Mass. Catholic school won't admit lesbians' son

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13 May 2010, 12:36 pm

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What religion did your Mum change to?

I remember once I fainted on the way to communion, and afterwards all these well meaning folk were sitting me upright, trying to persuade me to go up and take it. All that happened was I fainted again... in total three times. The third time the priest came in and brought the host to me, and made me take it, and I conked out again!

Of course, after that they all thought I had the devil in me... in retrospect, it could have been any number of things. Panic and stress spring to mind. I seem to remember I was convinced at the time that I shouldn't take the host because I was an evil sinner. I kept saying "no", but couldn't explain to them why... one of the more horrible things I remember. Haven't thought about it in years... urgh.

But yes, if someone is semi conscious on the floor, begging not to be made to take communion, you would think someone would call a Doctor, rather than force it down their throat.


She changed to the Jehovah's Witnesses religion. :)

Wow that does sound bad. Then again some of these church schools haven't behaved the best. I know in the Christian Brothers (I think that's what they were called) schools there have been some quite nasty cases. My family has an Irish-Catholic background and my Grandad went to one with them.


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13 May 2010, 12:45 pm

My Dad was taught by the "brothers", and some of the stories he tells are truly horrendous. I was beaten in the Seventies by nuns, but at least they let me keep my pants on for the privilege. The "brothers" used to strip the boy's pants off in front of the class, and beat with either a belt or a cane till they wept. One boy my Dad went to school with would get so upset he would soil himself. And all the lads knew that there were certain "brothers" who were funny and enjoyed the beatings a bit too much.

Once when I was five the nun lined us all up against the back wall, and walked up and down the line smacking our hands with a ruler. I didn't cry, so she came back to me, and I still didn't cry. So she made me turn my palms, and hit me across the knuckles, and I still didn't cry. Then she used the narrow side of the ruler - which still hurts when I think about it. I didn't cry, but I did kick her in the shins, head butt her, and bite.

The head teacher when he found out what happened let me sit in his room till I'd calmed down, then fed me chocolate, and told me not to worry about the "old nuns", they were just jealous because they had no kids of their own. It didn't stop them beating me, but it did make me feel like at least one person was on my side.

He couldn't get rid of the nuns because the school was attached to a convent. All he could do was persuade the kids that we weren't filth, and try to advise us on the best way to work around the "penguins." Of course, I always thought they were daleks under their robes...



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13 May 2010, 5:48 pm

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jesusandmo.net rocks.



american public schooling is such a joke that many of us would rather send our kids to private schools even if we don't find them completely compatible. we also (like to think we) have a very strong (read as: largely imaginary) connection to "christian morality." we're really lazy about applying what we actually believe to our ideas of what we believe.

i think it would be wonderful to take exit polls at different religious institutions to see what people really swallow and which pills they secretly cheek and spit out.

agree with the church's stance on premarital sex? (you're not allowed to have it.)
agree with the church's stance on condoms? (you're not allowed to use them, or any other method of contraception.)
agree with the church's stance on geocentrism? (their official stance, until AD 2,000, was that the earth was the center of the universe and all other celestial objects revolve around it.)
agree with the church's stance on divorce? (the church does not recognize legal divorce.......unless you pay them off, then they call it something else.)
agree with the church's stance on abortion? (even in the extreme cases of rape, incest, or excessive risk of death the the mother, child, or both, abortion is evil and not allowed.)
agree with the church's stance on demonic possession? (that it exists and priests can totally out-magic the devil.)
agree with the church's stance on papal infallibility? (the dude is NEVER WRONG [is divinely protected from making errors) when he's telling you what to do. the infallibility does not extend to his personal life or even actions in his official capacity that aren't telling you what to do.)
agree with the church's stance on masturbation? (it's a sin. often a "mortal sin." ...no-rly...)

i think the results of such polls would be delightfully hilarious to freethinkers. i think a lot of people who call themselves catholic would find the humor, as well.


god forbid (sorry, can't help myself) we act as america's favorite fictional protagonist acted and told us to act and not like the oppressors and religious profiteers he warned us about.

christian bumper stickers should read: "god loves me and you (unless i don't love you, in which case he thinks you suck)."



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14 May 2010, 5:24 am

It's interesting that people cite Jesus to back up whatever their own view is. Jesus never spoke specifically on homosexuality, though it's obvious from what He did say that He considered marriage itself to be between one man and a woman. I'm not saying that I expect anyone else to agree with Him, just saying that the cartoon is very interesting... Why is it that people still consider the opinion of a Jewish carpenter to be of interest two thousand years later?

By the way, the Muslims I know who are strict enough to wear that kind of veil are very much against homosexuality. I do know a young Muslim man whose parents disowned him completely when they found out he was gay. The young man was so messed up over this rejection that he tried to kill himself, and nearly succeeded. So I find the cartoon wrong on both counts.



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14 May 2010, 6:53 am

There's a depressingly straightforward reason you don't hear the question "What Would Mohammed Do?" much. :(


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14 May 2010, 8:47 am

It is very, very sad.

Actually, when I think of it, why don't we hear about homosexual couples complaining that their children weren't granted admission to Muslim schools? Certainly in my country (I'm in the UK) the very few Muslim primary schools have extremely high academic standards, compared with any other school (including the church ones.) Why do we not hear of homosexual or non "trad" straights being rejected by these schools? Mainly because nobody would be insane enough to say, "Hello, I'm an unmarried mother living in an open relationship with a bi guy... can our kid join your school?"

And yet, I know one unmarried mother in an open relationship with a (nominal) Hindu who had no problem being accepted by the CofE (Church of England) school that my son attended... to say nothing of the wiccans attending at the time. (I was one of them... this was before my conversion).

