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01 May 2006, 8:24 pm

WOW! I just got hold of mommy's little wrongplanet id. She wants me to talk about stuff on these sites. She tells me to wait and see if she can get my own little id. I just couldnt wait. I just had to see what mommy wrote. I just had to. She is always interfering with me. ALWAYS! My name happens to be Daniel. I hate it but its my name. Im 15. I guess i belong on the teen part.

My life sucks. It goes something like this. Im supposed to cut the grass. Do dishes. Set table. Even wash clothes. All because my parents so say. AND FOR WHAT? WHAT? DO ANY OF U DO THIS CRAP? ANY OF U?

If U do why do U? Stick up for yourselves! YEAH! STICK UP FOR YOUR LIFE! IT SUCKS! BUT WE'RE BORN! WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LIVE! NOT AT ALL! SO DO WHAT YOU WANT!



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01 May 2006, 8:34 pm

Been having a few, have we? ;)



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01 May 2006, 9:04 pm

Okay Im one of the ones sticking up for you so dont piss me off because it wont take much for your mom to do something serious. First off it yes when your a kid you have to do things for others but then again you probably rarely cook your own meals. If you want to have to stop doing things for them tell them to stop doing things for you other then supply stuff (I got annoyed to when my parents had me help clean rooms that I was never in but food does taste better when its cooked by parents.)

Now first off come to some sort of peace with them, stop fighting and stuff it will get you nowhere, and I seriously doubt you want to be kicked out (that would not be good at all for all parties involved.) From what she said you havent made life easy for her either so you seriously need to stop it and have them stop it and just get along (sounds so cheesy but your living there for 3 more years hopefully so cheesy sometimes works.)

Second off (or maybe first off Im not sure) try to see things from there view. Every time you get into a fight Im sure it costs them so money and I am sure there trying to help you but there probably mad too. Seriously you somewhat got it easy my stepdad was tough enough that you couldnt fight back with him (or at least not do any damage) and he got mad at me several times a year and guess what it hurt.

Third off come here and try talking to us without sounding like that and your life might stop sucking. You seem like you could be a nice kid some of the time so if you wanted to try talking out of here (and had the means) I would be willing to talk to you. Just a thought.


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01 May 2006, 9:06 pm

Is this a joke or what?



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01 May 2006, 9:11 pm

AspiesParent wrote:
WOW! I just got hold of mommy's little wrongplanet id. She wants me to talk about stuff on these sites. She tells me to wait and see if she can get my own little id. I just couldnt wait. I just had to see what mommy wrote. I just had to. She is always interfering with me. ALWAYS! My name happens to be Daniel. I hate it but its my name. Im 15. I guess i belong on the teen part.

My life sucks. It goes something like this. Im supposed to cut the grass. Do dishes. Set table. Even wash clothes. All because my parents so say. AND FOR WHAT? WHAT? DO ANY OF U DO THIS CRAP? ANY OF U?

Yes. I've been doing laundry, setting the table, and doing dishes ever since I got a place of my own. I don't cut the grass because I don't have the physical strength to do it. I didn't when I lived in an apartment, but I did all those other things. It comes with the territory.

If U do why do U? Stick up for yourselves! YEAH! STICK UP FOR YOUR LIFE! IT SUCKS! BUT WE'RE BORN! WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LIVE! NOT AT ALL! SO DO WHAT YOU WANT!


Oh? You think the parents should do all the work and wait on you hand and foot? WHY? And when you have kids, will YOU want to wait on them hand and foot? I don't THINK so!



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01 May 2006, 9:24 pm

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Oh? You think the parents should do all the work and wait on you hand and foot? WHY? And when you have kids, will YOU want to wait on them hand and foot? I don't THINK so!


To defend the kid whos about to be attacked, sometimes parents do make unreasonable requests, I cant tell you how many times I had to pretty much clean the living room entirely (when I didnt know where half the stuff out of place went) when I was never in it, especcially when it was a season I was involved in extra curriculars so if you include that plus the time it took me to get to school and home (about an hour together roughly, walking the entire way) I was probably busy upwards of 55 hours a week, neither of my parents worked near that. So anyway to summerize my defense of the kid sometimes parents do take the work kids do for granted and start asking us to do stuff that they could have done easily, though I dont know if thats what hest talking about


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02 May 2006, 12:36 am

Although I hate doing chores, I still have to do them. I'm glad that my mom and dad taught me some decent cooking skills when I was a little younger; I don't even have to worry about cooking at all, except if it was something extremely fancy. But yeah, now lots of the time I clean up parts of the house because I just want it to look clean, eventhough sometimes I still do it because my parents tell me to. Either way, the house would look like a pig-sty and it would be embarrasing to invite anyone over if we never ever cleaned it. I just hate cleaning the house when it was because of another sibling (like my little brother for example) that made the mess, and then won't clean it up, which really sucks because my little brother doesn't do that many chores around the house and whines about the little ones that he has to do. Oh well, I guess life still goes on; he'll probably learn someday.


