote:
puddingmouse wrote:
The strawman is drawn from radical feminism but radical feminism is not currently significantly active (except maybe in Scandinavia, I don't know).



Even this is fallacious,
as no part of radical feminist philosophy involves misandry.


Apart from Valerie Solanas?

Though really, most radical feminism is just Marxist and some of it is separatist. I find it more androphobic than misandristic.


A person is not a philosophy, but all right.

Although I wonder what part of radical feminism is androphobic?


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