lelia wrote:
Don't I wish! I need to lose sixty pounds. Among the asperger's women I have met, very few are very thin.
After struggling with it for 14 years and almost dying from it, I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.
As for anorexia being the female Asperger's, eh. I have AS and I was also anorexic. My problems were never about beauty or fashion or how I looked, it was more an external representation of internal struggle. I could not effectively communicate, between my AS and the unwillingness of those around me to listen. I was often punished, seen as the bad kid because I didn't or couldn't listen, do things on time, etc. As I wasted away, it was metaphor in a manner of speaking. "I'm already broken, stop trying to break me more." I thought that they way I was seen could be changed if I manipulated my external appearance. That manipulation became an obsession of weighing, counting, exercising, calorie burning, and self-punishment and starvation. It was a nightmare.
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