Kicked Out of Library for verbal stimming?
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Laurita, 47, posted videos on Facebook Sunday of her 8-year-old son Nicholas at their local public library in Franklin Lakes. He's seen taking individual DVD cases from the shelf, tapping each one on the back two times as he examines the cover; he's also heard making verbal sounds in another video.
Laurita tells her son, "You gotta keep it down, Nick."
But the library staff asked them to leave, according to Laurita.
She wrote on Facebook, "Nicholas got kicked out of on his favorite spots (our PUBLIC library) this week. I guess non contexual vocals & tapping [twice] on the DVDs are frowned upon."
Laurita said her son had a "meltdown" as she struggled to get him to leave, and "not one person offered or tried to help, or even opened the door for us. They just watched me struggle to get him out... as asked."
In a statement to NJ.com Monday, the library's board of trustees said, "Our policy of inclusion is demonstrated daily. Our staff has years of experience catering to patrons who are physically challenged, visual or hearing impaired, as well as special education students from our public school system, and developmentally delayed children and adults."
"No patron is ever asked to leave the library unless and until their actions are depriving other patrons of the ability to enjoy our services," the library's statement continued.
Laurita revealed in 2012 that Nicholas, then 3 years old, was diagnosed with autism a year earlier after initially hiding her son's medical condition from Bravo's cameras during filming of season four. Laurita and her husband, Chris Laurita, documented their family's new reality on "Real Housewives," publicly sharing their struggles and Nicholas' progress.
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DSM 5: Autism Spectrum Disorder, DSM IV: Aspergers Moderate Severity
“My autism is not a superpower. It also isn’t some kind of god-forsaken, endless fountain of suffering inflicted on my family. It’s just part of who I am as a person”. - Sara Luterman
I have heard stories of people with Tourette's being kicked out of theaters for their loud tics. Just as long as they get their money back, I wouldn't see the problem.
I think if an autistic child is causing a disturbance and making a mess or disturbing other people by being too loud, I think the library has the right to ask them to leave. I find it hard to believe tapping on DVDs is what got him kicked out because that isn't even loud unless he was actually hitting the cases and pounding on them. Parents will tend to trivialize their kids behavior and they don't see it as bad as others will see it. Parents tend to be bias about their own children. I saw the video and the sound was pretty loud, if he was only tapping, I wouldn't have heard it. I also wonder why she was even filming him?
The vocals he was making didn't seem to be loud. Maybe the library was worried about their cases and discs being busted. I wonder if the mom would see this differently if he was doing this to their DVDs at home or did she not care about others property?
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.
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