What makes for a cute (insert opposite gender here)

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Maybe no aspie likes them (though I'm sure you could find some), but a lot of NTs do.

Ok, so to answer the question...
In a guy:
Longer hair
Dark hair (preferably black, but other dark colors work too, as well as odd colored streaks/tints)
Pale skin
Either sharp eyes or very dark eyes
Not too thin, but not really overweight either. More like slender.
Dark, elegant style
Intelligent
Thoughtful
Slightly withdrawn
Understanding
Artistic
A bit emotional
Taller than me or about even (I'm 5'9" and still going)

Of course my standards are high, but I'm usually drawn to other people as well who fit only or two of my criteria. These people are normally the ones that are considered cute in a geeky way.

I like goofy smiles.

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In a female:
Has Respect for my Aspieness & for all Aspies
Understanding
Kind
Caring
Great, eccentric personality
Intelligent
Thoughtful
Liberal
Religious
Good Taste in music, film, art, etc.
Empathetic
Very Playful {no promiscuity please}

Looks {not much actually} :
Glasses
Blue or Brown Eyes
Slender to Lanky build
Taller than me or about even {I'm 5' 9'' & still rising}
Generously Attractive
Very Graceful
Dark Hair
Soothing Voice
Actual Figure {Fake breasts are distrubing}
Can Dance or move like one

Maybe no aspie likes them (though I'm sure you could find some), but a lot of NTs do. - LadyCass

Excuse me. NT's are nice and I know a bunch of them don't like fake breasts. It's just women lie that they're natural so men sometimes do go out with women with fake boobs. It seems like most of the people on here are just interested in insulting people on here and spilling there s**t out. When other people have other opions.

In a female:

Intelligence and a very similar, but not identical set of interests - What the hell would the point of a "relationship" where we can't talk to eachother? How am I supposed to discuss problems in my life with her if she doesn't understand them, and vise versa?

I don't like the appearence of extremely fat women, as in 1.5 seats wheelchair fat, but I don't care if their a bit overweight. Personally, I think it's silly how thin women are expected to be. I keep seeing all these before pictures of women on weight loss commercials that don't look at all fat. There was some commercial the other day of a woman having a nightmare of being seen in a bathing suit in a grocery store with everyone laughing at her, and she didn't look fat at all to me. I've know 2 people that nearly died trying to make themselves look like a photoshop job, and it makes me angry.

I'm terrified of all makeup-related products and could never kiss a girl wearing any of it, period.

I wasn't intending to apply my statement to all NTs. I'm fully aware that not all of them like fake breasts, and I am fully aware that people have different opinions. I do not hate NTs, thank you. I was simply commenting on how there are a lot of aspies who do not like boob jobs - just as there are a prevalence of aspies here who do not like makeup or overly thin people (and yes, I'm aware that there are NTs who do not like these too) - and just because the people who have commented on here do not like them does not mean you will not meet people (please note I mentioned that some aspies like them) who will.
Furthermore, I know a bunch of NTs who do like fake breasts and are quite open about it. In fact, I know some who consider it a turn on.
For the future, I would appreciate it if you did not automatically assume that I hate everyone. I am generally an agreeable person, and my two closest friends are NTs.

See the bold text.

Sorry, but contrary to the title of the thread I'm going to have to post about people of the same sex:

Personality:
Generally calm, but with a bit of a "firery" side
Intelligent and intellectual
Caring

Physically:
Strong build
Chubby, but not fat
Nice eyes

I'm going to skip out on mentioning personality, because for me, it's more the overall composition of traits than individual characteristics that interest me, though I have to admit, they must be witty and intelligent, of course.

So.

I'm bi.

In a male:

I have a thing for Middle Eastern/Balkan/Indian looking guys.
I hate it when guys are overly muscular.
I'd rather he have a graceful, slender, but not scrawny body.
I hate it when guys have messy or non-existent eyebrows.
Lovely hands.
I hate it when guys spike their hair up with gel.
Nice, thick eyelashes.
Slightly more feminine facial features.
Neat, sharp dress sense.

In a female:

Big breasts remind me of those Venus fertility symbols....no, thanks.
Either short hair or very long hair. I don't like it in between.
I hate hair dyed an unnatural color, including those supposedly natural red/copper ones that only make you look like a fake redhead.
I like makeup.
I like girls with full, shapely eyebrows. It's so ugly when they pluck them until all that's left is a line.
Feminine dress sense, but not in a girly or sluttish way. Elegant.

I'm pretty much with what Unknown said, I really don't like really skinny females. Except I'd like for the brown hair to be long but not THAT long.

In a female:
intelligent
intellectual
similar interests but not the exact same interests
kind
understanding
religious
100% real
glasses
brown or blue eyes
eccentric personality

Strange as it is, have to agree with the person on the fake breast thing. Not many people want to have a fake person in their relationship! Just pretty much because the fact that the thing will make up some way of having to get even more surgery when that person is already best with who they are already.

For guys (since I'm a girl):

good hair (long, but not long)
light blue or green eyes
nice smile
good teeth
great body
charming personality
smart
funny, but mature
fun to be with
knows the difference between right and wrong
between 5'9" and 6'2"
not fat, but not too thin
friendly
pushover (I'd be the boss!)

For a female for me.

Appearences are really on a sketchy side, I've dated really really attractive women that most people at my schools probably would've broken both my arms if that would let them date her, and then I've also dated some short a bit overweight girls, and a few anorexic ones. I think only one or two were NT. None of them were AS. I guess from what a person lacks in looks or has in looks you see past that and see who they are.

But personality wise.

Humor, being able to take a joke and joking back.

Being able to hold a conversation.

Immaturity/maturity. You know like you can make stupid comments while watching a crappy movie and then talk about something serious.

Common interests.

Trust, and problem solving skills

Thats about it

glasses

-An interest in good music (i.e. no rap, country, or pop-punk)
-Respect and admiration for the natural environment
-Openness to different political, philosophical, and musical views
-Good sense of humor
-At least some minor interest in literature (I don't like people who never read)
-No drinking/smoking/drugs
-Understanding and acceptance of my mental condition
-Willing to put up with my strangeness

Hey, I made page 3!

i thought the point of breast implants is that you cant tell, to me it might just label them shallow but i really wouldn't care, size really isn't a sticking point for me anyway


girls:

not presumptuous
open /honest
individual
but im afraid i have a strange sense of pretty that i cant define or categorize