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04 Aug 2012, 1:56 pm

Gay rights are human rights. The CEO of Chick-Fil-A has donated heavily to anti-gay rights groups. As far as I am concerned, that means they are opposed to equal rights for all human beings. They don't deserve the patronage of moral people. The anti-gay lobby can pretend to be facing "intolerance and bigotry" but nobody worthwhile is fooled.

If Dan Cathy wants to learn about tolerance, he should talk to Bill Marriott, deeply religious Mormon owner of the Marriott hotel chain:
http://www.businessweek.com/articles/20 ... m-marriott

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“This church helped me raise a family and has brought great joy and happiness to my life,” he told me. But that didn’t mean gay employees had any less status at Marriott. “We have to take care of our people, regardless of their sexual orientation or anything else,” he said. “We are an American Church. We have all the American values: the values of hard work, the values of integrity, the values of fairness and respect.” Marriott has both a deep faith and a deep understanding of his responsibility as a leader. Many of his shareholders, customers, and employees don’t belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Their values matter, too.

“Our church is very much opposed to alcohol and we’re probably one of the biggest sales engines of liquor in the United States. I don’t drink. We serve a lot of liquor. You’re in business. You’ve got to make money,” he said. “We have to appeal to the masses out there, no matter what their beliefs are.”

As a result, when his church actively campaigned against same-sex marriage in California, neither Marriott nor the hotel chain donated any money to the cause. Instead, he stepped into the drama by publicly reinforcing his company’s commitment to gay rights through domestic partners benefits and services aimed at gay couples.


Here is a real Christian attitude. The rest should be ashamed of themselves and the utterly trite nature of the sexual controversy they maintain with their xenophobia, hatred and ignorance


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04 Aug 2012, 1:56 pm

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While I'm happy to "tolerate" differing opinions, I'm not going to let them go unchallenged either, and this goes double for people who attempt to shape society as according to those views.

So do you apply this statement to gay activists s well?


That depends.

What are the "gay activists" trying to accomplish?


They want to make America fabulous


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04 Aug 2012, 2:07 pm

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Free speech doesn't mean that you can say whatever you want with no consequence.


Short of inciting a riot, inciting a panic or fomenting a lynch mob etc there should be no legal prior constraint on what is said or written. And yes, all of our external behavior has either or both social and legal consequences.

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04 Aug 2012, 2:42 pm

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What did the CEO actually say? What group(s) actually got funding from his company? Nobody has even so much as mentioned these things, and without knowing this there is no grounds to call them 'hateful' or 'prejudiced' or 'bigoted' or any other label. If you can say what they actually did or said and that happens to be objectionable, then you don't need to slap a label on it. Show me the wrong, don't tell me you've slapped the label 'wrong' on it and that I therefore can't question whether it actually is wrong.


Marriage & Family Foundation
Focus on the Family
Family Research Council
Eagle Forum (also an anti-feminist organization)
American Family Organization
Exodus International (deals with conversion therapy of gays)
...plus campaigns for gay marriage bans (Prop 8 )

Some not all of these groups are mentioned in the Wikipedia article (others I do recall seeing on other reliable sources). At least half of the organizations mentioned are certified hate groups by the Southern Law Poverty Center. I honestly don't know why the media is not acknowledging this as this is the central reason for the boycott.

Here's my thing on this: A few years ago I used to be one of those people who would convert to one side of an issue based on the attitude of the opposition and the gay marriage issue was one of those things. Since then I've realized that you can't let the attitudes of other people (regardless of how bad or negative they are) push you to one side of the debate. Go by facts, not by attitude is my feeling on this. Really do your research on the topic and get an idea for both sides of things. Though at this point I do think that both sides are acting irrational in one way or another but I'm not going to let it affect what I do believe on this issue.

I was well aware of the contributions years prior to Cathy's announcement and made the decision then not to go back to Chick-Fil-A (which I never went outta my way for anyway). Recent events and attitudes have not changed my thinking. I'd rather support an issue because I believe in it, not because the other side is acting like a-holes.



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04 Aug 2012, 7:00 pm

I once had their food, and I absolutely adored it. If it wasn't for them donating profits and proceeds to anti-gay groups, I would happily go there once a week. I wouldn't even care if the owner was against gay marriage, but I do draw the line when money is donated to groups who have hurt my friends and family; the LGBT community. I cannot stomach that, and I will go elsewhere.

