Is anyone else like this

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Earlier Today I took a test to see if I have Asperger's. I already diagnosed and knew I had AS but I took it just for some fun and to kill time.

Anyway, while I was taking the quiz I came across a very interesting question. And that question was:

"Do you have an alternative view of what you find attractive in the opposite sex?"

This surprised me because I have exactly that. I answered yes.

The type of girls I am attracted to the most are the kind of girls that most NT guys I have met would never ever want to date. It makes me feel so different.

But anyways I was wondering "Do you have an alternative view of what you find attractive in the opposite sex?" OR, "Do you have a different idea of what is attractive to you than your NT peers?"

NOTE: I asked here because I actually want other teens-young adults to answer.

I like smart boys and I hate the classic square-jawed Hollywood man... I don't like tough guys at all. I really don't see what all the other girls in my school see in these idiots who are just crude, stupid jerks... They don't seem to care about personality at all!

Yes sir. I like girls that are kinda the "odd one" of the bunch, Idk why. They are just SOOOO quirky its incredibly attractive. I don't like the girls who fit in the "social normal". maybe i like theses type of girls because I can Identify with theses women more and usually they are the more intelligent one's; Its a win win situation. They are just hard to find and approach, because they are so shy, but I'm pretty shy myself, so I can't say anything.

What does NT mean?
Sorry, I am new.

I like boys who are smart looking, a bit hairy and bit chubby. People call me deluded and weird because of that.

I may as well say what type of girls I like. When it comes to personality, the type of girls I like are, what you would call a "nerd" or "geek". When it comes to appearance, I actually like the way glasses and braces look, and I'd prefer it if a girl was slightly overweight. I feel so different because of the type of girls I like. I hear most NT guys my age talk about how they like skinny tall girly girls.

I believe so, yes.
The kind of girls that most NT guys seem to worship aren't that interesting to me.

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Yes I do and NT girls just do not understand why I like certain guys. I focus a lot on personality and similar interests. Those are the two key things for me.... I think. Don't care too much about looks.

I'm attracted to lots of different looking guys. I don't have a specific "type", but the one thing I find really unattractive is big, defined muscles, especially 6-packs. I think they are gross looking which is weird, I guess because I would assume most women find them attractive.

I go for a guys personality.

And gingers are an interest of mine for whatever reason.

Well, I'm attracted to religious jewish guys (I'm not jewish myself), so I suppose most NTs would find that weird...Plus, I like guys with facial hair and glasses.

very much yes, i cant even explain it i just do

I don't think it's particularly too weird, but I do have a very specific idea of what I find attractive. I like both females, and males, though I would only date/have intercourse with a male, and the females that I like are VERY few. For girls: they MUST be brunette or black hair, minus the exception of one redhead I like.
Noses not too small, because for some reason my brain processes small noses as stuck-up. :/ They also have to have big and expressive eyes. I like girls between my height (4'10") and 5'4" with A or B-cups. Personality is most important, though. When I find a girl that meets my standards I usually really obsess over her. I was obsessed with one girl for over 5 years. Does anyone else here do that?

As for guys.. I like guys that are like my boyfriend mostly. heh, basically when I fall for someone my attraction towards others dims down a lot ..
I really like really skinny guys.