Aspie girls vs NT girls

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Hey which one you guys perfer aspies or NT? Also is it just me or are NT girl weird? They choose to love the thing that will hurt them (The bad boy) how the hell is that efficient?

That isn't efficient. I've read a study girls are more attracted to people with autism spectrum disorder well not all, the nice and quiet ones are the ones they like. Girls like nice and quiet people with ASD but I'm not sure about vice versa.

At the moment I have a crush on a neurotypical girl but that is only due to the fact that my school has 4 people(in mainstream classes) with autism spectrum disorders one of which is me. I don't have any expertise on this subject other than the fact I presented.

Hope this helped.

Both look cute I think, even though the NT ones are kindof ret*d.

I refuse to comment on a thread that seems to be designed only by young boys to hate on and criticize NT girls for some reason.

Not one is better than the other and each may come with their own advantages and disadvantages.

An aspie girl might we might be able to relate to better and might be less judgementel but key word here is 'might'.

Because aspies are all just as unique and different as NT's can be, and everyone can be as adifferent as night and day.

My advice to you guys is to try a little of both if you can. Don't just reject a nice girl simply due to the fact that she is NT. It's called discrimination and it's just as bad as NTs mistreating you because you are an aspie. You would be no better.

The truth is there is good in both NT and aspie girls and there are sure plenty of NT females that are different and really nice girls that would be nice to get to know.

Right now instead of worrying about who is better just focus on your own life and interests...

DailyPoutine, I've already given you enough of a talk in your other posts on the forum, so I'll give you a break and simply remind you of what I said in the previous posts on the forum.

The rest of you. Please grow up and cut this out.

I am 16 years old. This thread is not breaking the rules. Leave daily alone or I will report you to the mods. And you have a problem when people put down NT? Look at where your at every other thread is about criticize ing NTs!

Ignore all^

@Fenrirx:

DailyPoutine made another post on here asking the same stuff, NT girls vs Aspie girls. You should look at it yourself to see what it said. All I did was give him some advice and this is what I was talking about. The other two of you her ehowever I have never spoken to so it's different.

And, I don't prefer aspies over nts, or nts over aspies.

When I made the post I thought this thread seemed really Anti-NT but this is not true.

Am I self-righteous a-hole? Possibly.

I just don't like seeing younger aspie teen boys (but you are not younger, wasnt sure because profile doesnt say your age, I would have guessed around 15) say this Anti-NT stuff against NT girls.

This website isn't made to criticize NTs.

I disagree with what you are saying.

Wrongplanet is community for understanding, community and neurodiversity.

NTs belong here just as much as aspies.

No Anti-NT or Anti-Aspie talk belongs here.

There is a difference between just expressing your opinion and calling NT girls 'r*tarded" which is what DailyPoutine did, and yes, that is technically against the rules.

What you and the other guy Rudin said was okay though.

And Im just expressing my honest opinion just as much as you are.

You want to get mad, act tough and threaten to get the mods down here?

I say go ahead, and see what they have to say. If anything your little anger rant is what will get this thread locked. I'm trying to provide some constructive advice. Instead of calling NT girls r*tarded or saying they are 'weird' and only go for the 'a55holes', why not try and speak to both aspie and nt girls and be friends with them and get to know both better? You'll find many of them aren't like the way you think they are before stereotyping them like that.

Exactly.

Alright, so I'm done criticizing you guys and hopefully we can all just get on with the original topic.

So what I was saying was, I just think we got to stop stereotyping and generalizing and judging NT or aspie females.

I use to be like this as well in a lot of ways but I grew out of it.

DailyPoutine and the others here are nice people and I told DP in the other thread that I see a lot of my younger self in him because I do.

Well what I did was start being nice to NT and aspie females and I even got 3 dates with a nice girl before she only wanted to be friends and everything. 4 girls, possibly 5 have had crushes on me, and one of them even asked me out as well, but I ended up saying no politely. Also plenty of girls have found me good looking.

I went from shy, loner, sad, miserable to confident and happier in life now. The only problem I still even have as an aspie is my loneliness. I have only a few friends, they are all good friends but they live too far away or never have time to hang out with me so I end up spending weekends completely alone.

But I'm more of a social aspie so I don't like this and wish to spend nearly every weekend doing something with someone.

I'm just really honest. I like talking to, helping, and learning from everyone here on WP, but especially others around the same age.

Well this is what I got to say. When I stopped judging NT females and aspie females that's how far I got with girls. What is everyone else's success rate?

Me, I never had a girlfriend. I use to be bitter about it, but not as much as I use to.

