Catholic aspies

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Hi! I want to know if there are catholic (preferibly young) aspies in these forum. How is your religious life?
Does it cause you problems with your nonreligious life?
Do you use yo get scruples?

<--- Always found it odd, oxymoronic, that an aspie could be religious. To wit: aspies think in black & white, no gray areas. Religion is steeped in the hope that a God exists, a hope which the religious translates as belief or proof.

<--- Raised as a Catholic, but after years of being beaten over the head with the bible, finally opened his eyes.

I've come from a largely Catholic heritage but I haven't followed any religion since I was a child and as time has passed a lot of my family have abandoned religion as well.

It never really affected my life in any way. We attended church growing up and a lot of religious types of events in Brazil but you know, I was disciplined. It didn't change anything, it was just stuff we did.

I don't understand what you're trying to say, why do you see religión and aspiness as uncompatible?

Basically this. I went along with going to church until I moved out.

Not quite young anymore, but I'm not only Catholic but I'd regard the liturgy as a SI.

Joined here after self diagnosing (still waiting for appointment book to open at only insurance approved adult ASD clinic near me), in part because AS finally caught up to me in the course of theological studies. Do find it is difficult to land on a common wavelength with emotionally-driven subsets of the Church.

Religion and faith are not synonymous. Religion is what you believe. It’s doctrine coupled with religious tradition. I am Catholic. My doctrine and tradition are continuously subject to re-evaluation and reinterpretation, for example, Vatican II changed both the doctrine on mass and traditions of mass, neither changed faith.
Faith is belief without appeal to the authority of doctrine and tradition. “We hold these truths to be self evident...” is faith in natural law not an appeal to doctrine. It has faith in the universal nature of equality. My faith that God is good isn’t based on an appeal to authority but an appeal to faith in God’s nature. One certainly can be clobbered over the head with doctrine (holy scriptures, constitutions) but it’s not an appeal to faith but rather an appeal to authority that’s subject to umbrage. Faith doesn’t lend itself to exegesis, scripture and traditions do. Faith is inherently personal whereas doctrine and tradition fall into the public realm. Catholic doctrine and tradition can be publicly challenged but faith in the nature of God is a personal matter and I bristle at words like oxymoronic, especially, in light of the notion that no distinction is made between doctrine, tradition, and the personal faith in God (monotheism) of an individual, irrespective of religious doctrine or traditions.

I have been Catholic all my life and go to church every Sunday.

I was an altar server for three years, but realized I was too old for it when I was 16.

I was an usher for six years, but quit last summer because I was getting tired of being treated like a celebrity by fellow parishioners and being looked down upon by others as inferior because of my AS. In fact, during the six years as an usher, I began believing that attending Mass was like being in high school all over again!

{A reason why feeling out-of-place at my old parish was because of so many cliques! Cliques are counterproductive to the message of Christ because if someone is in a church clique, it makes them arrogant and immature. }

Earlier this month, I began attending Mass at a nearby Catholic church and many who I have met so far at my new parish have been kind and welcoming. In fact, I signed on to become a lector {person who reads Scripture} as a means to combat my fear of public speaking and also signed on to become a Eucharistic Minister.

To close this, I will say about my old parish is that a few years ago, my family and I were experiencing a period of crisis. Rumors began immediately and many {including the priest} refused to show sympathy.

Some said "Oh...that odd family brought the crisis on themselves because they don't behave in the ways God wants them to."

Some said, "Finally! That dumb family are being punished by God!"

Even though my family and I have survived the crisis {the duration was about two years}, I view the idea of getting revenge against people from my old parish very tempting.

However, all I want now is to just connect with people at my new parish who share similar interests as me.

Yes, there are young Catholic Aspies in this forum! I'm a first-year undergraduate at a college far from home, and my religious life consists of weekly Mass, regular chats with my pastor (the only one in our group who knows my diagnosis), events with my campus Catholic Student Union, and searching for information and interpretations online. I can't seem to pray effectively, because during both repeated and contemplative prayers I get distracted. So I don't do it nearly as much as I should.

But maybe that's just my scruples talking. I don't actually have full-blown OCD, but I have thoughts and worries that keep coming back. What am I called to do with my life, professionally and relationally? (This sometimes causes a feeling of emptiness, as I see why I would do poorly in every path I could take). As someone with a social disorder, how am I ever going to get close to God? How can I/why can't I overcome my sins? My mother says that for this reason, going to Confession is a compulsion, so I should limit myself to once every few months--even though others have told me that "unhealthy" is more than once a week. For what it's worth, I've been told by multiple confessors that I need to stop being so hard on myself.

Despite my lack of ability/motivation to pray, my faith is a special interest of sorts, although not to the point where I can't get schoolwork done or do other "normal person" things. That would be the telltale sign of OCD. So I'm not in the red zone, but I'm in the yellow zone, and I have to learn to balance the legal-moral and relational aspects of my faith.

raised catholic until age 14.

always knew that the only original sin of christianity was the murder of Hypatia.

I'm an Aspie entering the catechumenate at 38. I'll be Catholic in a few more months. I'm still looking for clothes that show respect that are okay to wear to church. Anyone have any ideas what the rules for modesty are? I can't handle high necklines, but i know my bust has to be covered.

Look up Fr. Matthew P. Schneider

Ex-Catholics make the best atheists.
Is it correct to assume you are one of the enlightened?

If he is like me, he values rationalism, objectivity and scientific methodology rather than embracing and emotionalistic philosophy which all religions are, no offence intended.