09 Aug 2011, 3:41 pm
I used to think I'd never find a boyfriend or anything, but ended up finding one and we've been together a year 
I bet all of you will find someone eventually
09 Aug 2011, 5:22 pm
10 Aug 2011, 10:37 am
Well I'm dating an NT guy and he didn't even have a gf before he was 19, so there's nothing wrong with that
10 Aug 2011, 1:41 pm
Okay, and congrats w/ having bf 
10 Aug 2011, 3:45 pm
10 Aug 2011, 6:03 pm
26 Oct 2011, 12:11 pm
Jennnnn wrote:
I used to think I'd never find a boyfriend or anything, but ended up finding one and we've been together a year
I bet all of you will find someone eventually
I bet all of you will find someone eventually
i gave up looking for a girl to date me years ago, im handsome enough but i always felt i dont deserve to date a girl as if all girls are too far above my league, besides i have a hard enough time keeping friendships barely able to keep em for even a year i dont even know how i would be in a relationship but it probably wouldnt end well
sorry if this an older post i havent been on in a few months since like idk the middle of summer
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27 Oct 2011, 5:52 pm
TheKing wrote:
MakaylaTheAspie wrote:
I don't know if I will ever have a bf, but I'm not going to obsess over it.
most of my depression stems from loneliness involved with never having a girlfriend but i just gave up and i mainly focus on being a good friend to people
That's all the world really needs.
28 Oct 2011, 2:43 pm
MakaylaTheAspie wrote:
TheKing wrote:
MakaylaTheAspie wrote:
I don't know if I will ever have a bf, but I'm not going to obsess over it.
most of my depression stems from loneliness involved with never having a girlfriend but i just gave up and i mainly focus on being a good friend to people
That's all the world really needs.
true but i just feel an emptiness like im missing something when i see my friends with people they are with and i cant even stand love anymore if people around me show it i tend to wander off randomly
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28 Oct 2011, 8:37 pm
Sath96347 wrote:
The only relationship I had that went well was more of a very close friendship, and it was with another aspie. I don't get on too well with NTs who can't understand things I say or how I feel. It just gets me stressed out more and I have meltdowns a lot. I got out of that kind of relationship about a month ago because I couldn't get him to understand that I would need space, or that I couldn't pick up when he was upset. I doubt I'll ever have a good, healthy relationship with anyone NT. The only person I'm close to like that is another aspie girl who I met around a year ago and finally started talking to a lot.
yeah thats how it was for me last year my best friend at the time Cheyenne was awesome she was literally like the female version of me in almost every way our friendship ended because a mistake i made that got her boyfriend mad at me,course he never liked me anyway since me and Cheyenne were very close i had an Affectional Bond with her and i nearly committed suicide after 5 years of no suicidal tendencies because of her ending our friendship
it was a tough time for me it was in May
most N/Ts i cant stand especially girls but a few i can mainly the stoner girls because cannabis is a leveler it puts us all on the same level, breaks down barriers and allows me to actually get along with N/Ts and for some reason most stoner girls especially my Best friend this year Sara are really nice to me and even though they know im autistic they dont care about that they actually care about me for me thats pretty rare for me to find in people i have only a few friends like that
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29 Oct 2011, 3:23 am
TheKing wrote:
Sath96347 wrote:
The only relationship I had that went well was more of a very close friendship, and it was with another aspie. I don't get on too well with NTs who can't understand things I say or how I feel. It just gets me stressed out more and I have meltdowns a lot. I got out of that kind of relationship about a month ago because I couldn't get him to understand that I would need space, or that I couldn't pick up when he was upset. I doubt I'll ever have a good, healthy relationship with anyone NT. The only person I'm close to like that is another aspie girl who I met around a year ago and finally started talking to a lot.
yeah thats how it was for me last year my best friend at the time Cheyenne was awesome she was literally like the female version of me in almost every way our friendship ended because a mistake i made that got her boyfriend mad at me,course he never liked me anyway since me and Cheyenne were very close i had an Affectional Bond with her and i nearly committed suicide after 5 years of no suicidal tendencies because of her ending our friendship
it was a tough time for me it was in May most N/Ts i cant stand especially girls but a few i can mainly the stoner girls because cannabis is a leveler it puts us all on the same level, breaks down barriers and allows me to actually get along with N/Ts and for some reason most stoner girls especially my Best friend this year Sara are really nice to me and even though they know im autistic they dont care about that they actually care about me for me thats pretty rare for me to find in people i have only a few friends like that
Interesting that... I can relate.
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