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Ragtime
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22 Jul 2007, 11:54 am

Who has had guiltless sex outside of marriage?

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22 Jul 2007, 3:15 pm

I have. I have only had sex with women that I cared about. I have never engaged in reckless, promiscuous behavior and never will. Personally I think marriage is an obsolete institution that is of absolutely no benefit to a man whatsoever. I have been married once and will never do it again, it is just not worth it. Once a woman gets married her sex drive drops to zero or less so what is the point of getting married?

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22 Jul 2007, 3:20 pm

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22 Jul 2007, 3:58 pm

How does this have to do with Politics, Philosophy, or Religion? Also, maybe this thread should be in a forum in which adult topics are discussed.

I think that the level of sexual contact a couple has should reflect the commitment level in the relationship. I have found from personal experience that my relationships become very unhealthy when the level of commitment is less than the level of sexual contact. Also, although I've never had a relationship like this, I would think that a relationship would become just as unhealthy if the level of sexual contact was less than the level of commitment. In other words, for me, sex outside of marriage is unhealthy, and I would think that a lack of sex inside marriage would also be unhealthy, but thank God I don't have a relationship like that.

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22 Jul 2007, 4:27 pm

Still a virgin here.

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22 Jul 2007, 5:04 pm

*raises hand*

Me.

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23 Jul 2007, 1:01 am

I'm a virgin...

Does masturbation count?

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23 Jul 2007, 1:05 am

I have had very little sex which wasn't
without guilt. Well, unless who sleeps in
the wet spot counts.

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23 Jul 2007, 4:05 pm

me

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23 Jul 2007, 4:41 pm

Me as well.

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23 Jul 2007, 4:44 pm

If you met my ex-wife you would know why sex with my present partner is TOTALLY guilt free.

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23 Jul 2007, 8:12 pm

i have. it was fun times.

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24 Jul 2007, 1:07 am

guilt about what though? the fact i "should" be married? Far as im concerned i am categorically NOT going to end up sharing my bed with a woman for ostensibly the rest of my life, if we do not "enjoy" each other. Sexual compatibility is a MAJOR facet of any long term relationship, and leaving it up to chance is not an option.

Not to mention the fact its quite possible to have "guilty" sex AFTER marriage as well.

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24 Jul 2007, 1:24 am

Macbeth wrote:

Not to mention the fact its quite possible to have "guilty" sex AFTER marriage as well.

Not that guilt doesn't sometimes
increase the pleasure.

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24 Jul 2007, 1:41 am

calandale wrote:

Macbeth wrote:

Not to mention the fact its quite possible to have "guilty" sex AFTER marriage as well.

Not that guilt doesn't sometimes
increase the pleasure.

Abso-f*ckin-lutely.

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24 Jul 2007, 2:30 am

I am not a Christian or religious, these role were set up as a form of breading control to prevent the wide spread of broken families and stop us evolving into Chavs. Which in itself isn’t a bad thing, when you think of it. However these roles are designed mainly for NTs to follow. I am not an NT and I never had the luck in relationships that NTs usually have. I am not going to limit myself by those roles.

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