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26 May 2014, 10:01 pm

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Been reading the coverage on CNN.

Asperger's, maybe maybe not.

What that kid suffered from, unfortunately, was a terminal case of the American Delusion. I-Ought-To-Have Syndrome. Nothing-Less-Than-The-Fantasy-Will-Do Disease.

He was, in other words, the epitome of the media-driven dumbass with too many grandiose dreams and too little grounding in the knowledge that real life, while it bears little (and no more than momentary) resemblance to the fantasy, is quite worth living.

Another handful of victims of sick and delusional ambition. My heart breaks for their families and loved ones. What a sad, sad, sad, sad shame.

Agreed. Since he was in therapy for years, it would seem the therapy wasn't much good.

If he had a personality disorder the therapy wouldn't be much help unless he accepted that he had problems and needed to work on them.Most narcissistic people see the world as having the issues,not themselves.It wouldn't have mattered if he had the best therapist in the world.


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26 May 2014, 10:35 pm

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Been reading the coverage on CNN.

Asperger's, maybe maybe not.

What that kid suffered from, unfortunately, was a terminal case of the American Delusion. I-Ought-To-Have Syndrome. Nothing-Less-Than-The-Fantasy-Will-Do Disease.

He was, in other words, the epitome of the media-driven dumbass with too many grandiose dreams and too little grounding in the knowledge that real life, while it bears little (and no more than momentary) resemblance to the fantasy, is quite worth living.

Another handful of victims of sick and delusional ambition. My heart breaks for their families and loved ones. What a sad, sad, sad, sad shame.


Try reading the personal ads on Craigslist sometime. The men want a Barbie Doll to abuse. The women want either a romance novel cover guy and/or a "bad boy with a heart of gold". Some are more interested in the guy's money than in him. After wading through that for a while, you may never feel clean again, also you may want to go live in the woods as a hermit for the rest of your life. You may be convinced that the Fall of Rome is on instant replay. Some of the guys especially are super creepy. As in "I will cook you dinner, then rape you, slash your throat, tie you to cinder blocks, and dump you in the river" type creepy. They never use those words, but there's a LOT MORE where Eliot Rodger came from.


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26 May 2014, 10:52 pm

It would be nice if more news networks unraveled more info about Elliot Rodger's mental illness or issues. One news source simply said that he had schizophrenia and refused to take medications from therapists. Did his mental illness prevent him from getting girlfriends?

Sorry I didn't read thru the whole thread because I was busy with work.



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26 May 2014, 10:55 pm

I go to Craigslist to find stuff I'm looking to buy locally. I've found it to be a good source for that. Whatever else goes on there I don't intend to find out.


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26 May 2014, 10:55 pm

at a minimum his social anxiety caused him to be unable to speak to women.



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26 May 2014, 11:13 pm

pezar wrote:
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Been reading the coverage on CNN.

Asperger's, maybe maybe not.

What that kid suffered from, unfortunately, was a terminal case of the American Delusion. I-Ought-To-Have Syndrome. Nothing-Less-Than-The-Fantasy-Will-Do Disease.

He was, in other words, the epitome of the media-driven dumbass with too many grandiose dreams and too little grounding in the knowledge that real life, while it bears little (and no more than momentary) resemblance to the fantasy, is quite worth living.

Another handful of victims of sick and delusional ambition. My heart breaks for their families and loved ones. What a sad, sad, sad, sad shame.


Try reading the personal ads on Craigslist sometime. The men want a Barbie Doll to abuse. The women want either a romance novel cover guy and/or a "bad boy with a heart of gold". Some are more interested in the guy's money than in him. After wading through that for a while, you may never feel clean again, also you may want to go live in the woods as a hermit for the rest of your life. You may be convinced that the Fall of Rome is on instant replay. Some of the guys especially are super creepy. As in "I will cook you dinner, then rape you, slash your throat, tie you to cinder blocks, and dump you in the river" type creepy. They never use those words, but there's a LOT MORE where Eliot Rodger came from.


Dude, I ALREADY think that the Fall of Rome is on instant replay, and the ONLY thing keeping me from living in the woods as a hermit is that my hubby still loves being an engineer, and they don't hire many engineers in the deep boonies.

I'M WORKING ON THAT!! LOL. Not really, because that would be pretty disrespectful, but the thought has crossed my mind.

We have a common interest.


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27 May 2014, 12:20 am

I was watching the news here and they mentioned that Rodger had visited Arizona multiple times in order to play the lottery, he spent $700 in a single drawing and was convinced that it was his "destiny" and that he was going to win it and use to money to get a model girlfriend to have lots of sex with.

