Atheists vs. LDS.
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I dunno...
I'm not LDS (Mormon). Any religion that claims to have the safety of one's soul in view is duty-bound to evangelize, I think. It's a moral obligation. It's like CPR. You aren't OBLIGATED to perform CRP per se. Even if you do, you shoulder the risk that you might break the sternum or ribs, for which the would-be victim whose life you saved could reasonably sue you for damages. No good deed goes unpunished. But then again, I suppose it's better to be out the money for damages and preserve a life than to just let someone die.
Same goes for missionary work. You believe THIS to be necessary. You believe souls are in danger. You MUST at least try to rescue those who have gone astray.
I'm not fond of the door-to-door style. It really is invasive and annoying. Nevertheless, it could very well be that those who are going door-to-door are themselves misled, in which case it gives you the opportunity as the "non-believer" or "true believer," whichever the case may be, to teach these people and challenge their assertions. You may not "win," but the least you can do is "plant the seed." It is, after all, what they themselves are trying to do.
I think a better approach is take your beliefs to the people in such a way that 1) you satisfy a genuine need of the community and 2) the people of their own free will come to you. Generally speaking that's what a lot of Christian churches do. The door-to-door thing is fine, but look what happened when the atheist turned the experiment on Mormons in SLC! And it's hypocrisy. Why turn away someone following your own example? Geez, if your faith really is superior, and you really know that to be so, wouldn't you WANT to invite the atheists in and try to teach them why it is you see their beliefs as being in error?
It's also indicative of that, just as with "good Christians," there really aren't that many truly "good Mormons," either. Apparently being a "good atheist" isn't quite as difficult.
I don't agree with atheists, obviously, but thanks for sharing the video!
While I'm not arguing your point, I just want to point out that CPR done properly should, usually, result in broken bones, even if it's just minor cracks. Of course, children's bones have more give to them and elderly bones are more brittle...
I think it's ridiculous that people can sue for this... You're damned if you do, damned if you don't because if you have CPR skills and don't administer them when needed, you could be held just as liable.
anyways, just sayin"..
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While I'm not arguing your point, I just want to point out that CPR done properly should, usually, result in broken bones, even if it's just minor cracks. Of course, children's bones have more give to them and elderly bones are more brittle...
I think it's ridiculous that people can sue for this... You're damned if you do, damned if you don't because if you have CPR skills and don't administer them when needed, you could be held just as liable.
anyways, just sayin"..
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Um... It's JUST an ANALOGY, darnit!! !
Not meaning to change the subject, but I think there were a few cases that made it to personal injury court. But after about a decade of that, there was a so-called "common sense" movement in the court system to the effect that absurdly frivolous lawsuits were really thrown out before the trial began. After that, the lawyers who dared take cases like that at all went back to their class-action ambulance-chasing. Incidentally, I'm acquainted with most of the lawyers in town where I live, and for the most part they are nothing like that. It's a very low-character thing to do to sue someone for helping you, and I think lawyers and judges now recognize that. I heard a local story about how a man came to a lawyer for a personal injury case. He was injured because he tripped over something in someone's yard. The lawyer asked him why he was walking through that person's yard, and the guy refused to give a straight or consistent answer. The lawyer asked him to leave and never took the case. I worked for a lawyer once myself. I remember a lady coming in wanting to sue a school over withholding pay. Supposedly she'd been a teacher and had become disabled while on the job. The district settled out-of-court, but she felt she'd been treated unfairly (so she said). After her consult, she left in a foul mood and I asked my boss what happened. He explained he didn't take her case. I asked why. He said, "Because if I take a case to court, I want to win." lol He also explained that his children were in that same school district, and no lawyer in his right mind ever really wants to sue a school. The woman had already agreed to the settlement earlier, and all she was doing was trying to squeeze more money out of them so she wouldn't have to go back to work. He also had some choice words to say about her personally, too, but that's another topic all it's own.
The point is people will try to sue over some of the stupidest things. Failure to recognize that you owe someone your life is perhaps the lowest of the low.
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I don't mean to get too personal about it, but I had no idea you were a former Mormon. What was it that led you away from or out of it?
Just curious, and will understand if you don't want to discuss it.
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It's the oldest from of salesmanship and it still works. I find it invasive because I feel someone is stepping on my beliefs when they offer a new or alternative one, but it is fine so long as they don't return after you told them that you are not interested, and that you don't want them to come back. Be frank about it (not in a rude way) but tell them(right off the back before you've allowed them to make their sell or pitch) that Mormonism isn't right for you, and that you don't want them coming back. They are young boys or girls, and they are out there "growing up" on their missions, and rejection is part of their growth and maturity. They won't mind someone who politely tells them off the back what I said above. They may wish that you felt differently but it is far better then having a door slammed on you, or being lead on only to be told later that you have no interest in joining.
