How many Aspies never got asked to Prom?

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My school hasn't had prom yet... but people are asking people to homecoming. Guess who was the only girl in the grade to not get asked or to have friends to go with? I'm such a loser haha.

I actually skipped my first prom in favour of a Super Smash Bros. Brawl tournament, and that was a good choice, even looking back on it now I think it was a good choice. My second prom I went along with my best friend, not as like a date but as friends. Not like I cared. I got hyper, tired out, and went home

I never got asked to a school dance. I just went with friends every time. Homecoming, I went with friends junior year and then a male friend senior year, then junior and senior prom I went with female friends. Guys didn't really like me until college. That's when my intense, eccentric personality became "hot" (at least to some people) rather than unanimously "weird".

Same here. In fact, I've never been asked to a school dance before. But you know what? I say there's nothing wrong with coming home for homecoming!

went junior and senior year. Junior year I was getting ready for a basketball game and a friend of the girl asked me for her. I said yes to be nice.

Senior year asked one girl out, she said yes. Another girl asked figuring I didn't have a date as I wasn't terribly popular. Pretty much told her to f**k off. She was a dick to me so it was appropriate.

Asked to the prom? Are you serious?
To answer the OP's question no and no girl would dare ask me even if they did like me. I simply wasn't popular enough and nobody wanted to associate with me because it would lower their popularity and that was all girls in school cared about. Go figure that as a mature adult the ladies are starting to flock to me: guess they realized the 'bad boys' aren't so great after all!

If a girl HAD actually asked me to prom, I would be HIGHLY suspicious and would assume they were either trying to humiliate me or use me as a patsy for when they got busted by the cops with drugs or alcohol. Yeah, I had a lovely time in school.......

I didn't want to attend any school dances and my high school is not coed. So the probability of me attending prom was virtually 0%, unless I suddenly became gay.

I live in the UK so prom isn't such a big thing as it is in the US. But I wish people would stop asking me about prom because most of my friends are going, just not as couples or anything. I don't really want to go but it will be my last chance to see so many of my friends. I need time to think.

I didn't go to prom, didn't see the point. I wasn't asked and I knew they would play bad music. All my 'friends' (the two I had) went and I did regret it slightly but overall I am glad I never went!

No guys asked me to prom so I skipped my first prom entirely. Of course our school did our proms backwards so junior prom was the big one and senior was just a semi-formal. I did end up going to my senior prom but I had to ask a guy I knew from another school and we were only friends.

I asked over two-dozen women (one at a time) to go to the prom with me before I gave up.

My dad was angry with me because I "didn't try hard enough" to get a date. Then he got drunk. Then he beat me.

That was nearly 40 years ago.

I never got asked to prom either.

I remember the one school dance I went to , i was ditched and my date claimed he deeply regretted asking me.

Everyone just leaves me alone, I bet I'm gonna be the one who sits in the corner watching everyone else.

I was this one on at my prom. It was really boring.

This sounds a lot like what happened to me. The only time I ever had a date to any high school dances was because I asked a guy who I liked at the time to Sadie Hawkins. I went to both my junior and senior proms with a group of female friends. I was never asked. My friend forced me to go to senior prom, and I had a free ticket. The prom was terrible and I couldn't wait to get out of there because I got stuck seeing all the people in high school that I didn't like.

In college, things changed a lot. I went to a few parties and swing dance events. Finding someone to dance with wasn't very hard because I would just go with large groups of friends, switching off dancing between my guy friends and whatever random guys happened to ask me. It wasn't unusual for me or the other girls in the group to dance with 6 or 7 different guys per event. I have a Valentine's Day dance this upcoming weekend, and a guy asked me to be his date yesterday. We're together, but not official yet. I'm excited for the dance because this will be my first time having a date for Valentine's Day and I'm 19 years old. Dating gets a lot easier at a big college than in high school anyway, considering my high school dating experiences were awful.

We have our Sadie Hawkins Dance Friday, I don't think I'm going because I have a Church related activity and I don't know when it ends. But that's fine by me if I won't be back in time because I doubt anyone is going to ask me anyway.