transgender student OKed for locker room access

Page 4 of 13 [ 206 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 ... 13  Next

nurseangela
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Nov 2014
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,017
Location: Kansas

11 Dec 2015, 8:24 pm

Edenthiel wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Do you think a girl dressed like a guy could get away with being in a guys lockerroom with a whole bunch of jocks? She'd be a laughing farce.


I'm going to assume you are trying to say that trans guys couldn't "get away" with being in a guys' locker room with a bunch of jocks.
You know, guys like Aydian Dowling. Or Shawn Stinson. Or Neo Sandja.
Fortunately, they really don't care what you say, and a lot of their fellow jocks don't, either.

Image

Image

Image


Ok, I looked up this Aydian Dowling. He's transgender and my question is - does he have a penis or not? He's already a guy from the waist up so there's no reason not to go through with a total sex change. You don't think if a manly man like that went into a guys lockerroom naked without a "package" the guys wouldn't say something? Please spare me. Likewise the same if a woman was running around a lockerroom with a dangling appendage- women would run out screaming. Which is my point - if they want to be the opposite sex and they go that far to look like a man, then go all the way. And why make it so public? If this Aydian person went into a guys lockerroom, sure he would pass inspection as long as he didn't change in front of everyone else and make them uncomfortable. If these girls were ok with that kid changing in their lockerroom then I'd be fine with it. I somehow doubt that's the case otherwise it wouldn't have been in court.


_________________
Me grumpy?
I'm happiness challenged.

Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 83 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 153 of 200 You are very likely neurotypical
Darn, I flunked.


RoadRatt
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 26 Aug 2014
Age: 60
Gender: Male
Posts: 58,030
Location: Oregon

11 Dec 2015, 9:29 pm

Edenthiel wrote:
This goes way beyond belief, RoadRatt. Beyond "sincerely held belief" even. The problem is your definition of "biological" or even male/female (or boy/girl). You are *choosing* to base it on a single body part based on nothing but tradition (or Tradition). You are deciding for other people what *makes* them a man or woman / boy or girl. The actual biology of human sex dimorphism is nothing like that, and your choice for them is sometimes inaccurate.

20 years ago there was a study (Zhou, et all 1994). Statistically insignificant, insufficient methodology, but that's sometimes the case when something new is discovered because you don't know what you are looking for. Zhou found that human brains have at least one low level site that is structured different for men and women. And it matches sex identity, not necessarily the sex assigned at birth. Those findings were replicated, confirmed and greatly expanded. Whole new areas of study opened up in a number of fields. Just last year someone actually mapped out the differences in neuron connections of certain brain structures between the two sexes of 2mm long nematodes. They only have 400 neurons, which proves these differences are very basic indeed.

Other researchers over the last 20 years worked out which other brain sites and attributes are sex-dirmorphic, how & why they develop in utero (for humans; some species such as rats differentiate just after birth) , which genes are responsible and how they express, and so on. That has been matched by corresponding findings in endocrinology (hormones & the chemical functionality of receptors), genetics and developmental biology.

It comes down to this: there are 20+ known brain areas that are different for men and women. We know how and when they develop in the direction they do. And they are the structures underlying functions such as your sense of Self (damage it and you can't tell you from other) *and* the brain's internal, low level, hardwired map of the body. And guess what? They match sex/gender identity, not the sex assigned at birth based on one other body site that develops at a different time in utero, with different triggers.

Something to consider: You can damage or lose other parts of the body and still remain who you are. That doesn't work with the brain, so in a very real way it is *the* sex dimorphic part that determines what you are.


I know what men and women are, if it has a penis it's male no matter what it's head tells it that it is. If it has a vagina it's a female no matter what it's head tells it that it is. Trying to cloud the issue with what's in a person's head is only muddying the water. What the head tells you is between the trans person and their psychiatrist. If my head told me I was a duck people would say I was crazy and lock me away, yet as long as it's a transgender issue everyone thinks we should all fall in line with this illogical argument and go along with it.

