Man had sex with 15 year old autistic girl; jailed

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22 Apr 2010, 10:47 pm

http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/rss/-/2/hi/uk_ ... 638603.stm

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A man who had sex with a "vulnerable" autistic girl after meeting her mother via the internet has been jailed for more than three years.

Kevin Watson, 50 travelled from his East Sussex home to County Durham to meet the woman after striking up a friendship in a chat room.

He then built up a relationship with her 15-year-old daughter.

Watson, of Old Harrow Road, St Leonards on Sea, admitted five counts of sexual activity with a child.

He was jailed for 40 months and placed on the Sex Offenders Register for life.


That's disgusting.



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23 Apr 2010, 12:18 am

At the risk of angering others, I'd like to wonder out loud: Why is this more notable than any of the many other rapes that happen every day? That she has autism doesn't really change the situation, which is of course a very bad one but not unique or unknown.



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23 Apr 2010, 12:59 am

it's because of the big bad internets. that makes it sensational. Like autistic women were not victimized before the internets. . . :roll: :roll: :roll:



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23 Apr 2010, 3:39 am

I am totally opposed to draconian sex laws.



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23 Apr 2010, 3:56 am

Well the Guy is surely a perv so he earned what he got 24 month aint much for rape...



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23 Apr 2010, 7:52 am

Ah well that guy screwed the girl up wonder how long till shes better.



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23 Apr 2010, 8:28 am

ikorack wrote:
Ah well that guy screwed the girl up wonder how long till shes better.


better? I am curious what you think would make it 'better'.



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23 Apr 2010, 9:18 am

NinjaSquid wrote:
Well the Guy is surely a perv so he earned what he got 24 month aint much for rape...


They never are. -_-


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23 Apr 2010, 9:43 am

DavidM wrote:
I am totally opposed to draconian sex laws.


Explain?



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23 Apr 2010, 10:00 am

That's sick! How could a man be in love, with his own daughter, and than burn with passion, for her? :eew:


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23 Apr 2010, 1:49 pm

What did the mother get?

She's the one who introduced them!



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23 Apr 2010, 2:43 pm

Michael_Stuart wrote:
At the risk of angering others, I'd like to wonder out loud: Why is this more notable than any of the many other rapes that happen every day? That she has autism doesn't really change the situation, which is of course a very bad one but not unique or unknown.


Because this is an autism site.


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23 Apr 2010, 6:56 pm

sinsboldly wrote:
ikorack wrote:
Ah well that guy screwed the girl up wonder how long till shes better.


better? I am curious what you think would make it 'better'.


-_- eh? very clear, I hope she can move past this.



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23 Apr 2010, 8:22 pm

ikorack wrote:
sinsboldly wrote:
ikorack wrote:
Ah well that guy screwed the girl up wonder how long till shes better.


better? I am curious what you think would make it 'better'.


-_- eh? very clear, I hope she can move past this.


I agree, moving past it would be 'better'. I am sure she will be just fine. It's not like it is life changing or anything.

what is -_-, eh? sorry, I don't know your short hand.



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23 Apr 2010, 9:24 pm

There are details that are missing from the story.

If the age of consent in England is 16, then what he did was illegal. If it's 14 or 15, then her being autistic would be the sole factor that would make it illegal.

Is that "fair"? Regardless of the ethics of what this man did, you can't deny that there has been a long history of trying to desexualize disabled teens and adults by making it a crime to have even consensual sex with them (or even going as far as forcible sterilization and punishment for expressing sexuality).

There is nothing in the story that suggested that it was non-consensual. Odd? Yes. "Taking Advantage"? Probably. But did she view it as a violation? Who knows?



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23 Apr 2010, 9:39 pm

I think the man was going after the daughter in the first place, meeting the mother was the means to the end. Abusive men can be very charming and persuasive, and can hide abuse very well. At the same time, did the mother give any information about her daughter on-line (including that she has a daughter) before meeting this man? If so, that can be regarded as irresponsible to the point of endangering a dependant / minor.


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