lostonearth35 wrote:
The whole world is getting more messed up every day, why did I even have to be born?
You have to separate between how much violence is average really happening, and how much you get presented. If you look at statistic we live in a much more peaceful and less violent time then any others before. We are simply much more confronted with violence and everything, because of our nowadays technical knowlege we are facing the violence from all over the world. At my grandaunts time, she would have not been as shocked as we have been at catastrophes like the earthquake in Haiti, not because she wouldnt have cared, but because for her it would only be a black and white newspaper headline. Nowadays via Internet and television we see the suffering and horror of people right before our eyes, so its much more intense and rattles us more, then a simple newspapert headline without pictures could do. There was not less violence in earlier times, there simply was less information and less personal affecting information about violence acts, if they didnt happen around your town/neighborhood. 9/11 is a good and sad example, in earlier times I would have first heard from it at the evening news, with a picture of the still standing towers as background. While because of our information knowlegde you were watching it live, facing the emotions of the people you could see, sharing your arguing at the start how the hell that could happen that a plane crashes into the tower, then the shock and completely emotional confusion when the second plane suddenly crashed into the second tower before the cameras, you saw the people waving their hands outside the windows at the top levels and the shadows of the people that were jumping out of the windows, and it was simply impossible not to be affected and your brain was not able to tidy up all the confusion and horror and emotions you felt, because it simply affected you much, much more to face it then it would have been listening to a man, sitting in an propper television room with propper suit, and telling you with earnest voice about it. Sure it would have been a very important and sad information, but it would not have made you cry as example, it would not have made bus drivers in italy stop as it happened to friends of mine, because of him not being able any longer to focus properly on driving.
I do not want to say, that we should stop to care for such events, because knowlege gives you the power to prevent, but you should always remember yourself that its not the world getting worser, but simply our information networks getting more and more skilled. Its simply something else if you only get to read "...the relatives are in deep shock..." or if you are faced with a human that has a face and feelings.