Ever feel the crazy urge...?

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Yes!

Is that normal? Or is it Aspie?

I love to cuddle. I get that urge all the time. Not with random strangers though- just with people I know reasonably well and at least sort of like.

I think it's more because when we get to know people (and vice versa) they come to know us as not liking physical contact. Later on, however, when we become comfortable enough with them to be physical, it freaks them out, so we just stay repressed about it.

I hate it when someone out of no where just hugs me. My sister likes doing that and sometimes she'll just randomly kiss me on the cheek. My brother's make fun of it sometimes so I get back at them by hugging them randomly too. My first reaction when someone hugs me without warning is not but . Whenever I'm in church and we are holding hands I will just randomly squeeze the person's hand as hard as I can. Sadly, if it's my brother he nearly breaks my hand when return squeezes it.

if you also like the guy who plays ed in fma you would get along great with the resembool rangers

No, I don't like hugs and would never initiate them.

A reason why:
Once when I was 13, I said something that made my mother cry which I wont mention here. Anyway, she told my grandmother and my grandmother got this crazy idea that I didn't feel loved and wanted attention. Instead of just yelling at me like a usual punishment...she yelled at me first and then forced a hug on me and wouldn't let go for 5 minutes and was telling me that she loved me.

I never liked people to hug me suddenly as a child but would initiate them and let them hug me if I said they could. After that expereince though, physical contact is completely off limits.

I have the urge to go down on four and walk around like a dog. The bad thing is that I'm not able to do it with my human body without pains and clumsyness. I even go down on four when retreating in dreams because it feels more "natrual" to run like that. I greatly pains me that I can't

i have a friend and we hug all the time but i love physical contact. but I come off as way creepy

If anything it is good for your health.

man i luvit. when dia and i first hugged and kissed, it felt surreal, but we broke up

Yes, often. Thankfully most of my friends are girls, and they're the touchy feely type. So there's always someone around up for a hug! Especially thick girls. They give the best hugs!