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The ancient Stoics are often misunderstood because the terms they used pertained to different concepts in the past than they do today. The word "stoic" has come to mean "unemotional" or indifferent to pain, because Stoic ethics taught freedom from "passion" by following "reason". The Stoics did not seek to extinguish emotions; rather, they sought to transform them by a resolute "askēsis" that enables a person to develop clear judgment and inner calm.[20] Logic, reflection, and concentration were the methods of such self-discipline.

Borrowing from the Cynics, the foundation of Stoic ethics is that good lies in the state of the soul itself; in wisdom and self-control. Stoic ethics stressed the rule: "Follow where reason leads." One must therefore strive to be free of the passions, bearing in mind that the ancient meaning of "passion" was "anguish" or "suffering",[21] that is, "passively" reacting to external events, which is somewhat different from the modern use of the word. A distinction was made between pathos (plural pathe) which is normally translated as passion, propathos or instinctive reaction (e.g., turning pale and trembling when confronted by physical danger) and eupathos, which is the mark of the Stoic sage (sophos). The eupatheia are feelings that result from correct judgment in the same way as passions result from incorrect judgment.

The idea was to be free of suffering through apatheia (Greek: ἀπάθεια) or peace of mind (literally, "without passion"),[22] where peace of mind was understood in the ancient sense—being objective or having "clear judgment" and the maintenance of equanimity in the face of life's highs and lows.

For the Stoics, reason meant not only using logic, but also understanding the processes of nature—the logos, or universal reason, inherent in all things. Living according to reason and virtue, they held, is to live in harmony with the divine order of the universe, in recognition of the common reason and essential value of all people.

Quote: "The word "stoic" has come to mean "unemotional" or indifferent to pain"

There are many articles about AS and pain tolerance. They write that people with AS have an average to above average pain tolerance, even though there are hypersensitive. How is that possible?
At least it doesn't count for me

From Wikipedia on Stoic ethics (the foundation of the philosophy):

Wisdom, self-control and reason are better guides than the passions of anguish, suffering, etc.

I think that goes for everyone. I don't know if I am naturally that way because I'm autistic, or if I came to be that way because I'm autistic. Or both, or neither. Not sure really.

A mixture of stoicism, zen, gnosticism and luddism works for me.

One distinction I would make is that the stoic philosophy deals with emotional pain, not necessarily physical pain.

...don't forget crazy roommates too, gotta have those to keep it interesting, lol.

Thank God the new ones are calm. I'm still spending a lot of time at my mother's though. We are getting along okay.

I have a job interview on Friday for a peer support worker position. That would be so cool. I'm spending a lot of time on studying, but having a job like that would be such a step forward.

I forgot to mention aikido, the martial art that uses the opponent's energy against him/her. The principles can be used psychologically.

“The Discipline of Desire”, which has to do with acceptance of our fate
“The Discipline of Action”, which has to do with philanthropy or love of mankind
“The Discipline of Assent”, which has to do with mindfulness of our judgements

Stoicism is deeply rooted in Japanese culture as well. It's a culture of restraint and resilience. Gaman, which means "enduring the seemingly unbearable with patience and dignity", both of which are in short supply here in the west.

Right up until the stance backfires for those that can't muster patience or dignity and they are now so ashamed that they kill themselves.