Ever had a friend not want to be a friend anymore ?

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I had the exact same thing happen. I had a friend who I gave my phone number to, since it was the end of the year and everyone gave their phone numbers out to everyone in their yearbooks in middle school (lol). It was during the next 4 or so years that I realized I made a grave mistake...she kept calling me (even if I was gone) and calling me and calling me and calling me...you get the idea; sometimes even 12 or 15 times a day during the summers! I have Asperger's Syndrome, and even I know it's not okay to just keep calling someone until they answer the phone (unless it's an emergency). She had a little autism herself, and said that she was a little suicidal at one point in time (so I didn't know what to say to her and I didn't want to be hypocritical). I mean, I know that people sometimes call people that many times a day, but that's a mutual relationship! Then she kept wanting to talk for a couple hours and kept asking me or implying that she wanted to come over. I invited her the first few times that she asked, but then she always kept wanting to come over all the time and all she ever wanted to do was sit down and watch movies. Since she was the guest I let her do whatever she wanted to do to be polite, but then my head always hurt after watching 9 or 10 hours of movies, which isn't my thing usually. It went on for years and then I didn't want to be around her anymore; I felt really annoyed by her but I wasn't sure as to what to do or how she'd react to tell her that I didn't like her anymore or to stop calling me, or it would take many years to get over that disliking for calling too much. I didn't want to be hypocritical either because I didn't like being avoided or I didn't like it when I liked someone and they didn't like me back. But on the other hand I did truly make an effort and after awhile this calling all the time thing got very old. I'll just say that I'm glad I'm going off to college where she can't call me like that anymore.

Hi,

i have had a situation where a bully taking all my school/college friends away cos the bully stirred up trouble as the bully couldnt contact me my now exfriends contact me telling nasty comments from the bully and then the friends say they dont want me anymore its makin me really depressed

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Always happens to me. I've got one good freind, but the rest keep moving away cause of things I do/say. It does get pretty annoying

twice in the past a pair in my group of friends suddenly decided they hated me .... and another guy was my friend in year 7 but he spent all of year 8 teasing me for having no friends

at some point will nearly all of my friends ive wanted to get rid of them cus they pissed me off really bad ... but it usually just sinks into my general hatred for everyone i see

I have had a few people do this to me.

I hate it with a passion

People are your friends on a superficial level until they really get to know who you are and then they decide that you are "different" and cant accept that so they dont want to be around you anymore.

My friend is no longer my friend because I said some things that were really dumb & she no longer wanted to be around me. I did apologize but got my butt kicked because of this.

every "friend" i have ever had did this to me

I've been lucky enough to have had good friends. But two dropped me for seemingly no reason. One recently...

lol...yobs!

yeah...i've been let go by friends countless numbers of times...

totally lame...

Yeah, if I ever snap all the way she's the first to go. If I wasn't smart enough to know I would get caught and go to jail I'd probably tear her spine out.

Such things are a big problem to me because, well I'm a little bit clingy to people I like. I got lonely because I've never had very many friends and I get lonely. Thus, I want to be with who I have. She wanted to be popular and get new friends. She didn't want the weird kid hanging around her. Now I'm damaged emotionally thanks to her. Therefore, no matter where I am in life I will probably never stop hating her and popular people in general.

Now I'm alone and the only people who can stand me are this idiot who won't leave me alone no matter what I do, this girl who's nice, but not exactly compatible with my personality, her sister, and this person who sits next to me in art who's not exactly interesting to be around. Everyone else is just against me in every possible way.

Life without a best friend is the worst.

that has happened to me.

thats happened to me more times than i can remember, for most my life i couldnt keep a friend for more than 2 years, i never get a reson either. at the moment the group of "friends" i have at the moment apper to have forgoten that i even exciset outside of school basicly there c***s but its to late in my school life to try and make new friends

i know exactly what this is like. i'm a freshman at college now so i have tried to keep in touch with various people from high school, not to say ALL of them, won't respond to my messages or calls. A couple I'm already planning on seeing winter break. College has been better than I thought it would be, but a few people here have found out I have it, although until college I might have had one friend I would do anything for, and even he was a complete dick and ignored me two years later. But I have definitely two or three people I would do anything for here and im talking about people outside of class but people I get drunk with and see outside of class. surprisingly, they completely neurotypical.

I've only had this happen to me once, and that was last year.

I had been friends with these two boys since third grade, and we were basically inseparable. They were only friends with me and each other. One in particular was annoying, never shut up, unintelligent, unpopular, and morbidly obese and I never let him forget it. This kid had so many problems I wonder how he even survives walking down the hallway at school without breaking down completely. I was his only friend besides the other kid, who has his share of issues too.

One day in the middle seventh grade he got sick of me telling him to shape up and stop being a wimp, and since the other friend follows him around wherever and sticks with him through everything, so when one got mad at me the other did too. They didn't want to deal with their own problems, and have pretty much never spoken to me since (except a bit from the second kid whose temper seems to have died down).

I don't care anymore. I'm better off without them dragging me down. Now I have tons more friends who aren't a complete mess, and I'm happy with it. I can't even remember why I ever hung out with those crybabies, especially the former, who can't stand to be within ten feet of me. He's definitely so disliked by everyone and failing school so badly that he seems closer every day to giving up altogether, but oh well; that's the way it goes for people like him.

I try not to dwell on past relationships.

well i had a primary school friend who I am pretty sure had AS.( although i didnt know what it was at the time). Anyway we were really good friends until high school came and then we didnt really talk anymore. thats probably one of the only friends ive had that i wanted to keep.