Xenu wrote:
Wombat wrote:
So he yells at his girlfriend for dressing and acting like a cheap tart in a private phone conversation.
So SHE records it and makes it public to destroy his career, and HE is the bad guy?
Perhaps she is a cheap tart and an embarrassment to him. She is obviously a very viscous person.
Then his agent drops him because he (gasp) said the "N word"
His agent made millions of dollars out of him. I thought it was an agent's job to be loyal to the client and handle bad publicity?
The fix is in. The "powers that be" are determined to take him down.
He made the generalization that all African American males when they see a woman dressed rather inappropriately along with modified breasts will arouse them to a point where in a group they will sexually assault her assuming she would enjoy it. Mel was only trying to help her, I mean he should not have used that word but if he truly believes that African American males minds revert to that when they see a woman of that matter (which isn't true of course) than can't hate him for trying to protect his ex-girlfriend and daughter from being "raped by a pack of n*****s" because in his view it will be her own fault and doesn't want to risk that happening to her and his daughter.
And also he promised to bring her on vacation to a Rose Garden? I mean I myself don't care for gardens but I am sure the woman and the daughter would love going to a garden and seeing the roses and frolicking around.
I can't sympathize with him trying to "protect" his ex-girlfriend & daughter b/c I've seen what controlling men are like & its NOT pretty. Also, anyone who makes generalizations like that needs help b/c that level or paranoia & not caring about your partner's feelings is unhealthy & cruel. I realize all/most people including myself make generalizations but you need to recognize when you are doing so & when you have gone too far. I actually know someone who had an ex who used to record her messages to keep an eye on her 24/7... its WRONG to do this. But in this case her doing this may have been to prove that she's in trouble. Desperation can lead a person to do anything to survive & her motivation will determine if what she did was truly wrong in recording him. Controlling/humiliating him vs. Getting proof that he is hurting her emotionally/physically, etc.
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