Its too late this thread is ruined thanks to you wanting to pat yourself on the back for thinking your better than us. DP stated his opinion and I agree NTs way of thinking are somewhat inefficient. If you had look at what I posted you would've realized this wasn't anti-NT. And in all honesty there is probably a lot of people here who don't like NTs this is almost a given due to the fact that NTs think socially rather than logically. And quite frankly I don't give a damn about how you changed and now NT girls liked you. My question was WHY they liked you which for NT usually end up being for looks. We were just stateing our prefences in women then you stepped in and started your nonsense thanks a lot man. Also how the hell are we judging? We were just saying that we PREFER girls with our genetic mutation that was it don't know how preferring became judging. Also that whole attitude think is BS, I have seen time and time again in beautiful smart NT girls turn away guys that actually care about them for guys that use them as a cum dumpster THAT is what I call inefficient because your children might not have a father with that kind of man. And here how you say that plenty of girls have found you good looking, No s**t you got so many dates not cause you changed its because YOU LOOK GOOD. Hell I bet if you were living in the projects not having a job selling drugs on the streets you would've Still gotten chosen over the science major with a job at nortup grumman its truely is BS and is far from what produces evolutionary superior childen. If I sound anti NT fine then I might be but you know why BECAUSE NT`S DONT MAKE ANY SENSE!! !! !! !!

Thread isn't auto-ruined since there are too few posts for that thus far.

I have my suspicions that this whole NT/Autistic thing isn't nearly as genetic as the public is lead to believe.

Not all NT-girls are beautiful and not all Aspie-girls are unattractive. A bit of cos-play wig here & there, besides certain racial/ethnic-preferences, and you could have an otherwise considered ordinary plain-Jane turn into a really hot sex-partner (although you could also look at it as turning her into a whole bunch of different sex-partners as she takes on the various looks of multiple cos-play characters ).

Actually I have found that it's not so much your genetic-disposition that determines whether you look good in the eyes of the "NT-types" but rather what kinds of clothes you are wearing combined with how you've combed your hair-style. I never really paid much attention to it back in the day, but as hind-sight becomes 20/20, I now find it glaringly obvious (and of course we "autistics" are late-bloomers in general... probably). I paid no mind to it back then at the time, because I didn't think it made that much of a difference on guys, but apparently it's something similar to how you (or we autistics) might give more attention to a girl wearing professional office-attire than you (or we autistics) would give to one wearing ordinary jeans and a bulky sweater.

Another way to think of it is like tastes/preferences, perhaps for things like food, and not everybody is going to like the same flavours (for pizza/etc). I have a lot more I could and probably should eventually say on this and related subjects but as far as my own personal-preferences goes... that might depend on what the purpose is for. Some autistics/aspies who have gone on to become "players" might say that American girls (because most or even all of them are NT) are the ones you have sex with but never a relationship and that foreign-girls (because very few if any of them are NT) are the ones with whom you allow into your relationship/marriage-circle (okay, I will be more specific, this Tom Leykis radio-personality used to have this radio-show where he'd be your radio-professor teaching you how to get laid, lose your virginity, have sex with lots of different females, etc).

Rather than getting mad about some NT-girl whom you want to have sex with giving her body to some unworthy guy, you should basically « rescue » her from that bad boy instead, and bring her with you (just reach for her hand and tell her to come with you because she needs to come with you, get it, cum with you) to somewhere that you will have some privacy together, and give that sex to her yourself since she was obviously going to get it from someone, and it may as well be you rather than some bad boy, see ? Otherwise you can just help do us all a favour and let me know where the last beautiful girl you saw was who was being tricked by some bad boy and I'll go « score another lay » for those of us in Team-Autistics !

Actually they all like the oblivious, muscular douchebags who abuse them. Most of them don't give a f**k about intellect.

Looking back on this idea I'm kind of thinking that such a thing may be somewhat regional. Like, certain locations of the population are just going to be f****d up that way, but considering that you speak French, I guarantee you that you would have a relatively easy time in many parts of America where these girls over here only speak English, simply by talking to them in a French(-sounding) accent. I found that when I randomly talked to some of the girls here in a foreign-sounding accent (French-like) they just automatically seemed to have an interest in wanting to hang around me from just that by itself.

When I say regional... consider this...: I used to work lots of different temp-job assignments in various locations which allowed me to become familiar with the economic & industrial-trends of various locations. Depending on the city, some cities tended to have more manufacturing or warehouse-type jobs, upper-class type cities tended to have more office-type jobs (and better-looking women as well as better pay even if more expensive to live), another city may have had more farmer-type jobs, another with more for retail-shopping or mall-related, etc.