Not trying to say you're all crazy by the way. I just can't come up with another example or way of putting it to get my point across. :P


_________________
No power in the 'verse can stop me. - River Tam (Firefly)


nurseangela
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 27 Nov 2014
Gender: Female
Posts: 8,017
Location: Kansas

11 Dec 2015, 9:44 pm

Good one, RoadRatt. :lol:

(Normally I'm not even saying stuff like this and taunting people, but right back at you Ardentmisanthrope23, if you are going to make fun of what's being said. )


_________________
Me grumpy?
I'm happiness challenged.

Your neurodiverse (Aspie) score: 83 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 153 of 200 You are very likely neurotypical
Darn, I flunked.


wilburforce
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 13 Sep 2014
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,940

11 Dec 2015, 10:16 pm

RoadRatt wrote:
Edenthiel wrote:
This goes way beyond belief, RoadRatt. Beyond "sincerely held belief" even. The problem is your definition of "biological" or even male/female (or boy/girl). You are *choosing* to base it on a single body part based on nothing but tradition (or Tradition). You are deciding for other people what *makes* them a man or woman / boy or girl. The actual biology of human sex dimorphism is nothing like that, and your choice for them is sometimes inaccurate.

20 years ago there was a study (Zhou, et all 1994). Statistically insignificant, insufficient methodology, but that's sometimes the case when something new is discovered because you don't know what you are looking for. Zhou found that human brains have at least one low level site that is structured different for men and women. And it matches sex identity, not necessarily the sex assigned at birth. Those findings were replicated, confirmed and greatly expanded. Whole new areas of study opened up in a number of fields. Just last year someone actually mapped out the differences in neuron connections of certain brain structures between the two sexes of 2mm long nematodes. They only have 400 neurons, which proves these differences are very basic indeed.

Other researchers over the last 20 years worked out which other brain sites and attributes are sex-dirmorphic, how & why they develop in utero (for humans; some species such as rats differentiate just after birth) , which genes are responsible and how they express, and so on. That has been matched by corresponding findings in endocrinology (hormones & the chemical functionality of receptors), genetics and developmental biology.

It comes down to this: there are 20+ known brain areas that are different for men and women. We know how and when they develop in the direction they do. And they are the structures underlying functions such as your sense of Self (damage it and you can't tell you from other) *and* the brain's internal, low level, hardwired map of the body. And guess what? They match sex/gender identity, not the sex assigned at birth based on one other body site that develops at a different time in utero, with different triggers.

Something to consider: You can damage or lose other parts of the body and still remain who you are. That doesn't work with the brain, so in a very real way it is *the* sex dimorphic part that determines what you are.


I know what men and women are, if it has a penis it's male no matter what it's head tells it that it is. If it has a vagina it's a female no matter what it's head tells it that it is. Trying to cloud the issue with what's in a person's head is only muddying the water. What the head tells you is between the trans person and their psychiatrist. If my head told me I was a duck people would say I was crazy and lock me away, yet as long as it's a transgender issue everyone thinks we should all fall in line with this illogical argument and go along with it.

Not trying to say you're all crazy by the way. I just can't come up with another example or way of putting it to get my point across. :P


So in other words: you believe what you believe and no amount of measurable fact or scientific research is going to change what you believe because you are happy staying ignorant because it makes you feel superior to people different from yourself that you are afraid of. Cool.

Keep burying your head in the sand, but transgender people aren't going anywhere and if you can't accept their existence you are going to be left in the dust with the other bigot dinosaurs.



wilburforce
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 13 Sep 2014
Gender: Female
Posts: 1,940

11 Dec 2015, 10:20 pm

nurseangela wrote:
Edenthiel wrote:
nurseangela wrote:
Do you think a girl dressed like a guy could get away with being in a guys lockerroom with a whole bunch of jocks? She'd be a laughing farce.


I'm going to assume you are trying to say that trans guys couldn't "get away" with being in a guys' locker room with a bunch of jocks.
You know, guys like Aydian Dowling. Or Shawn Stinson. Or Neo Sandja.
Fortunately, they really don't care what you say, and a lot of their fellow jocks don't, either.

