Sticks and stones versus words, CMI Article
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Sticks and stones may break bones, but … “Your words hurt me!” say atheists
by Calvin Smith
Published: 16 February 2010(GMT+10)
I nearly fell out of my chair! I had been asked by an atheist group (the Center for Inquiry) to come down and speak at a meeting they were holding to discuss their recent promotion of a bus advertising campaign on the Toronto Transit line declaring “There is probably no God, so relax and enjoy your life.” They apparently wanted a “religious” view represented so had invited me.
After the initial pre-determined questions to the panel members were asked, the audience (all atheists except for one to my knowledge) were invited to ask questions. The (biologist) gentlemen’s question (above) was issued to me after I had declared I was a creationist.
Free thought (but not for all)!
The group’s mission statement reads: The mission of the Center for Inquiry is to foster a secular society based on science, reason, freedom of inquiry, and humanist values. There were “free thought” posters displayed all around the facility so I was flabbergasted to hear the man state he was offended by the fact that I didn’t agree with him!
I said “Sir, you don’t believe the same things I do, and I’m not offended by that. If you choose to be offended by what I don’t believe I have no control over that. And to be honest sir, considering the intellectual environment we are in here today (the fact that I was invited specifically to provide opposing views!) I think it’s rather pathetic that you would even make that comment.” His fellow atheists actually agreed and the crowd seemed embarrassed for/because of him and he sat down.
It was a lively session and afterwards (even though they did not agree with my position) several people came over, shook my hand and made comments like “You had good arguments”, “We should have you back” etc. Many of the group represented what I would consider honest intellectuals that enjoyed the challenge of open, honest debate. However (like the gentleman mentioned above), this is not always the case. He seemed to be indicating that the mere fact of me disagreeing with him was hurtful and offensive.
Another example occurred recently when one of our Australian CMI speakers was engaging in a discussion with an atheist from France after delivering a creation talk. Towards the end of the conversation, the atheist was defending the morality of non-Christian religions. When the CMI speaker asked; "So who was it who burnt all those cars in the riots in French cities in recent years?", the atheist became super-defensive, saying it was nothing to do with their religion but because of their poverty, lack of education and employment opportunities, and of the mistreatment at the hands of white Frenchmen.
But when the CMI speaker countered, “Then what about the wealthy/middle-class well-educated 9/11 hijackers, what was their excuse?” The atheist’s reaction was interesting. “When you speak about Islam in this way, it hurts me!” “I feel so hurt" said the atheist.
Why so hurt?
Why the declaration of “hurt” and “offence”? Perhaps to put Christians on the defense and to stop them from being effective against (by giving answers) what the world is teaching. Douglas Wilson points this out in his excellent response to the atheist Sam Harris’s “Letter to a Christian Nation”. In “Letter from a Christian Citizen” Wilson notes that Harris starts off his anti-Christian diatribe by pointing out some of the most hostile responses to his book The End of Faith came from Christians. “The truth is that many who claim to be transformed by Christ’s love are deeply, even murderously, intolerant of criticism”.1
Wilson believes Harris does this as a tactical matter to “soften” up his Christian readers: “You opened your book this way because you knew (quite accurately) that Christians generally would be upset by it, would be put on the defensive, would be sorrowful over what some have done to you in the name of Christ … ”2
“The Christian Church has a problem with this kind of person in our midst. We are embarrassed by it, believing it to be inconsistent with what Christ taught … ”3
And of course, it is, but Christians cannot be held responsible for what another that professes Christ has done. However, disagreeing with someone is not the same as being offensive. But the world has seemed to have caught on to the fact that many Christians are so sensitive to being “offensive” that they have equated “disagreement” with “offense”. (This is a reversal of the fallacy of equivocation, where one word is used in two different ways; here, the fallacy is giving two different concepts the same meaning.)
So if a non-believer cries “I’m hurt”, many Christians will stop disagreeing with them. It’s a great (even though it is phony) debating tactic, and if it is effective, why wouldn’t atheists use it to their advantage? After all, if there is no God, evolution must be true, and then “survival of the fittest” becomes the only true “natural” law.
Demolish arguments
2 Corinthians 10:3-5 makes it clear that Christians are not about using the weapons of the world to reach out to the lost, but that God wants the “soldiers for Christ” to demolish arguments against God. (Note that you cannot demolish your opponent’s arguments without disagreeing with them at some point!)