Honestly, the narcissism and the delusions don't sound like Asperger's, he was 22 and that's around the age of he onset of schizophrenia. I actually had a psychiatrist tell that schizophrenia can't present itself similarly to AS at first. Guess we'll never know but this kid was not in his right mind in my opinion.

edit: see other folk coming to the same conclusions



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27 May 2014, 1:25 am

If you read bits of his manifesto, it is scarily like Adolph Hitler. This man was a clear sociopath, and was literally a modern-day Hitler. He was that kind of monster.


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27 May 2014, 1:36 am

delusions can be part of Asperger's although the word delusion is nonetheless improper. If we suppose someone is completely fascinated by cars endlessly but doesn't feel there is anything wrong with this preoccupation, traditional Asperger's literature may incorrectly assert this as an obsession. A true Obsession requires some component, either the idea that wants to be avoided or the associated compulsion, that the patient identifies as wrong. In the absence of this state of wrongness it is not an obsession. If the fixation or belief is a simple idea it is likely an overvalued idea, if it is something bizarre it is a delusion. In the literature while the distinction between an Overvalued idea and delusion are important, they are often mistakenly used interchangeably but are both treatment resistant and deeply held. In a psychiatric sense both are ideas held onto for a long time, even a lifetime. But in a more informal sense a delusion simply means a false belief and everyone has them-especially when it comes to politics. What typically isn't associated with autism is a bizarre delusion which is the type of delusion we may use in our everyday vocabulary. Elliot's belief that womenkind owed him s* is definitely bizarre enough and held long enough to be a classic delusion and I would easily say one that rises to support a diagnostic of schizophrenia.



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27 May 2014, 2:03 am

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Pretty much what happened wasn't the work of an aspie, but a highly functioning narcissistic schizophrenic probably paranoid in nature comorbid with a body dysmorphic disorder. The real killer wasn't the narcissism, the schizophrenia, nor the mysogyny and certainly not asperger's. It was the involuntary loneliness which spiraled into what is called post traumatic embitterment disorder. i am sure the xanax and Vicodin which he cited didn't help him either, both can lead to anger and perhaps reduced his ability to to abstain from such impulses.


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The thing that is different about this guy is that we've never seen a by product of the mental health system, go so bad in such a f. 'ed Up Way.

He was clearly VERY in touch with his feelings. They got that right, for some unbelievable sum of money, you can be sure.

I've read that therapy doesn't work for a narcissist, because it just feeds their problem. He's a classic case of this.

He didn't need therapy, he needed a surrogate like the Virgin Mary, to be quickly followed by a walk on the gay side.

I've always frowned on the gay community attempting to recruit straight men, but this is one case I wish they had.

Even if he wasn't gay, he could have made some good friends.

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27 May 2014, 5:36 am

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Yes the news reports says he was diagnosed as asperger's, but other news outlets also claim that he was hearing voices. That would seem to indicate schizophrenia. The guy doesn't really fit the profile of an aspie, or at least what I consider an aspie. Sure he had social anxiety, threw tantrums, but that was about it, and prior to his warcraft self-medicating binge he was heavily into trying to become whats cool to try to fit in.


There was another report where a friend of the family said it was suspected/considered, but not diagnosed.

http://www.itv.com/news/update/2014-05- ... aspergers/

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He is a tough cookie to properly diagnose. He seems to have a body dismorphic disorder because he is short.


On that bodybuilding site he had himself as 5'9". Is that short? Sounds quite average to me. Though it seems plenty likely it was shorter than he'd want to be.

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The guy had one ambition in life and that was quite perverse, although at sometimes he hated that part of human biology calling it evil and wanted to ban it. He watched the movie alpha dogs where the main character *mated* several times and died at the end, and he noted that that would be a better life than what he had.


Is 'mated' your term or his? Fascinating term.

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What is particularly disturbing about this guy is that he thinks he is entitled to women bodies,


Yes. And he is very far from being alone in that. If not the norm, it is certainly a norm.

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even saying that women should't have the choice who to mate with but that should be determined by an intelligent civilization. I think his problem is two fold. One is that he hung out with a crowd of the super rich where women would just throw themselves at them to have wealth, the second problem seems to be he got caught up in PUAhate (pick up artist hate). I don't mean to insult PUAhate if I understand them wrong. But prior to the presumably second wave feminist movement, the traditional marriage he reasoned ensured that every guy, even betas males, would have one gal through marriage and afterwords women are flocking to the alpha males[bad boys]-and betas being left out.


PUA and PUAhate are two sides of the same misogynistic coin. Badmouth them all you like.

Also, it wasn't 'an intelligent civilisation' that would make the choice, but "rational men of intelligence". I think this is important to be clear on.

Women are not flocking to 'alpha males', nor 'bad boys', and 'betas' are not being left out. Such trying BS.

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Indeed we are being left out.


Nope.

