Adopted Russian boy sent back

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I have never heard that story.

Me, neither!

You haven't?

I heard it quite a while back from him and I think it's in his blog. I don't know about his memory being erased though...

Anyway I'd suggest just asking him about it, he is the resource of this topic we're discussing after all.

Yes, people are generally... well, not so bright, as you can see putting the blame on the adopted parents, so that is to be expected when they read news about this, not to mention believing anything they read as it literally were. So yeah, usually, people who get judgemental in those situations would very likely have done the same thing and probably earlier.


On a flight to Russia of course!


hmmm, because sending him back to Russia he would not be able to kill her by burning the house? so she might have thought.


I would not be so quick to judge this person either, however, given the psychological issues that most abandoned kids may have at a certain age, I would say that adopting a 6 or 7 year old would not be such a good idea after all. Yeah, poor kids, but unless you are a saint, an activist, properly trained or perhaps even a masochist, then I would suggest the best idea for adoption would be either babies if possible or give up.

IMHO.

Well, I recall hearing about this story and somwhat consider the motive behind the mother's adoption of the child for, if she was sincere than I doubt she would have tried to ship him back per se so quickly without even trying to resolve the situation..Yes, it was stated the child had emotional troubles this being said of the adoptive mother but, if such was true and she willing knew of such and did not want to adopt but rather pretend to than that is unethical..Well, I hope that now this young boy is in a sincere,comforting place..

I don't know if he has discussed this here or in PM.

I've not seen strapples lately, does anyone know if here is still here on WP?

I just checked his profile and he was last here yesterday.

i hard of this i think this was so awful, i would of never i sent my child back. ( i say mine cause adoption) and i would of work on his behavior with him.

I think adoption has both postive & negative parts that make it up but, if one is sincerely willing to be a compassionate & understanding parent I feel the benefits outway the the minuses..

People should adopt from their own country first. Sad but some people are not meant to be parents.