Why are the NT boys so darn IMMATURE?

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retroboy
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15 Apr 2008, 7:51 pm

Ok, if you are going to reply to this, please be MATURE about it and don't flame me, m'kay?

Seriously, there isn't a single boy at my school that doesn't act like a total jerk! I feel like the only boy there that can carry on a conversation without swearing or being rude to the other person in general! Plus, on top of that, about half my school thinks they're ghetto! They speak like total "gangstas" and try to make themselves look "cool" when they are just jerks! And also, if I am able to find a NT who isn't a jerk, they don't seem to even want to be around me cause they think I"M a jerk! (trust me, if you were around me enough in real life, you'd be thinking that too) I just wish that the other boys would just GROW UP!

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15 Apr 2008, 8:00 pm

Ummm... probably not.

Most teenagers, male or female aren't very mature. Aspies seem to be a bit better, or at least not a superficial, but I've notice we can definately act our age, or lower!

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15 Apr 2008, 9:31 pm

retroboy wrote:

NT people without major problems in life has always been around only good so they are innocent like a child. When you grow up with mental illness, loss of family member, etc. you loss your innocence and learn that sometimes things aren't just about you. I know all the kids with money in my school are f**k wads and the poor kids are gratful with the little things they get.

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15 Apr 2008, 9:44 pm

I'se about to say that NTs don't have a monopoly on immaturity... at a certain age, everyone's immature...that's how you tell what maturity is...

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19 Apr 2008, 1:21 pm

aspies have the ability to think about the consequences such things will have on its surroundings

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19 Apr 2008, 2:38 pm

retroboy wrote:

Oh my god. Yes! You have a great point there!
I know a guy that is 17 and isnt a jerk.....I think hes a normal teen.
Im a girl and I am mature for 16, well thats what I think.....
but I can defintley carry a conversation without cursing or swearing or being rude.

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21 Apr 2008, 12:38 am

It's not just NT boys...it's the girls as well! Trust me, it's not just NTs either.

I think all people are immature in a way, but just that some people choose a really unprogressive way to express it, instead of working on becoming more mature.
Also, being "gangsta" isn't being immature. "Gangsta" is currently (and has been for a long time) a part of the "in croud". Most people want to be a part of the in croud, especially if they have some kind of social reputation to maintain, so they will do anything to be a part of that crowd.
Wanting to be part of the in-crowd is what a lot of humans want, and it just happens to be that what is currently vogue seems pointless and immature to some, but seems everything desireable to others.

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21 Apr 2008, 1:21 am

retroboy wrote:

People in the hood just got a different way of doing things, different style, different culture, different way we carry ourselves. They're a product of their environment. Then there's some people like you say that try to act like ganstas cuz they think it's cool which isn't cool.

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22 Apr 2008, 10:39 pm

Brandon-J wrote:

retroboy wrote:

People in the hood grow up faster, while suburbans have stagnant maturity. It is up to the brilliance of MTV (where up is down and down is up) to warp these cultures. Gangstas don't anymore "get by" trying to their situations , the thuggish get formulaic music contracts to act the suburban age. Using the anarchisms of gangster life, MTV is able to divide the parent/son generation against itself and the youth subscribe to a multi-billion dollar subculture.

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22 Apr 2008, 11:15 pm

Viola wrote:

Ummm... probably not.

Most teenagers, male or female aren't very mature. Aspies seem to be a bit better, or at least not a superficial, but I've notice we can definately act our age, or lower!

Really I've often have been told I have the maturity of a 14 year old.

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23 Apr 2008, 9:57 am

MartyMoose wrote:

Viola wrote:

Ummm... probably not.

Most teenagers, male or female aren't very mature. Aspies seem to be a bit better, or at least not a superficial, but I've notice we can definately act our age, or lower!

Really I've often have been told I have the maturity of a 14 year old.

I can still get the kids menu. :lol:

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25 Apr 2008, 7:13 pm

I actually hang out with boys who I feel I can have a better intellectual conversation with than girls. Honestly, all girls want to talk about is clothes and dating. I have also noticed that boys are not quite as easily offended as girls about something. I find it easier to be friends with boys even though I will probably never have a male date...

But now that I think about it, the boys I hang out with have ADD, ADHD and similar stuff, so I'm not sure if they'd be considered NT.

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Aspie_Rocker
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25 Apr 2008, 10:00 pm

At home, Im pretty mature. But at school I turn on the humor and just be as immature and funny as possible. Thats why Im cool!

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05 May 2008, 3:43 pm

So true they are jerkwads and I am a guy but so are the girls at my school and and the Nt's are very shallow to. The kids with money are jerks because they have a better exsistence.

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