Clueless Guys Can't Read Women

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Clueless Guys Can't Read Women

Eh, i always thought it was an aspie thing...

And then, to add to the confusion men have in trying to read non-verbal cues, some women admit that they flirt a bit all the time as their normal way of talking to people, because it's easier for them to be liked / get what they want when they flirt just a little bit with everybody. So, if the normally-clueless guy does correctly indentify her social flirting, he'll think it's just meant for him, and that's where he really gets thrown off.

He's being very logical about it:

1) "I know she's flirting."

Answer: Correct.

2) "I know she's talking to me."

Answer: Correct.

3) "Therefore, she wants me to ask her out."

Answer: Not necessarily. She may just flirt freely, and may not even realize it.
Action to take: Subtly seek confirmation.
And this, once again, is an almost unnavigable arena for most Aspie guys, and it is mined with confidence-smashing pitfalls.
(Not to sound negative or anything! I have a girlfriend, after all, so there's always hope for Aspie guys!)

Good to see you back, Jr Knothead!

So it's not just me, it's not just aspies, all men have this problem? Maybe the women should hold a communications seminar and standardize their signals.

That would be the logicial thing to do... if you read the OP you see that women are not acting logical

well thank yuh veruh much...

been engrossed with the whole anonymous thing lately...