Sand wrote:
In other words, the way religious people treat us atheists.
Did you just lay out your personal dig with religion in one sentence? I think we're making progress here.
If there is a single thing I wish I could pass on to you its that completely outside the question of what your thought on a 'god' is, theism has dignity. Ideas and precepts are solute not solvent, the particular people and their own derangements don't define the idea, nor do they define truth. Just like the most upright person can slip, an alcoholic can have a profoundly great idea - if you try too hard to tack the merits of the idea to the vessel rather than on its own accord your failing to get the whole scope of things. I'm not telling you to become a theist, just trying to say that whatever has happened to you through whoever for whatever reason - I can see, outside of your life without all the emotional baggage stored up - that its getting in the way of your ability to differentiate the core of the matter and the ideas running through it from the particular people and then the particular people involved pollute your image of it so much that you define it by a small handful and then define everyone else who couldn't stand these people either. It doesn't even matter how much you may have been legitimately hammered or abused by a few particular 'Jesus freaks', its still a big emotional dent and its still siphoning your clarity. If nothing else I'd just think the weight of such baggage is a waste of happiness that could be had in lieu of it.