So yes... an interesting point... why don't we hear about people who want their children to enjoy the undoubtedly superior educational advantages of a Muslim school, but are rejected for religious reasons.



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14 May 2010, 2:06 pm

Reminds me of an episode of Law And Order.

Don't have your kids fight your battles for you.



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27 May 2010, 2:37 pm

Jacoby wrote:
Reminds me of an episode of Law And Order.

Don't have your kids fight your battles for you.


Agreed. This is one reason someone needs
to tell the Catholic Church to accept gays
into the priesthood AND allow children of
LGBT couples into Catholic schools.


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28 May 2010, 10:31 am

Jacoby wrote:
Reminds me of an episode of Law And Order.

Don't have your kids fight your battles for you.

I just saw that episode here in the UK... it's true, kids shouldn't have to fight their parents battles. It's tragic all round.



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01 Jun 2010, 5:41 pm

AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
Reminds me of an episode of Law And Order.

Don't have your kids fight your battles for you.


Agreed. This is one reason someone needs
to tell the Catholic Church to accept gays
into the priesthood AND allow children of
LGBT couples into Catholic schools.


Or tell the Catholic Church to stop accepting non-Catholics into their schools and charging those families ridiculous tuition fees for their shoddy education.



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03 Jun 2010, 12:43 pm

waltur wrote:
agree with the church's stance on papal infallibility? (the dude is NEVER WRONG [is divinely protected from making errors) when he's telling you what to do. the infallibility does not extend to his personal life or even actions in his official capacity that aren't telling you what to do.)


While I'm no fan of the Roman Catholic Church wading into the realm of public policy, let's not ascribe beliefs to them falsely. The doctrine of papal infallability only applies to pronouncements ex cathedra in respect of which the Pope has invoked infallability. This has only happened once, in 1950.

Prior to the dogmatic definition of papal infallibility in 1870, there were expressions of dogma ex cathedra, but very few of these are considered infallible. (Perhaps half a dozen. Only one is universally recognized as an exercise of infallibility, dating from 1854).

By far the greater number of infallible teachings have come from ecumenical councils.

And now back to our regularly scheduled incredulity.


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03 Jun 2010, 10:08 pm

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The only difference between Christianity or Judaism or Islam, and Scientology, is centuries of history. That's *it*. Both are dangerous cults which should not be allowed to exist.

But somehow, the formers are socially acceptable and the latter is mostly not.

Heh, that's pretty much true.

It isn't as if the historical Christian stance on knowledge was ever that great anyway.
http://richardcarrier.blogspot.com/2010 ... oners.html
http://formerfundy.blogspot.com/2010/04 ... ience.html


Still is sort of a pain that lesbians are not being accepted by society. I suppose this is to be expected from the Catholic church. They're still fighting a war to keep people from Africa from being protected from HIV.



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03 Jun 2010, 10:55 pm

Awesomelyglorious wrote:
Dilbert wrote:
The only difference between Christianity or Judaism or Islam, and Scientology, is centuries of history. That's *it*. Both are dangerous cults which should not be allowed to exist.

But somehow, the formers are socially acceptable and the latter is mostly not.

Heh, that's pretty much true.

It isn't as if the historical Christian stance on knowledge was ever that great anyway.
http://richardcarrier.blogspot.com/2010 ... oners.html
http://formerfundy.blogspot.com/2010/04 ... ience.html


Still is sort of a pain that lesbians are not being accepted by society. I suppose this is to be expected from the Catholic church. They're still fighting a war to keep people from Africa from being protected from HIV.


The bad thing is that because the traditionalist Roman Catholics are breeding much faster then the reformists, that Church will be conservative and backwardly for generations to come - and will continue to be implicitly responsible for the suffering of millions of impoverished Catholics across the world.

I think its time to levy a Church Tax on the Roman Catholic Church - there is no much obscene wealth that goes to non-charitable activities in that religious racket. If they want to extort politicians into opposing civil rights, they should pay their share.



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03 Jun 2010, 11:12 pm

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The bad thing is that because the traditionalist Roman Catholics are breeding much faster then the reformists, that Church will be conservative and backwardly for generations to come - and will continue to be implicitly responsible for the suffering of millions of impoverished Catholics across the world.

I think its time to levy a Church Tax on the Roman Catholic Church - there is no much obscene wealth that goes to non-charitable activities in that religious racket. If they want to extort politicians into opposing civil rights, they should pay their share.

Look, the Reformists really haven't shown enough popularity anyway.

I am hoping to get by with the simple cry "Sell the Vatican Feed the World". :P I am sure you saw the Sarah Silverman youtube video I posted.



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03 Jun 2010, 11:50 pm

Awesomelyglorious wrote:
Master_Pedant wrote:
The bad thing is that because the traditionalist Roman Catholics are breeding much faster then the reformists, that Church will be conservative and backwardly for generations to come - and will continue to be implicitly responsible for the suffering of millions of impoverished Catholics across the world.

I think its time to levy a Church Tax on the Roman Catholic Church - there is no much obscene wealth that goes to non-charitable activities in that religious racket. If they want to extort politicians into opposing civil rights, they should pay their share.

Look, the Reformists really haven't shown enough popularity anyway.

I am hoping to get by with the simple cry "Sell the Vatican Feed the World". :P I am sure you saw the Sarah Silverman youtube video I posted.


I liked ruveyn's idea of dismantling the whole institution - even if it is an ivory-tower, utopian pipe dream.

http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt114809.html



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03 Jun 2010, 11:51 pm

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I liked ruveyn's idea of dismantling the whole institution - even if it is an ivory-tower, utopian pipe dream.

I think a better one than that is to have the US take the "war on terror" to the Vatican.