I had another atheist engage me after a talk claiming he took offence because some Christians in the audience had chuckled at a quote I had shown from Richard Dawkins.4 He said Christians shouldn’t laugh and mock people. My point was that 1) I do not have control over what others do (I had not laughed) and 2) people weren’t mocking him (to attack or treat with ridicule, contempt, or derision); it was simply amusing what Dawkins said, so why not laugh? It just seemed like an emotional tactic to make me feel bad as he wasn’t able to counter my arguments.
Trying not to be offensive when debating is a biblical principle: If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all— Romans 12:18. But we are to give answers for our faith (1 Peter 3:15) as long as we do so with “ … gentleness and respect … ”
So beware the tactic of people crying “hurt” to shut you down. (This strategy has become so effective that it sometimes has Christians arguing more with one another than with the enemies of the Gospel, which ironically can cause great hurt to the body of Christ!) Do not be tricked into inaction if someone decides to be offended by what you stand for.
References
1. Letter from a Christian Citizen, American Vision Inc., 2007, page 3.
2. Ref. 1, page 4.
3. Ref. 1, page 5.
4. “Evolution has been observed. It’s just that it hasn’t been observed while it’s happening.” December 2004 Interview Bill Moyers ‘Now’ transcript at: www.pbs.org/now/transcript/transcript34 ... ml#dawkins
Link: http://creation.com/atheist-word-hurt
Is this a joke? To the scientists who work in evolution and to those who accept it, evolution is simply fact. If someone were to argue with me and not wanting to accept evolution, I could give the facts but otherwise I couldn't care less if they believed it or not. Why should I get upset over someone not wanting to believe something that there is plenty of evidence for? I think I've personally offended more people with some of my arguments against creationism. Also, this portrayal of everyone who accepts evolution as atheists is getting tiring. I'm not saying that some aren't atheists because some, like Richard Dawkins, are. I think that the next edition of the Oxford Dictionary, under Strawman Fallacy, will quote some lines out of the above article as a prime example.
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Dawkins doesn't believe in Evolution anymore but still is an atheist.
After finding out that the earth isn't old enough to evolve the human genome,
never mind all the other ones,
Dawkins said extraterrestrials that evolved in an older galaxy must have wrote it.
However, he doesn't like to admit that it has more code in it than all versions of
Windows, Linux and MacOS. He would rather believe it fell out of the sky in a
meteorite after some other planet's star exploded, and that the universe is
infinite so the DNA must have formed somewhere out there.
So the primordial soup is down the drain. Watch "Ben Stein Expelled".
The top evolutionists admit they don't even believe they have free will,
or that there is even any reason for them or anyone else to be alive.
Yet they think they are "free" (and others oppressed by God).
The top evolutionists admit they don't even believe they have free will,
or that there is even any reason for them or anyone else to be alive.
Yet they think they are "free" (and others oppressed by God).
Ben Stein is a hack, and you can't sensibly defend free will from a religious basis either.
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Ah, you are referring to his answer to the interview question of what, other than abiogenesis, Dawkins would accept as technically possible origins of life on Earth.
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I won't call you a liar because that is against forum rules. I will say you are totally wrong.
In my own experience, I have learned to take anything a committed Christian says about anything with several grains of salty. I have learned that these Bible Pounders are quite at odds with fact.
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I won't call you a liar because that is against forum rules. I will say you are totally wrong.
In my own experience, I have learned to take anything a committed Christian says about anything with several grains of salty. I have learned that these Bible Pounders are quite at odds with fact.
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The bold part had completely slipped my mind. Good to know, though.
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There is no argument claiming what atheists say, so there is no strawman. I think you just like to call out fallacies? Shall we get a wikipedia list and just enumerate the formal and informal fallacies and then claim that whoever can spell enough of them correctly has won the argument?
There is no argument claiming what atheists say, so there is no strawman. I think you just like to call out fallacies? Shall we get a wikipedia list and just enumerate the formal and informal fallacies and then claim that whoever can spell enough of them correctly has won the argument?
When I read the article for the first time, I initially thought that it implied that evolutionists were atheists. I missed the part that the guy spoke at a humanist society. That explains some of it. From the first part I was arguing against the the idea that evolutionists say that they take offense as an argumentative tactic against creationists. That simply isn't the case. Evolutionary scientists work with the evidence at hand. I see though that the article says that atheists in general use the "taking offense" tactic to argue with religious individuals. However, this to me seems a bit fishy because it looks like the examples given could be words taken out of context and their meaning twisted to suit the author. For example, consider the following quote:
But when the CMI speaker countered, “Then what about the wealthy/middle-class well-educated 9/11 hijackers, what was their excuse?” The atheist’s reaction was interesting. “When you speak about Islam in this way, it hurts me!” “I feel so hurt" said the atheist.
