slowmutant wrote:
Of course, I meant "domestic partnership" and not "marriage." But if any gays or lesbians feel they need a religious ceremony, they may be SOL. If we are going to have domestic partnerships for same-sex couples and reserve marriages for traditional couples. By the way, it's very impolite to SHOUT.
It may be impolite, but it's often the only way to get the point across to the stubbornly ignorant. Domestic partnerships would be for EVERYBODY. If you want any of the current legal perquisites of marriage (property, insurance, custody, etc.), then you would have to get a domestic partnership. Marriage would be entirely optional and a purely private affair WITH NO LEGAL RAMIFICATIONS AT ALL. The government would not handle divorces (dissolution of marriage). However, divorces would not have legally-binding property or custody settlements, either. Instead dissolutions of domestic partnerships would have legally-binding property and custody settlements.
Marriage would NOT BE RECOGNIZED BY THE STATE AT ALL. It would have no legal existence--or no more legal existence than membership in the "Happy Fun Time Super Decoder Ring Club" would have. And there are religious institutions around that would be happy to marry any two (or three, four, five, etc.) consenting adults if it weren't prohibited by law.