Most of these young men or women spend their summers during high school working to save up for their mission, especially if they come from a lower-income background. I don't have a number but someone once told me that it's upwards of $10,000 for 2 years of rent, transportation, 2-month training before their mission, food, etc(and the church helps foot the bill). On their mission, they wake up at 6 in the mourning and exercise, do prayer, and organize their day and check the routes that they'll take and who they'll see that day. That is in addition to bible study, meeting regularly with church leaders and members, attending functions, serving the community, and being in bed by 9PM. You will find them on the mean streets of Oakland and the posh streets of Beverly Hills, as well as overseas in the UK, NZ, South America, Europe, etc. Beyond the religious aspect of ones mission, you also grow up very quickly, master time management, gain excellent people and leadership skills, learn the art of social dynamics, learn to take initiative, learn the altruism, how to structure and organize yourself, your schedule, and your life, learn to be open to all cultures and learn the customs of others, learn new languages and interact with people who you are not accustomed to(it's no wonder that mormons are most liberal major religious group on the topic of Immigration) and go through experiences and meet people that change your life forever. They leave their mission with a PHD in life, maturity beyond their age, and are leagues ahead of most kids their age who decided to spend it going to college (overwhelming majority of people who leave for their mission return and attend college anyways).
I don't believe in their religion but one doesn't need to belong to a religion to appreciate, admire, and identify with the human element involved. This is someone's kid, and this is more then just bringing people to their faith. Please don't give these young boys and girls a hard time. Just be frank and let them know off the back that you won't join their religion ever and ask them politely to never come back.
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I don't mean to get too personal about it, but I had no idea you were a former Mormon. What was it that led you away from or out of it?
Just curious, and will understand if you don't want to discuss it.
There were a lot of little things, but I think my main gripe over the LDS church was the personification of god. Obviously, this has led me to reject quite a few religions.
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I don't mean to get too personal about it, but I had no idea you were a former Mormon. What was it that led you away from or out of it?
Just curious, and will understand if you don't want to discuss it.
There were a lot of little things, but I think my main gripe over the LDS church was the personification of god. Obviously, this has led me to reject quite a few religions.
Gotcha. And unless you care to elaborate, I'm content to leave it at that. I've found the few ex-Mormons I've ever met have a tendency to reject religion and notions of God in general. If I fall into a vis-a-vis religious discussion with them and this comes up, I'll politely change the subject. I don't know about your experience, but the one or two others I had the chance to know did not leave their church on a happy note.
Most of these young men or women spend their summers during high school working to save up for their mission, especially if they come from a lower-income background. I don't have a number but someone once told me that it's upwards of $10,000 for 2 years of rent, transportation, 2-month training before their mission, food, etc(and the church helps foot the bill). On their mission, they wake up at 6 in the mourning and exercise, do prayer, and organize their day and check the routes that they'll take and who they'll see that day. That is in addition to bible study, meeting regularly with church leaders and members, attending functions, serving the community, and being in bed by 9PM. You will find them on the mean streets of Oakland and the posh streets of Beverly Hills, as well as overseas in the UK, NZ, South America, Europe, etc. Beyond the religious aspect of ones mission, you also grow up very quickly, master time management, gain excellent people and leadership skills, learn the art of social dynamics, learn to take initiative, learn the altruism, how to structure and organize yourself, your schedule, and your life, learn to be open to all cultures and learn the customs of others, learn new languages and interact with people who you are not accustomed to(it's no wonder that mormons are most liberal major religious group on the topic of Immigration) and go through experiences and meet people that change your life forever. They leave their mission with a PHD in life, maturity beyond their age, and are leagues ahead of most kids their age who decided to spend it going to college (overwhelming majority of people who leave for their mission return and attend college anyways).
I don't believe in their religion but one doesn't need to belong to a religion to appreciate, admire, and identify with the human element involved. This is someone's kid, and this is more then just bringing people to their faith. Please don't give these young boys and girls a hard time. Just be frank and let them know off the back that you won't join their religion ever and ask them politely to never come back.
Thats a very fair description of LDS full time missionary work. As a less active (Don't got to church) Mormon myself I was preparing for a full time mission just before becoming less active due to a number of things. Also from experiences as a leader in the church (Elder's Quorum President, Ward Mission Leader & part time missionary all at the time & at the year of 18 too, very stressful ) I noticed that went missionaries come back from there missions a good deal of them are lazy in helping out in there local church communities & some of have happen to go less active.
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Thats a very fair description of LDS full time missionary work. As a less active (Don't got to church) Mormon myself I was preparing for a full time mission just before becoming less active due to a number of things. Also from experiences as a leader in the church (Elder's Quorum President, Ward Mission Leader & part time missionary all at the time & at the year of 18 too, very stressful ) I noticed that went missionaries come back from there missions a good deal of them are lazy in helping out in there local church communities & some of have happen to go less active.
Well it's good to hear a mormon perspective. I guess my own experience has been similar and different. I had a close friend who was a member and would often go along with him when he went to his singles ward (SF and Stanford one) and it seemed every person there either had a great job or was on there to one, and the majority of them had gone on their mission. But I've also known family members from back in Hawaii who come back from Brazil or something and if the environment back home isn't supportive of all the changes you've undergone, you revert back to whatever the norm that environment is. Some of those family members of mine who are members come from low-income backgrounds and either just go back to being normal church members, drop out, or look to college with hope of a better future. That doesn't discredit anything from my original post, nor an excuse not to go on a mission if you are mormon (finances and other things can be though), it's just the human experience and the positives for the individual going on that mission more then outweigh the negatives.
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Yes I hear of few stories from friends that served missions both positives & negative. One friend had problems saving to up to go on a mission had a good mission to a country of his ancestry & then after his mission started up a very successful business. Another her husband died of cancer a year before then served in Switzerland in a Chinese speaking mission & after her moved to New Zealand to live with her family.
Plus I head experiences of persecution of missionaries by the Russian Mafia & the Greek police. (The Greek police arrest them put them in jail & make them wear there underwear)