I don't understand why people single out Chick-fil-A. There are plenty of other corporations who have a more negative track record. At least Chick-fil-A has class when it comes to endorsing discrimination.



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04 Aug 2012, 7:08 pm

Vigilans wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
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XFilesGeek wrote:
While I'm happy to "tolerate" differing opinions, I'm not going to let them go unchallenged either, and this goes double for people who attempt to shape society as according to those views.

So do you apply this statement to gay activists s well?


That depends.

What are the "gay activists" trying to accomplish?


They want to make America fabulous

OK. That's funny.

I need to send that to my gay best friend Alfie.



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04 Aug 2012, 7:22 pm

I don't particularly care what the CEO of a company has to say, or even what he chooses to spend his money on, but I'd happily have gone to a Chick-fil-A restaurant if we had them in my area to give the fat finger to Tom Menino, Rahm Emmanual and co. I'm sure it was also something of a show of force moment for the socially conservative set, but to my mind it was the conduct of certain government officials in threatening a company over it's owner's political beliefs that was the outrage calling for a statement.


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04 Aug 2012, 8:01 pm

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I don't particularly care what the CEO of a company has to say, or even what he chooses to spend his money on, but I'd happily have gone to a Chick-fil-A restaurant if we had them in my area to give the fat finger to Tom Menino, Rahm Emmanual and co. I'm sure it was also something of a show of force moment for the socially conservative set, but to my mind it was the conduct of certain government officials in threatening a company over it's owner's political beliefs that was the outrage calling for a statement.


Wouldn't it make more sense to send angry letters to the politicians? I mean I can get the giving the finger thing but I think going to Chick-Fil-A would only accomplish half of what you're trying to resolve.



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04 Aug 2012, 8:20 pm

Vigilans wrote:

They want to make America fabulous


As opposed to simply stunning?

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04 Aug 2012, 8:25 pm

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I don't particularly care what the CEO of a company has to say, or even what he chooses to spend his money on, but I'd happily have gone to a Chick-fil-A restaurant if we had them in my area to give the fat finger to Tom Menino, Rahm Emmanual and co. I'm sure it was also something of a show of force moment for the socially conservative set, but to my mind it was the conduct of certain government officials in threatening a company over it's owner's political beliefs that was the outrage calling for a statement.


Wouldn't it make more sense to send angry letters to the politicians? I mean I can get the giving the finger thing but I think going to Chick-Fil-A would only accomplish half of what you're trying to resolve.


Not really. The politicians are the only ones who would see them and they don't even need to acknowledge them. This is more of a publicly visible finger to them.



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04 Aug 2012, 8:26 pm

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The Chick Fil A that's closest to us is in Boise, Idaho. That figures. Seattle is too progressive and forward thinking a city to be bothered by ass backwards religious crap like Chick Fil a and their ilk. A store like that would die a painful miserable death. Anything associated with the de-progression of mankind is unwanted in a state where software, airplane and electronic giants abound. Suck us back to the Dark Ages? I don't think so.


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04 Aug 2012, 9:06 pm

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I could care less what some CEO has to say. It's the sick behaviour of the patrons; queuing up for blocks to support HATRED

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I am quite sure that some people are just supporting free speech, and that's great, but a lot of people/organizations/groups themselves have said things to the effect of standing up for "family values" etc.

Supporting family values and standing up for hatred are two different things.

I don't have any problem with people boycotting some company for some reason (whether or not the reason makes sense). My problem is with people saying hate or bigotry or something like that without backing it up. I also have a problem with actual hate, but I haven't seen any evidence of that.


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04 Aug 2012, 10:02 pm

raisedbyignorance wrote:
Marriage & Family Foundation
Focus on the Family
Family Research Council
Eagle Forum (also an anti-feminist organization)
American Family Organization
Exodus International (deals with conversion therapy of gays)
...plus campaigns for gay marriage bans (Prop 8 )

Some not all of these groups are mentioned in the Wikipedia article (others I do recall seeing on other reliable sources). At least half of the organizations mentioned are certified hate groups by the Southern Law Poverty Center.

I like that you showed up with actual data. I'm not convinced with just that, since if I'm going to conclude that some group is a hate group, I want to know why, not just that the SLPC came to that conclusion.