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It seems the PUA Hate movement sadly blames women for their choices. I am sure many aspies who can recognize part of the argument and are able to understand a greater complexity involved fully knowing that women are great people-but trying to say them would just lead feminist to attack us so real solutions get ignored-To focus on the social problem leads to feminist attacking us because they myopically shift the focus to the individual choice rather the many psycho-social variables that help define a choice.


The PUAhate movement, and the PUA movement, hate women. That's all ye need to know.

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Anyways he got it burned into his head that prior to the feminist movement every male was entitled to a woman and her affections-That supplements his reasoning why he thought they owed them their love and bodily functions.


Again, he's far from the only one.

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he counseling he received was useless. First it is doubtful they were dealing with Asperger's but likely schizophrenia-it seems one doctor recognized this but he refused treatment which is his right. Secondly he was engaged in delusional thinking, and delusions are typically treatment resistance. The third thing was the type of help he was receiving was inappropriate. The job trainer for example found him a job as a custodian and here is the son of a second director of the hunger games. Even when his counselors went out in the world with him women focused on the counselors and not at him, and the counselors also verifies his own thinking.


He thought himself entitled to women, and their affections and bodies. From what I can see, the counselors did nothing to disuade that, and much to encourage it.

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His parents were also paying $1800 a month on rent alone for him to live in an apartment. His father was selling naughty photos. Certainly his father could have set him up with one of his models, or heck maybe even purchased a home and let him sublease to women-even "pretty blondes", or maybe his father could have found him a menial job on the set where he could have worked with extremely high profile people including women, or maybe had his son work on a photographers set that specialized entirely with women modeling. Unlike most of us, the guy had connections and money-there was no excuse why they couldn't have done something. It certainly seems like they tried to pass him along as someone else's problem, and certainly he became everyone's problem.


Again, encouraging him in his entitlement. You don't do that with a toddler, let alone a man in his early 20s.

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Pretty much what happened wasn't the work of an aspie, but a highly functioning narcissistic schizophrenic probably paranoid in nature comorbid with a body dysmorphic disorder. The real killer wasn't the narcissism, the schizophrenia, nor the mysogyny and certainly not asperger's. It was the involuntary loneliness which spiraled into what is called post traumatic embitterment disorder. i am sure the xanax and Vicodin which he cited didn't help him either, both can lead to anger and perhaps reduced his ability to to abstain from such impulses.


However he came to be how he was - and there are obviously many factors at play - he found meaning in, and was encouraged in, a misogynistic narrative. His rage was focused on and through women. Even his racist remarks - which other men, to little surprise, seem to have been more willing to call him out on than his misogyny - were focused around women.


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27 May 2014, 8:06 am

He wanted sex with women, yes, but that's not rare, unnatural, or wrong. Most men do. The problem with him is that he felt the world owed him everything he wanted, and that feeling of entitlement *didn't* come from any outside cultural influence - unless you know of a subculture that encourages people to believe that Powerball money belongs to them?

It's quite clear that the guy would have gone on a spree *without* the existence of PUAs, PUAHs, MRAs...



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27 May 2014, 11:55 am

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Again, encouraging him in his entitlement. You don't do that with a toddler, let alone a man in his early 20s.


what the kid needed was exposure therapy to interact with women, that would have been the healthiest thing for him.
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27 May 2014, 12:04 pm

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Again, encouraging him in his entitlement. You don't do that with a toddler, let alone a man in his early 20s.


what the kid needed was exposure therapy to interact with women, that would have been the healthiest thing for him.
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Too late. Making sense this late in this thread won't change the tone of the hysterical posts.


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27 May 2014, 1:20 pm

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Also beta males are left out. at least in the united states.


^I disagree. I am quite the beta male, and I had plenty of attention from the ladies in my younger days, especially the ladies who had run into one or two turds with the women are there for men's enjoyment mentality.

And for those of you who think this "entitled to sex" attitude is rare, here's another story from just a few hours after (and not too many miles from) this incident:
http://www.upi.com/Top_News/US/2014/05/27/California-men-reportedly-shot-at-women-for-refusing-to-have-sex/2781401208564/


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27 May 2014, 1:56 pm

your individual luck with the ladies is likely to be the exception and not the rule.

Not sure that news report in Stockton would support your argument. Important factors may depend upon under what pretenses were the women there, or if they were under the influence of any substances. I don't want to engage in libel but speculation must be considered, it is possible that the women were or were pretending to be exotic dancers, escorts, masseuse or other code names related to the call girl industry. It also could have been a drug house were it is common for men to give drugs to women in exchange for *services*. Context is important, and this article is serious lacking in context to draw any reasonable conclusions on.

Even though the black market is unlawful, there is still an expectation for both parties to carry out the terms of the contract/agreement-since the black market has no legal remedy the failure to perform, which is a substantial risk, can be quite dangerous; even agreeing to meet up with a fellow trader [both parties are traders] can be dangerous.