*Penetrative Sex Only when Willing to Raise a Child*

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Penetrative Sex
Only when ready, able and willing to raise a child 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
Only in long-term relationships in which may eventually want to have children 9%  9%  [ 6 ]
Only when think that a relationship may be long-term 28%  28%  [ 19 ]
Only after a few dates 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
Whenever it is available with someone you are attracted to 36%  36%  [ 24 ]
Whenever it is available 21%  21%  [ 14 ]
Never/only with the same sex/other option 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 67

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02 Dec 2008, 12:26 pm

Proposition: Penetrative heterosexual sex, the kind designed for reproduction, should be restricted to times when a man and a woman are both ready, willing, and able to raise a child.

Discuss.
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02 Dec 2008, 12:37 pm

sex should be whenever you want so long as it's not in public places and consensual.


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02 Dec 2008, 12:38 pm

This sorta sounds like Nazi talk.



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02 Dec 2008, 12:40 pm

Averick wrote:
This sorta sounds like Nazi talk.



psh, killing the jews won't come into play until AFTER the circumcision discussion comes to a grinding halt in stalemate.


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02 Dec 2008, 12:43 pm

skafather84 wrote:
Averick wrote:
This sorta sounds like Nazi talk.



psh, killing the jews won't come into play until AFTER the circumcision discussion comes to a grinding halt in stalemate.


You just made me laugh, skafather. Good for you.



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02 Dec 2008, 12:51 pm

My opinion: other people can do whatever they want so long as they let me be.


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02 Dec 2008, 1:28 pm

ouinon wrote:
Proposition: Penetrative heterosexual sex, the kind designed for reproduction, should be restricted to times when a man and a woman are both ready, willing, and able to raise a child.

Discuss.
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Understand, what would that matter? Men would just have sex with men in that format, if only allowed, and no procreation would happen. Women would have to give men an "inkling", to keep them hooked, to having children; do they really care?



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02 Dec 2008, 2:08 pm

Only in a committed relationship, with contraception of course. In my case, that relationship would be heterosexual man/woman type of deal. By "penetrative sex" I assume the OP means 'penile-vaginal intercourse."



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02 Dec 2008, 3:44 pm

I am just curious why you even need to have a discussion about this? Are you suggesting that there is no way to prevent pregnancy other than abstaining from penetrative sex?


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02 Dec 2008, 3:45 pm

slowmutant wrote:
In my case, that relationship would be heterosexual man/woman type of deal. By "penetrative sex" I assume the OP means 'penile-vaginal intercourse."


You really have issues :roll:


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02 Dec 2008, 6:49 pm

Orwell wrote:
My opinion: other people can do whatever they want so long as they let me be.

with them? :P


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02 Dec 2008, 6:52 pm

DentArthurDent wrote:
I am just curious why you even need to have a discussion about this? Are you suggesting that there is no way to prevent pregnancy other than abstaining from penetrative sex?

Abstinence is 100% safe.



well, I think people should need a license to have kids which they should gain with effort if they want to have and raise children, now about penetration that's a different thing :P


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02 Dec 2008, 7:45 pm

greenblue wrote:

Abstinence is 100% safe.


So is staying at home and never going anywhere, it is also incredibly boring. The argument should be about the correct and effective use of contraception.


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02 Dec 2008, 7:45 pm

This thread makes me want to say things that would get it moved to the adult section.



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02 Dec 2008, 8:02 pm

I have had vasectomy and my girlfriend has had a tubal ligation so making babies ain't gonna happen no matter how hard we try.


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02 Dec 2008, 8:04 pm

I might find it easier to discuss if I understood the topic. Are we discussing if sex should have a purpose? Are we discussing people unprepared to have children? Who is prepared to have children?