iamnotaparakeet wrote:
abaisse wrote:
I think people tend to be more bold online then they would be if they were addressing a room of people. Facebook is not anonymous and I often see some of the same tactlessness there.
I've seen that in Facebook too, but there tends to be a consequence, normally, of them losing facebook-friends en masse along with the possibility of it negatively affecting relationships that one has developed in person. Some people certainly don't care about how others think of them and that might be part of the reason for people using real profiles of themselves to harass and otherwise behave like brats, but intuitively I think anonymity would be more likely to encourage the continuance of such behavior even for such people as would not mind to attach their own names to such reprehensibleness. I could certainly be wrong. When debating on facebook it usually occurred that a few people would abandon any semblance to rationality and just go straight for rabid execration, especially when those enraged consider their opposition to be heretical.
I do think people
can be more reprehensible when anonymous. On the Facebook subject, I remember a couple years back when many of my high school friends were friending this person that no one remembered. One would logically question, why one would confirm this person, but whatever. This person (who was anonymous with their fake name) just watched profiles and eventually became a horribly harassing troll.

That's a whole new league of loserdom- to have that time & desire. They got away with it though because no one knew who they were. I am sure they made a new profile and preyed on other high schools.
With that said, during the last presidential election, I was pretty shocked at some of the words exchanged between friends and family. Overall, Facebook is a good place to view passive aggressive behavior.