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02 May 2006, 1:16 am

Oh also to add on my to my last post, I hate it when parents say, well if you dont do your chores I will stop giving you stuff (especcially when like my entire wardrobe costs like $100, well not quite but pretty darn close.) I mean its not my fault that I cant afford to buy my own food and I am in school 30+ hours a week (assuming 6 1/2 hour days it comes to 32 1/2 hours and 7 hour days means 35 hours a week, plus an extra hour of walking time for me because I dont have cars like you do....).


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29 Mar 2008, 9:52 am

'm a teenager, and I do chores like cleaning the rooms that I use most, and washing plates. I don't see why you shouldn't. All of that's reasonable (maybe cutting the grass is a little steep), and what's a "little id"?



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30 Mar 2008, 7:18 pm

AspiesParent wrote:
WOW! I just got hold of mommy's little wrongplanet id. She wants me to talk about stuff on these sites. She tells me to wait and see if she can get my own little id. I just couldnt wait. I just had to see what mommy wrote. I just had to. She is always interfering with me. ALWAYS! My name happens to be Daniel. I hate it but its my name. Im 15. I guess i belong on the teen part.

My life sucks. It goes something like this. Im supposed to cut the grass. Do dishes. Set table. Even wash clothes. All because my parents so say. AND FOR WHAT? WHAT? DO ANY OF U DO THIS CRAP? ANY OF U?

If U do why do U? Stick up for yourselves! YEAH! STICK UP FOR YOUR LIFE! IT SUCKS! BUT WE'RE BORN! WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LIVE! NOT AT ALL! SO DO WHAT YOU WANT!

maek your own wrongplanet account. she'll make you make your own when she finds out you've been posting in the adult forum. :D


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02 Apr 2008, 5:57 pm

AspiesParent wrote:
My life sucks. It goes something like this. Im supposed to cut the grass. Do dishes. Set table. Even wash clothes. All because my parents so say. AND FOR WHAT? WHAT? DO ANY OF U DO THIS CRAP? ANY OF U?


ROFL! It's called chores, and yes, we ALL have them!

AspiesParent wrote:
If U do why do U? Stick up for yourselves! YEAH! STICK UP FOR YOUR LIFE! IT SUCKS! BUT WE'RE BORN! WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LIVE! NOT AT ALL! SO DO WHAT YOU WANT!


I do chores because they have to be done. Your parents work hard all day to provide you with a good life. When they get home, they don't have time to do everything else that needs to be done. They make the food, they provide a roof over your head, dishes and a table to eat your food, and clothes for you to wear. If you think your life sucks because you have chores, then you have some deeper-rooted discipline issues that you need to work out.

If no one washed the dishes, then food would stay there for days, bacteria would accumulate and your kitchen would be dirty, smelly, and gross. If no one washed your clothes, they would be dirty, stained, and smelly. If no one cut the grass, then the property would look unkempt and the neighbours would complain that your un-mowed lawn is bringing down the value of their property.

Your parents are teaching you some responsiblity, and you better follow what they say. You sound like a f*****g 5 year old.



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21 Apr 2008, 7:59 pm

Your fifteen but you still say "mommy"? WTF?



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21 Apr 2008, 9:01 pm

well daniel, welcome to wrongplanet, i will respond to your message honestly :lol:
you are 15 yrs old? and you have chores? Wow you are lucky I had chores when I was 13, (i'm 28 now) I pretty much were in the same position at your age I never did like doing chores or do cleaning, but guess what it taught me how to be successful in this world. Enjoy your teens right now, cause when your an adult (20+ it gets much harder and worse and believe me working is not fun but you have to do it in order to make a living. Anyway good luck and remember your parents are doing the right thing about giving you chores, it is important to know how to do it when you live on your own.


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WOW! I just got hold of mommy's little wrongplanet id. She wants me to talk about stuff on these sites. She tells me to wait and see if she can get my own little id. I just couldnt wait. I just had to see what mommy wrote. I just had to. She is always interfering with me. ALWAYS! My name happens to be Daniel. I hate it but its my name. Im 15. I guess i belong on the teen part.

My life sucks. It goes something like this. Im supposed to cut the grass. Do dishes. Set table. Even wash clothes. All because my parents so say. AND FOR WHAT? WHAT? DO ANY OF U DO THIS CRAP? ANY OF U?

If U do why do U? Stick up for yourselves! YEAH! STICK UP FOR YOUR LIFE! IT SUCKS! BUT WE'RE BORN! WE HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LIVE! NOT AT ALL! SO DO WHAT YOU WANT!



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22 Apr 2008, 4:12 pm

Exactly. Suck it up. Quit whining. Get used to it. Be happy you have chores to do. Some people dont even have a house to clean.



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22 Apr 2008, 7:01 pm

You guys realize he posted this 2 years ago, right?


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27 Apr 2008, 7:53 am

886 wrote:
You guys realize he posted this 2 years ago, right?


LOL!