How are we, universally, not a part of their group? After all, among aspies there are individuals who have been rewarded as elites in NT society. One that very quickly comes to mind is Nobel Laureate Vernon L Smith, an economist. He has one of the highest awards in economics, and thus is clearly high ranking in a grouping that is likely dominated by NTs(they outnumber us in most things and this likely even includes academic economics) as such, how can it be universally said that we are excluded from them or even accepted as beneath them?
If aspies can be accepted in NT society as equal to or superior than a number of NTs then doesn't the argument for secession utterly break down? I think it does given that your own position seems to require active antipathy between parties, and from what I see, aspies can be accepted in NT society as equal to or superior than a number of NTs without antipathy, even though we may have some disadvantages in this due to differences. As such, I would think that a better model for NT-AS relations is one of differentness and integration issues as a result of this, but not to an extent and lacking an AS group active and large enough or a landmass colonizable enough that a separation movement would be beneficial.(even assuming that AS people integrate as well amongst each other as NTs do, an assumption I have no evidence on)