Chronos wrote:
conundrum wrote:
I saw this on a misleading new story. The mother of an autistic child got into an argument with the restaurant owner over this sign and the story was trying to present the situation as the restaurant discriminating against autistic kids, which was total BS as the sign does not say "autistic kids" it just says "screaming kids".
I believe in making reasonable accommodations for people with disabilities. Screaming continuously and disrupting the peace of others is not something that is reasonable to accommodate.
Most people with Tourette's Syndrome would even agree with this.
I think some people like to throw in disabilities.
When people talk about stuff, they usually mean normal people, not special needs or people with health problems. I do get irritated when I talk and people mention special needs kids when I was talking about normal kids. Like when I see people saying people are so stupid they don't even know they are making rude comments or insulting someone, they are too stupid to know they are being insulted back. I could take offense to that since us aspies would be prone to doing those things and not picking up that we are being insulted but they are talking about normal people not aspies. I doubt they are thinking about autistic people when they say that. So no offense taken to that.
But I can see why the mother took the sign so personally, her son is a screaming child due to his autism so she felt her son was unwelcome there. She couldn't teach him to not scream? I sure know Temple Grandin wouldn't have been allowed to do that as a child because her mother expected her to show respect and have good manners and taught her well. Heck even Temple would probably agree to that new policy the restuarant has and say "autism is no excuse for disruptive behavior."
If the kid did scream due to sensory issues, why take him to a place that triggers them? Why not just remove him from the situation when he starts to scream? The kid is still welcome there if he isn't screaming. The mother just took it way out of context. Like I say, people love to throw in disabilities. I think I am guilty of doing that in the past because I took things so personally. I am afraid I did that on another forum when someone suggested a new rule, use proper English and I said that would effect people whose English isn't their primary language and people with learning disabilities so they might feel they aren't welcome there. Well people there do call learning disabled people trolls due to their poor spelling. They are so intolorant of disabilities even though they know I have AS and there are other disabled people there and they all get respect. Even me. That's because we spell well and one of them uses a program to help with his spelling and grammar.