musicaddict95 wrote:
I live in NC and ever since I was 13, I've been doing "online dating". I'm 16 now. I started with a chatroom like site but it was filled with creepy people. Then, I made an account for the site meetme (used to be called myyearbook). I met several girls on there and had a long distance relationship with 2 of them (one of them lived an hour away from me and the other one lived in my city). I started doing long distance with the girl who lived an hour away from me last year and she seemed to really like me and I told her I wanted to meet up with her. I would've but I don't have a license and my parents are wary about me meeting up with people online. I did get her skype though and I skyped her a few times so I know she's legit. Then we stopped talking and I re-added her on facebook. (This was back in August of last year). And so I messaged her on facebook and the conversation basically went like this.
Me: hey
Her: hi :)
Me: whats up?
Her: nm. u deleted me on here.
Me: i know. i'm sorry, i thought u hated me.
Her: i don't hate u. ur my favorite person in charlotle
Me: oh
Then I deleted her again. In March of this year, I added her again on facebook. I gave her my number and she texted me. I told her I felt sick and she said why and I said because i ate a lot of food. And she said "sorry babe". Then we started doing the long distance thing again a month later. In mid april I talked to her on facebook and i said to her "i love u so much *kisses u*" and she said "*snuggles closely to u and says i'll always love u cameron*" Then I was on skype with her and she said "are u gonna be mine for a long time?" and i said "yes ma'am i am" and she said "ur so good to me" A day later my friend came over and he met her on skype. The conversation only lasted for 5 mins. But the next day, she was telling me I was really hot. I almost met up with her but I had second thoughts. And I later found out that she already had another boyfriend while she was doing the whole long distance thing with me.
Basically, what I'm asking is how can I get to know girls that I know in real life better. How can I talk to girls without feeling nervous. How can I flirt with girls. And how do I know if a girl likes me.
personally i think you acted to little to late and your chance passed you by. next time if a girl is into you you need to not wait so long, i mean maybe she wasn't your type or something but it sounds like you were really into each other and she just got tired of waiting.
24 Feb 2014, 1:46 pm