The anti-conversion therapy thing is something I think is a bad idea, but I don't think it justifies a label of hate. Neither does the prop 8 support. If you understand feminism as being pro-gender-equality, then I don't see anything about the Eagle Forum that is anti-feminist (from a look at wikipedia and at their website).

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Here's my thing on this: A few years ago I used to be one of those people who would convert to one side of an issue based on the attitude of the opposition and the gay marriage issue was one of those things. Since then I've realized that you can't let the attitudes of other people (regardless of how bad or negative they are) push you to one side of the debate. Go by facts, not by attitude is my feeling on this.

I'm more or less on the fence on it. It's a moral issue, so just gathering facts isn't likely to persuade me one way or the other. I've seen little in the way of logical arguments on either side.

If I had a definite side, I would be on that side regardless of how obnoxious the other people on that side acted. That still doesn't mean I'd like the people on my side to be obnoxious.

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Though at this point I do think that both sides are acting irrational in one way or another

I can agree with you on that.


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04 Aug 2012, 10:16 pm

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Gay rights are human rights. The CEO of Chick-Fil-A has donated heavily to anti-gay rights groups. As far as I am concerned, that means they are opposed to equal rights for all human beings. They don't deserve the patronage of moral people. The anti-gay lobby can pretend to be facing "intolerance and bigotry" but nobody worthwhile is fooled.

If Dan Cathy wants to learn about tolerance, he should talk to Bill Marriott, deeply religious Mormon owner of the Marriott hotel chain:
http://www.businessweek.com/articles/20 ... m-marriott

Quote:
“This church helped me raise a family and has brought great joy and happiness to my life,” he told me. But that didn’t mean gay employees had any less status at Marriott. “We have to take care of our people, regardless of their sexual orientation or anything else,” he said. “We are an American Church. We have all the American values: the values of hard work, the values of integrity, the values of fairness and respect.” Marriott has both a deep faith and a deep understanding of his responsibility as a leader. Many of his shareholders, customers, and employees don’t belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Their values matter, too.

“Our church is very much opposed to alcohol and we’re probably one of the biggest sales engines of liquor in the United States. I don’t drink. We serve a lot of liquor. You’re in business. You’ve got to make money,” he said. “We have to appeal to the masses out there, no matter what their beliefs are.”

As a result, when his church actively campaigned against same-sex marriage in California, neither Marriott nor the hotel chain donated any money to the cause. Instead, he stepped into the drama by publicly reinforcing his company’s commitment to gay rights through domestic partners benefits and services aimed at gay couples.


Here is a real Christian attitude. The rest should be ashamed of themselves and the utterly trite nature of the sexual controversy they maintain with their xenophobia, hatred and ignorance


I agree, the biblical Jesus did not hang out with the pharasees but hung out with societies outcasts. He bucked the system and was anti-establishment too. In fact the religious folks really did not like him because he was like the pied piper of the damned meanwhile he told the religious leaders that they will be judged in the manner they judge others. Ironicly, the biblical Jesus was a leftist.

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05 Aug 2012, 2:16 am

raisedbyignorance wrote:
Wouldn't it make more sense to send angry letters to the politicians? I mean I can get the giving the finger thing but I think going to Chick-Fil-A would only accomplish half of what you're trying to resolve.


Nah, I think that giving money to CFA sends a better message than a letter a politician is just going to ignore does, politicians seem to pay a lot more attention to money.


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I agree, the biblical Jesus did not hang out with the pharasees but hung out with societies outcasts. He bucked the system and was anti-establishment too. In fact the religious folks really did not like him because he was like the pied piper of the damned meanwhile he told the religious leaders that they will be judged in the manner they judge others. Ironicly, the biblical Jesus was a leftist.

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Jesus was on his own side. He wasn't interested in what the Romans did or any other geo-political issues. He wasn't interested in overthrowing capitalism,he participated in that system as a carpenter, and did not discourage others from it but emphasized voluntary charity and aid to those who need it. With the exception of the sick and disabled, he did not associate with the outcasts as a sign of approval even though he didn't judge them. The state of their lives was in bad shape and they didn't just need help, they needed a radical intervention. If ancient Israel had a significant underground gay community, Jesus would have interacted with them for that same reason- not to condemn them, but to intervene for those willing.


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