Hissssss! Evil! Sexist! Biggot!
How dare she tell us that there's such a thing as a role that men need to fill - vile oppresor!
And these chauvanistic women she works with.....
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Any possibility that she might be right?
K-R-X wrote:
Most people don't have the experience and education for entry level jobs anymore until they are 30. Most demand a college degree and at least five years of experience for the same entry level jobs people picked up in their early 20s before. These the same jobs that pay enough to do the traditional things like buying a house or supporting children.
So women who expect men to jump out of high school and be their fantacy white stallion are the ones who, in fact, need to grow up and learn to deal with the real world. Men may mature later, but this article proves that many women do too, being to immature and deluted to move past their childhood dollhouses and get to know men as they actually are.
I think the education system is laying an egg and I'd agree, people are coming out completely unqualified. What might be a possibility in terms of the gender ratio in employment is that women seem to generally have a better nack for weaving order out of chaos, guys tend to be more "give me A, give me B, give me C", and companies these days do not want to train - they'd rather talk a big one, not train, and fire people who don't just 'get it'. Obviously that's a horrible thing to happen to any guy or girl (which giving a few generalities doesn't mean that it doesn't happen to both often).
On the gender role issue though - I think the op's quoted article does point out a LOT of cognitive dissonance. That and, if guys feel utterly inferior in that they can't compete, don't have the genetic intelligence or ability to, and there's no blue collar job for them... why would they date? I don't think these women asking "Where have all the real men gone?" are really missing much from the guys staying at home - the later are just trying to find ways to get through the week without slitting their own wrists often enough.
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