Image

Image

Image


Ok, I looked up this Aydian Dowling. He's transgender and my question is - does he have a penis or not? He's already a guy from the waist up so there's no reason not to go through with a total sex change. You don't think if a manly man like that went into a guys lockerroom naked without a "package" the guys wouldn't say something? Please spare me. Likewise the same if a woman was running around a lockerroom with a dangling appendage- women would run out screaming. Which is my point - if they want to be the opposite sex and they go that far to look like a man, then go all the way. And why make it so public? If this Aydian person went into a guys lockerroom, sure he would pass inspection as long as he didn't change in front of everyone else and make them uncomfortable. If these girls were ok with that kid changing in their lockerroom then I'd be fine with it. I somehow doubt that's the case otherwise it wouldn't have been in court.


Not everyone is as much of a pearl-clutcher as you. If a transgender woman was in the same change-room as me, I would not run out screaming because of a penis. I am an adult, and such ridiculously overdone and childish reactions like that are beneath me. Being in the same room with a penis is not going to harm me in any way. Get a grip, lady. Seriously.



Edenthiel
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Sep 2014
Age: 56
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,820
Location: S.F Bay Area

11 Dec 2015, 10:23 pm

RoadRatt wrote:
I know what men and women are, if it has a penis it's male no matter what it's head tells it that it is. If it has a vagina it's a female no matter what it's head tells it that it is.


So, the roughly 800 guys who came back from Iraq sans penis are no longer men. Wonder how that would make them feel, to be told that to their face?


_________________
“For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.”
―Carl Sagan


Edenthiel
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Sep 2014
Age: 56
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,820
Location: S.F Bay Area

11 Dec 2015, 10:27 pm

Ben_Is_My_Only_God wrote:
Biological Male = XY chromosomes

Biological Female = XX Chromosomes

Sorry, not even close. Far too many top supermodels who are not transgender have been XY but have a condition called CAIS, where their androgen receptors are completely nonfunctional. In utero, since they can't react to testosterone, all sex-dimorphic body parts developed at the far "female" end of the scale.

Also, just to head this one off:
In just the last few years several women have been identified who were assigned female at birth, grew up as girls, went through puberty, got married, got pregnant and then, after giving birth it was discovered their chromosomes were XY. Because, up until then no one tested the genotype of women who'd given birth, it wasn't known that could happen!


_________________
“For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love.”
―Carl Sagan


Barchan
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 19 Sep 2014
Age: 38
Gender: Female
Posts: 849

12 Dec 2015, 12:30 am

nurseangela wrote:
You don't think if a manly man like that went into a guys lockerroom naked without a "package" the guys wouldn't say something?

I don't think they would, but even if they did, so what? You're essentially saying he should be punished for other people's misbehavior.

Ben_Is_My_Only_God wrote:
Biological Male = XY chromosomes
Biological Female = XX Chromosomes

You're saying the essence of gender is something you can't even see without a microscope? :b

Let's just stop for a moment, and think about how silly that is. I can guarantee that no one in the history of humankind, has ever looked at a hot guy and thought "woah, look at the chromosomes on him!"



Magneto
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Jun 2009
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,086
Location: Blighty

12 Dec 2015, 6:33 am

I'm still finding it weird how you have sex-segregated communal showers. Either drop the segregation (I'm sure many European countries don't get so hung up on seeing naked people), or drop the communal showers (if you don't want to be seen naked by people of one sex, why would you want to be seen naked by people of the other sex?).

Perhaps we should let the market decide. Provide non-segregated communal showers, sex-segregated communal showers, and individual shower stalls, and see which ones people choose. It wouldn't be all that expensive an experiment, I think.

Also, why do people ascribe magic power to genitals?



neilson_wheels
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Mar 2013
Age: 54
Gender: Male
Posts: 2,404
Location: London, Capital of the Un-United Kingdom

12 Dec 2015, 6:49 am

To all on this thread who don't like the current situation, actually it is your problem, so whether you learn to deal with or not, tough s**t.



Hyperborean
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 4 Jan 2015
Gender: Male
Posts: 956
Location: Europe

12 Dec 2015, 7:44 am

As far as I'm aware, the majority of members of WP are on the autism spectrum, or neuro-diverse in some way. They rightly expect that their condition, and the challenges they face, should be accepted and respected by the rest of society, even if society isn't able to fully understand their issues. Some people here actively campaign for this, whether IRL or online.

It follows that members of WP should treat trans-gender people with the same respect and consideration that they demand for themselves. But from reading some of the posts here, this isn't the case. Those posters - and you know who you are - are behaving hypocritically. Shame on you.

