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Fintan29
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04 Mar 2008, 8:28 am

I feel like it right now even.

willnormanuk
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04 Mar 2008, 10:41 am

please read the topic that is second from the top of the main Adolescent Asperger Forum page.

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HarraArial
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04 Mar 2008, 6:46 pm

I CAN be aggressive, however, considering there is the double-standard that girls aren't allowed to be aggressive, I can't really vent it anywhere.

I get a lot done fencing with sticks with some of my classmates though. ((And if I'm lucky, I'm fighting someone who actually hits hard and tries, I've scared off too many men who were either thinking I wasa wimp, or didn't want to hurt me.)) I'm not physically strong, but I can be vicious if I want to, especially with sticks, I can beat and abuse someone with sticks, weather they're armed or not.

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emmaC
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21 Mar 2008, 7:04 am

Oh yes, i can be agressive.

Jamie06
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21 Mar 2008, 7:25 am

I sometimes can, if i'm really annoyed.

HarrySutcliffe
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25 Mar 2008, 12:27 pm

I'm not usually not agressive, up untill the point when I get really mad

Teoka
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25 Mar 2008, 3:41 pm

I have a horrible temper, but at least most people won't pull any BS on me out of fear <3

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Brittany2907
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25 Mar 2008, 9:12 pm

I CAN be aggressive but choose not to. I used to have a really bad temper and lash out at people/things but now I try and control it.
I still get mad, but instead of destroying things i go for a walk or jog, punch a punching bag etc...some form of HEALTHY energy outlet.

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Judah
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25 Aug 2009, 8:38 am

I have a nasty temper. New people I meet learn real quick not to f**k with me, and those who know me already know very well. I'm also extremely intolerant of opinions that go against my own. I don't deal with anger and hatred well, especially other people's. Sometimes it goes so far that I get downright malevolent, like when someone is pushing it on purpose, then I don't think and I have no bounds. Sometimes I verbally attack people who aren't to blame for anything. Friends tell me to try to channel it into something positive, I tell them they haven't got a f*****g clue what feeling pissed off is like if they think that.

Most other aspies don't seem to have to have strong or extreme tempers.

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L_Lawlliet
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25 Aug 2009, 7:21 pm

ohh i'm a monster!! i'm soo agressive (even though i'm a girl) i usually get into punch&kick fights with girls and guys....once i even took out a penknife (but i never used it, i don't think i dare...or maybe i would... (don't know, don't wanna know))
i'm trying to be less agressive leaving them only in verbal fights but some times i can't because people annoyme soo much that sometimes i just can't control myself

that's why people learn fast not to f*ck arround with me

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25 Aug 2009, 10:37 pm

When scared or threatened.

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15 Jun 2010, 11:00 pm

HarraArial wrote:

I know just how you feel. It's hard to be an agressive girl without becoming an outcast (too late for me anyway, lol). It's really good that you've found an outlet that's at least a little constructive. My best friends (who's a guy) refuses to really fight me, even though he's kind of a wimp. Has anyone here ever resorted to psychological relational agression?
Btw, playing dodgeball helps a lot, especially if you're a long-range weapon kind of girl.

arecibo_
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16 Jun 2010, 8:15 pm

when something pisses me off I tend to get very agitated and I sometimes have outbursts with lots of shouting/insults/what have you. It's less common but it still happens.

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