When talking about the 9/11 hijackers, from my experience the person was most likely saying that it would be as insulting Muslims to say that suicide bombers demonstrate that Islam promotes violence as it would be for Christians to say that the bombing of abortion demonstrates that Christianity does. I'm not saying that that's what he said, but just pointing out what he may have been getting. This is also not an indication of my personal view, I'm just giving my impression.
That would be the fallacy fallacy.
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I suppose I could accept "whineing" but the difference between "to" and "too" screws up totally the meaning of what you intend to say. To spell it "Whinneing" in the next sentence is a bit too creative for me. Unpardonable. Sorry, I make typos too but I get picky.
His fellow atheists actually agreed and the crowd seemed embarrassed for/because of him and he sat down.
So the point is that among a group of atheists an overwhelming majority are in favour of respecting the right of others to hold a different opinion, such that the one person who claimed to be hurt by someone else's view was conspicuously alone in feeling this way? That's very unexpected. Usually when humans hold beliefs, a significant proportion of any assembled group of them will be somewhat less than tolerant to opposed beliefs.
Consider for instance what is happening in my country at the moment in respect of precisely the kind of bus bill board Mr Smith describes. Offended Christians claiming to be hurt by this opinion that differs to their own, and who have never attempted to have religious signs proclaiming the existence of their God banned, are trying to get the signs banned and have taken legal steps accordingly.
Most atheists I know can tolerate the differing opinions of Christians, to the extent where they will politely humour their religious rituals where it is socially polite to do so. Alternatively, most Christians I know in person are offended and hurt by the expression of differing opinions. Many Christian people consider it rude for non-Christians to not put up with the Christian opinion and even expect them to participate in their rituals, but also think it is very rude for people to utter opposing views in their presence.
What does this say about Christians? That they are wrong? That they are trying to shut down opposing opinions for nefarious purposes? Should I assume that their professed hurt or offensive is entirely false and simply a dirty tactic to prevent others from being able to argue an alternative point of view to their own? Or does it merely offer evidence in support of the hypothesis that since Christians tend to be human, at least a portion of them will be intolerant toward at least some views that differ to their own?
Why so hurt?
Some people find bigotry and prejudice hurtful. I myself find it at least mildly offensive and certainly distasteful.
For instance, I find it offensive and distasteful when people equate every Christian with child sexual abuse and other such exploitation, or the blowing up of abortion clinics, or people named David Koresh, or that group of folks who kept turning out to protest about homosexual marriage at the funerals of Americans killed in combat.
I expect many people are offended or hurt or both by bigotry and prejudice. Do you know anyone who would be hurt and offended if every Christian and Christianity itself were judged according to the worst acts of those who could be associated with Christians or Christianity?
Actually they can be, just as all of Islam can be held responsible for the acts of a few rioting car burners or other miscreants. Of course arguably this should not happen, but that's bigotry and prejudice for you. Perhaps this explains why people find it hurtful and offensive; maybe being offended and/or hurt by unfair and unreasonable judgements that should not be made, is a common human trait. What do you think iamnotaparakeet? Is it natural enough for humans to take offence and feel hurt about unreasonable, unfair judgements that should not be made?
Actually to at least some people it is. Very probably it is to many people.
I find it surprising that in a large group such as the author described for the atheist meeting that there were not many more inclined to be offended at opposing views. That is not the norm, and in fact is a rather exceptional level of tolerance. I expect the context had something to do this as I would not expect any large randomly assembled group (including any randomly assembled group of atheists) to be tolerant to opposing views in such proportions.
As described earlier, at least some Christians are offended enough by an opposing view to legally challenge the right of others to display a view that opposes their own. If stating disagreement is not offensive, then why is that these signs stating there is no God are sufficiently offensive to at least some Christians that they attempt to ban them, and expect to do so on the basis that they are offensive?
Of course I do not expect every Christian is so intolerant. Such an expectation would make as much sense as judging all of Islam on the basis of the acts of some, and would probably be about as hurtful and offensive, although not necessarily to identical groups of people.....funny that.
After finding out that the earth isn't old enough to evolve the human genome,
never mind all the other ones,
Dawkins said extraterrestrials that evolved in an older galaxy must have wrote it.
However, he doesn't like to admit that it has more code in it than all versions of
Windows, Linux and MacOS. He would rather believe it fell out of the sky in a
meteorite after some other planet's star exploded, and that the universe is
infinite so the DNA must have formed somewhere out there.
