Peacesells wrote:
ltcvnzl wrote:
i guess everyone can show up, but does everyone feels comfortable to show up?
If you are shocked and made feel uncomfortable by a common albeit a little immodest margarine advert you better stay home and let the people there have fun without anyone ruining it.
Sea Breeze wrote:
I bet it is. Racists see things irrationaly in ethnicities, which is why so many of the so-called antiracists today are really racists themselves.
What do you mean?
the margarine thing wasn't an advert, it was a comparison as their traditional culture is butter (ie. a high quality, pure culture) in contrast of nowadays culture of margarine (ie. low quality, mixed cultures). that's where i'm getting the racist vibe, because they are valuing their traditions exactly by putting it in contrast with some low quality and mixed product. coming from a mixed background, and having some issues from it, it hits an uncomfortable place for me.
i'm not planning on going as i live in the other side of the planet, but i just wanted to know if i'm getting a wrong vibe coming from a very different place or if there is really a underlaying racism/ethnocentrism.
i'm not ruining anyone's fun, i'm just pointing out something i feel uncomfortable about to people who is completely unrelated to it – exactly because i don't want to ruin anyone's fun, i don't want to tell about it to my friend and then maybe make him uncomfortable.