This is a thoroughly nasty thread that has gone beyond the bounds of a healthy, intelligent debate.

Yuk.



Sylkat
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 2 Sep 2011
Gender: Female
Posts: 17,425

12 Dec 2015, 8:40 am

Aspies and Auties are people who differ from the norm because of brain chemistry, and any obvious visual difference(s) from the norm is usually behavioral.

Big difference from a room full of women, in varying stages of undress, seeing a man walk into the changing room.

An individual who appeared male in my gym's shower/dressing room would upset/frighten me; I do think that I have the right to dress/undress/shower in a female-only environment.

I am not being mean, I am honestly saying that this would not be fair to me.

By the way, how many in this conversation do go to a gym regularly?

I do think that is a fair question.


_________________
Sylkat
Student Body President, Miskatonic University


Ben_Is_My_Only_God
Deinonychus
Deinonychus

User avatar

Joined: 2 Sep 2015
Posts: 345

12 Dec 2015, 8:47 am

Edenthiel wrote:
Ben_Is_My_Only_God wrote:
Biological Male = XY chromosomes

Biological Female = XX Chromosomes

Sorry, not even close. Far too many top supermodels who are not transgender have been XY but have a condition called CAIS, where their androgen receptors are completely nonfunctional. In utero, since they can't react to testosterone, all sex-dimorphic body parts developed at the far "female" end of the scale.

Also, just to head this one off:
In just the last few years several women have been identified who were assigned female at birth, grew up as girls, went through puberty, got married, got pregnant and then, after giving birth it was discovered their chromosomes were XY. Because, up until then no one tested the genotype of women who'd given birth, it wasn't known that could happen!


Nope, you are simply confusing the issue by trying to change the terms.

Biologically if it has XX chromosomes it is female

Biologically if it has XY chromosome it is male.

Whether something is functionally male or female is an entirely different issue, which doesn't alter its biological sex.


_________________
Whatever it is that you think that I'm thinking... you're wrong!

345 is a nice number on which to end.

Bimog And The Search For Pangea


TheInfinityGap
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 7 Nov 2015
Posts: 26
Location: Bangor

12 Dec 2015, 9:39 am

I'm actually going to talk about my own experiences using locker rooms. I normally swim with my university (stopped for now due to new piercing) and I use the male changing rooms. I am pre-op, still have breasts and use prosthetic genitals. Most people in the changing room do not give a damn about me changing there, and are perfectly fine with it, because strangely enough, us trans folk don't walk into changing rooms wanting to see everyone's naked bodies. Like, I most people, cisgendered (non-trans) and transgender, walk into changing rooms to get changed into other clothes, not see naked bodies. And those who do are predominantely (and openly) not transgender.

I know there have been people who have walked into the changing room, seen me and walked back out to find another room. I've also had cisgendered people watch me change. This has happened in both male and female changing rooms, and I've had to come to the conclusion that once people know you are transgender, there will be people who are uncomfortable with you wherever you change. Literally all we want to do is get in, get changed and get out. All of my bad changing room experiences have happened with cisgendered people, most of whom seem to be absolutely desperate to see what's in my pants.

Statistically speaking, transgender folk are more at risk of being attacked in locker rooms by you than you are by them. I don't think any of you have much to worry about. Us however...

(also please don't refer to us as 'it', that's kinda dehumanising. We are people too. If you don't want to use gendered pronouns, use 'they'.)

(also since when did you develop the ability to see people's chromosomes? plus there are more than just XX and XY - there are many intersex conditions such as XXX, X, XXXX, XXY etc)


_________________
call me cupid. please use they/them or he/his pronouns. be warned, i struggle to read all caps.


Hyperborean
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 4 Jan 2015
Gender: Male
Posts: 956
Location: Europe

12 Dec 2015, 9:46 am

^ thanks very much for this interesting personal insight, it's a refreshing change from some of the previous posts.

:)



Magneto
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 12 Jun 2009
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,086
Location: Blighty

12 Dec 2015, 9:50 am

If people have the right to change without having someone of the opposite sex seeing them, don't they have the right to change without having someone of the same sex seeing them? What if a girl feels uncomfortable changing in a room with other females, or a boy with other males?