It certainly should be legal. It harms nobody and is strictly a moral issue. People who believe it's wrong or a sin are perfectly free not to patronize hookers and to make their beliefs known by protesting. It's legal to have sex with a total stranger, it's legal to take money from a total stranger, it should be legal to combine those two. I do think that if it's legal and there are brothels, there should also be some for women, with hot, built guys. Nobody ever brings that up. It's always "It's demeaning to women", "It's a sin, the Bible says so", or "My husband/boyfriend will cheat on me!"
1. It's not demeaning to women, it's empowering. We have a choice about what to do with our bodies, and while we aren't "selling our body" we would simply be performing a service with it in exchange for cash. What is demeaning to women is to arrest them over and over for having sex for money. What's demeaning to women is their having to turn over their earnings to their pimp because he's got the local cops in his pocket. What's demeaning to women is having to throw a beat cop a freebie in the back of the squad car in exchange for not arresting her.
2. Whether or not it's a sin isn't part of it because that's a matter of personal belief. If we are going to legislate sexual practices based on what some religions see as sinful then we need to make sex between everyone except a married man and woman illegal. They should have restrictions too. It should be illegal to masturbate, to have anal or oral sex, to use birth control, to pull out, to use sex toys, and to have sex simply for pleasure rather than to procreate. I don't see that happening though so why not let prostitution be legal? I could do it legally if I asked for, say, an ipad instead of cash. If a guy asked me to have sex and I said "Sure, if you will let me have your ipad", that's the same thing, he's just giving me merchandise rather than cash.
3. Anybody who wants to cheat will cheat. The type of cheating that is least threatening to a relationship is cheating for pure sex. Hookers aren't going to be dating the guy or having a relationship on the side with him, and the chance of him falling in love and leaving the wife/gf are pretty small. If you are with a cheater who makes a habit of it, they will always cheat. That's the type who has cheated from the early part of the marriage and also during dating. That type will always cheat and hookers or no, they will find somebody. The type of cheater who does so for emotional reasons because their partner won't give them any emotional support or affection, etc won't be going to the hooker, the hooker doesn't have what they want. That's the easiest type of cheater to keep at home and the partner bears a large part of the burden for causing the situation. That type of cheating is easily preventable while the first type of cheating, the partner has absolutely no responsibility for. Hookers don't change any of that. Those who say hookers cause cheating are probably the same ones who think that strippers want their boyfriends or husbands - which they so do not.
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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
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