fidelis wrote:
What makes revenge worse than original act that caused the hate? There are many times I turn the other cheek, but on a rare occasion, I will get back tenfold. The way I see it, if someone does something to you that makes you hate them, you should relieve yourself of that hate.
revenge is just putting more bad stuff out into the world. this is a closed-loop system we live in, and the bad stuff has nowhere else to which it can go, so it just hangs around and festers in this poor world and makes for a more poisonous environment for the rest of us - IOW "when the elephants fight, it is the grass which suffers."
when you hate and exact revenge, what this means is that you have proven to god that you are thinking and behaving no better than the next evil person. evil begets evil. you can do better than this. so keep turning the other cheek "seventy times seven." when you meet your maker after having lived a life "by the sword," do you think you will be greeted with,
"WELL DONE! you have spread terror near and far by smiting thine enemies with malice aforethought! who needs all this "love thy neighbor" and "golden rule" crap?" have you not done evil yourself and would want to be cut some slack on your part? then how could you deny this same forgiveness to others who have wronged you?
if you still feel you must stoop to revenge, remember that it is a dish best served cold - IOW, dispassionately let karma take its own action, and watch from afar, as the universal law of cause and effect has the untimate "revenge" on us all.
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I didn't feel sorry for myself, then who would?"