Is it just me, or do rules NEED to get broken from time to time? Is it healthy to go through childhood without ever breaking a rule? Is it sane? Last time I checked, the ostensible purpose of schools was education, not imprisonment (incidentally, it seems the UK has the most lenient criminal system anywhere, to the point that convicted serial pedophiles can still avoid prison - and at this rate, prison inmates will soon have more personal freedom and privacy than schoolchildren).
By any measure I was a pretty well-behaved kid and I graduated from high school at the top of my class, but I sometimes covered up minor pranks for friends, I refused to ever attend sports day (Saturday detention seemed the lesser evil), ate my lunch in places where it was forbidden to eat, that sort of thing. It never did me any harm (or anyone else). This ridiculously over-protective attitude is raising teens that will have the maturity and sense of responsibility of toddlers but demand the rights of adults; that so many parents abdicate all responsibility to the school system compounds the problem. This is bad for society and it's bad for the kids, the argument that it's for their protection is just refusing to look at the other side of the ledger. Life's a risk (it's also a sexually transmitted illness with 100% mortality rate). When you have schools that ban hugs (even completely non-sexual ones among friends), it makes you wonder if society really, really hates kids. I'm no fan of teens, and I have no clue how to talk to children, but I'm even less of a fan of people that have forgotten what being a kid is like. If you don't like kids, don't have any (I know, this concept seems beyond lots of people's comprehension).
Let's face it, schoolchildren are forced into a place where for the most part they're not doing anything useful or meaningful most of the time and they're obeying somebody else's rules (often arbitrarily or inconsistently enforced) - is there any harm in letting them blow steam by breaking a few rules from time to time (i'm not talking about letting them bully others, or vandalise things, just break minor rules in ways that don't really interfere with their education)? Or is it sane to introduce maximum-security prison-type surveillance? Oh, and what about double standards: doing that in schools for 'safety' but not having the same surveillance on Parliaments and Congresses, corporate boardrooms, etc (hey, they can also break rules, you know, usually with greater consequences than schoolchildren can).
Incidentally, in a study, the UK was where children were the most unhappy of all nations surveyed (all developed or semi-developed countries).
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