So the primordial soup is down the drain. Watch "Ben Stein Expelled".
The top evolutionists admit they don't even believe they have free will,
or that there is even any reason for them or anyone else to be alive.
Yet they think they are "free" (and others oppressed by God).
Earth is 4.5 billion years old. That's plenty of time. We don't yet know really how evolution works, just that it does, and that it has been demonstrated to work in simple creatures like worms. A scientist got some worms, then took away an essential amino acid they needed to live. Most died-but not all. The survivors started making the amino acid. That's likely how evolution works. There's stasis, then some organism has the environment change on them, and the environment tends to change frequently. The ones that don't die adapt. The ones that couldn't adapt are history. That's why there are no genetic "dead ends" (although useless genes and appendages can be found in many animals), they all bit the dust! Panspermia (which is what is described above) is a nonstarter with most scientists.
Christians like debates, since they can fire off stuff faster than the atheist can think, and get him into a cul-de-sac, then from a superior position force creationism on him. My dad played that game with me a LOT during my teenage years, except that atheist debaters don't get beaten with wood planks for not agreeing with creationism. It's funny that serious people will argue that the earth is 6,000 years old, and go from there to "the earth was created in six days, the Bible says so" and then hop to "that means that we've had a thousand years per day, and God rested on the 7th day, therefore Jesus is coming soon, so we don't need to worry about anything, because Jesus is coming soon". How convenient that the conclusion supports what they already believe!
The premise is faulty, because the earth was NOT created in six days 6,000 years ago, and the creationists seriously argue that Adam and Eve rode brontosauruses around, but the dinos died in the Flood. I have yet to hear a creationist explain fossils. "Well, God's just funky that way" seems to be the answer most of the time. Also, the only reason why creationists don't slay the actual arguers, as opposed to the argument, is because US law prevents it. For a thousand years the Christian Church burned at the stake all dissenters. Modern Christians would too, except the smell of burning human flesh would attract the cops.
After finding out that the earth isn't old enough to evolve the human genome,
never mind all the other ones,
Dawkins said extraterrestrials that evolved in an older galaxy must have wrote it.
However, he doesn't like to admit that it has more code in it than all versions of
Windows, Linux and MacOS. He would rather believe it fell out of the sky in a
meteorite after some other planet's star exploded, and that the universe is
infinite so the DNA must have formed somewhere out there.
So the primordial soup is down the drain. Watch "Ben Stein Expelled".
The top evolutionists admit they don't even believe they have free will,
or that there is even any reason for them or anyone else to be alive.
Yet they think they are "free" (and others oppressed by God).
Earth is 4.5 billion years old. That's plenty of time. We don't yet know really how evolution works, just that it does, and that it has been demonstrated to work in simple creatures like worms. A scientist got some worms, then took away an essential amino acid they needed to live. Most died-but not all. The survivors started making the amino acid. That's likely how evolution works. There's stasis, then some organism has the environment change on them, and the environment tends to change frequently. The ones that don't die adapt. The ones that couldn't adapt are history. That's why there are no genetic "dead ends" (although useless genes and appendages can be found in many animals), they all bit the dust! Panspermia (which is what is described above) is a nonstarter with most scientists.
Christians like debates, since they can fire off stuff faster than the atheist can think, and get him into a cul-de-sac, then from a superior position force creationism on him. My dad played that game with me a LOT during my teenage years, except that atheist debaters don't get beaten with wood planks for not agreeing with creationism. It's funny that serious people will argue that the earth is 6,000 years old, and go from there to "the earth was created in six days, the Bible says so" and then hop to "that means that we've had a thousand years per day, and God rested on the 7th day, therefore Jesus is coming soon, so we don't need to worry about anything, because Jesus is coming soon". How convenient that the conclusion supports what they already believe!
The premise is faulty, because the earth was NOT created in six days 6,000 years ago, and the creationists seriously argue that Adam and Eve rode brontosauruses around, but the dinos died in the Flood. I have yet to hear a creationist explain fossils. "Well, God's just funky that way" seems to be the answer most of the time. Also, the only reason why creationists don't slay the actual arguers, as opposed to the argument, is because US law prevents it. For a thousand years the Christian Church burned at the stake all dissenters. Modern Christians would too, except the smell of burning human flesh would attract the cops.
Actually, it's far more likely that those worms already had that trait of producing that acid. (Although the trait could possibly have become active due to the change in diet.) There is no "stasis", but their special trait would not have made a significant difference to their survival before the acid was removed from their diet. Something that can comfortably be called "adaptation" typically occurs over the course of several generations, rather than within one generation.
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