From the differences of economic-resources/values, depending on location, I suspect that it may also be very similar with the types of females, too. Actually, I had a potential girl-friend from a college-class, and should have taken and kept her, and part of the reason was because she was struggling in her homework in our JP-language class & I told her to follow me after class outside to one of the nearby picnic-tables since I needed to teach/tutor her on how to study for classes (and it helped with getting her to pass her tests for which it otherwise would have been a real struggle for her). For which-ever reason, she was obviously stressed (actually, more like, I hinted that she seemed stressed, and even if she wasn't, I insisted that she definitely was), and that she needed to relax a bit (and of course, I insisted that I needed to help her with relaxing, via giving her a nice-and-relaxing, full-body-massage).

When she finally finished doing the drills that I made her do in order to study better, and explaining that this is how you memorise new words when learning a foreign language, that was when I got up & walked behind her, and put my hands upon the back of her neck & shoulders, followed by massaging her body (because I had always used this « you seem stressed » method as an excuse just to get my hands all over the bodies of these lovely young ladies of course). Anyway, I continued the massage over on the grass where I had her rest down on her stomach, soothingly feeling her everywhere from the neck all the way down to the ankles (even getting my hands all over her rear-end and explaining that this area is full of what are called the sciatic-nerves), and whilst telling her to relax she was commenting about how it's hard for her to relax when some guy is touching her all over her butt (hint: this means that it's causing her to feel sexually excited even though I did not pick up on that or interpret it that way at the time due to my lack-of-experience with women back then), then I continued the massage all the way down to her feet, had her turn over onto her back, working my way back up her body from the front of her feet until arriving around the abdomen-area.

This is where I wanted to do IRL what I had always done in on-line multi-player RPGs for seducing the ladies which was proceed to cup my hands around the girl's breasts & fondle them whilst disguising it as a massage (and when you ever get a chance to do this make sure you put your thumbs on her tits & rub around in circular-motions briskly). Except she was like « don't you dare touch my breasts or I'll punch you » (I should have proceeded to touch them anyway then just block any punches that she may have thrown since I know kung fu [and yes I am certified as a kung fu instructor ever since even before me and her met] followed by other expert-seduction-techniques that I am now more aware of & experienced with). Anyway, I also suggested (make yourself out to be like a hypnotist who's giving these suggestions/commands to your patient) to her that it sounded like she needed a hug, and I got her into my arms (and unlike the typical hugs that came from other girls this girl actually pressed her whole body up into mine including pressing of our hips together... this is a gigantic hint that the girl is willing to have sex with you IF you were to decide to lead her to a private location with you such as taking her to sleep with you over-night in a hotel-room).

All I can really do for you Aspies right now is to just simply describe in detail some of the things that I've tried & how I've gotten these methods to work to get girls into my arms so that you at least have some « experienced wisdom coming from a fellow aspie with experience » knowledge that I had totally missed out on back in the day (basically, the things that I WISH that I knew, back when I was amongst you youngsters, before a whole entire thousand years passed me by so quickly). Take it for what you may but the way I see it is that you have a huge advantage of having much of this information now at your finger-tips compared to those of us back in the day who were lucky to get any kind of Internet-access outside of public-library computers (let alone any access before Internet was even introduced into humanity). Use my knowledge/wisdom/experience to your advantage to turn the tides into your favour.

The girl in today's example was VERY beautiful/attractive by the way. Had her hair been longer or if a long-haired cos-play wig (such as to make her look like Mistral Nereis) were put upon her she would defintely be a « 10 » without contest (except I would have preferred that she not wear the ring in her nose but in hind-sight she would have listened to me to remove it if I wanted to have sex with her whilst we could have made adjustments to her appearance to be suited more to my preference of how I wanted her to appear whilst I have sex with her since she clearly wanted to be my girlfriend and wanted to have me as her « new » boyfriend [she did have a former bf but take note that it's actually easier to get these girls & keep as your girl-friend than many of the other type]). This had occurred in a Community College back in the day.

I wasn't looking for advice on how to become a womaniser...

Ban you seem like the rare aspie that is able to read (but not understand) emotions and do what you want(a better term would be a psychopath but that carries a stigma so). ALso i agree with DP thats womanizing that is not what i want for her (and please refrain from usuing any sexual puns on her expense)

I don't mind NT girls, but I do feel that I would be able to make a better connection with an Aspie girl because they might understand me a lot more.

It's just you, dude.