AdiaofArcadia wrote:
I feel that you may be right. The strangest was when one of my LDS friends went towards atheism and was still very strongly against gay rights. I wanted to ask her why she still felt that way but I never got the courage to. If she really was an atheist she couldn't hold beliefs that it was against God's will, since she didn't believe in God, and I couldn't think of anything else that would make someone want to repress other humans. But the temple thing makes sense. But I also think that the government would never make someone perform a marriage against their will.
There are all kinds out there. I dated (well, she will say that we dated, I would say that she's someone i used to hang out with within a group of friends) a mormon girl once who was ok with people being full-on gay or lesbian but hated bisexuals and said they should just make up their minds.
It also turns out that ethics and morality don't have to come from religion. They are just usually dictated by religion. Maybe your friend is just really closed-minded.
I don't need a carrot and stick to decide to be a decent human being. I suppose some people have a different definition of decent though.