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23 Mar 2011, 7:52 pm

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I've given up on trying to "hang out" with peers.


how do you mean?


No one invites me to do anything with them, and I've invited them places but they don't want to go. Yet they call me their friend. And I've only had two friends I've really "hung out with", and one only has two more months left in this country and the other one lives far away.


i see, sorry to hear. it's similar for fudo. or was, now there is nobody except on WP.. if that counts.



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23 Mar 2011, 8:39 pm

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I've given up on trying to "hang out" with peers.

I know what you mean, me too. :(

Story time. :D

So, just around a year ago was when I went from a normal high school to online school, in 10th grade. I did so without saying anything to my friends (and I use the term "friend" loosely here), except one, while chatting and walking home from school, that I might be leaving the school. Coincidentally, the day after I said that to him (he was the friend I had the longest, since 1st grade) I was being moved into online school, so didn't go into school. No one contacted me, even though many had my cellphone number. A few months later, in summer I think, a close friend of who I'd called my best friend texted me, asking me where I went (it took you that long to figure out?? He was annoying and a douche, so he wasn't really my friend anyways), and talked to me a bit. He texted me on occasion until December when my "best friend" found out that he had been texting me a bit, and got my number from him since he lost it, I assume in an attempt to rekindle our friendship. We hung out about 2 times, and had planned to again to on winter break. On the day when he was going to pick me up (he got a car since I last saw and talked to him, but I don't have one), he never texted me or anything, even though we just talked to night before. Now, 3 months later, I haven't heard from him at all. Kinda sucks to realize all the people you thought were your friends hate you... Sucks, doesn't it?

I guess it is partly my fault though, as when I hang out with someone I never know what to do; I'm so boring compared to their other friends. But really that isn't my fault, it's freaking Asperger's, and I don't know all that social crap. >_>



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23 Mar 2011, 8:42 pm

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I've given up on trying to "hang out" with peers.

I know what you mean, me too. :(

Story time. :D

So, just around a year ago was when I went from a normal high school to online school, in 10th grade. I did so without saying anything to my friends (and I use the term "friend" loosely here), except one, while chatting and walking home from school, that I might be leaving the school. Coincidentally, the day after I said that to him (he was the friend I had the longest, since 1st grade) I was being moved into online school, so didn't go into school. No one contacted me, even though many had my cellphone number. A few months later, in summer I think, a close friend of who I'd called my best friend texted me, asking me where I went (it took you that long to figure out?? He was annoying and a douche, so he wasn't really my friend anyways), and talked to me a bit. He texted me on occasion until December when my "best friend" found out that he had been texting me a bit, and got my number from him since he lost it, I assume in an attempt to rekindle our friendship. We hung out about 2 times, and had planned to again to on winter break. On the day when he was going to pick me up (he got a car since I last saw and talked to him, but I don't have one), he never texted me or anything, even though we just talked to night before. Now, 3 months later, I haven't heard from him at all. Kinda sucks to realize all the people you thought were your friends hate you... Sucks, doesn't it?

I guess it is partly my fault though, as when I hang out with someone I never know what to do; I'm so boring compared to their other friends. But really that isn't my fault, it's freaking Asperger's, and I don't know all that social crap. >_>


HAAAAAATE that.



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23 Mar 2011, 8:43 pm

pseudo-friends suck...



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23 Mar 2011, 8:51 pm

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pseudo-friends suck...

Tell me about it. :roll:

I like having friends, but I seem to only be able to connect with someone through common interests, because that's all I can talk about. All my friends were NTs (well, one guy had ADHD), and they could all talk endlessly about nothing, while I can't at all, so I must've appeared extremely dull to them. :P

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HAAAAAATE that.

Yeah. :evil:

I have no friends now, at least IRL, but I at least have some awesome people to talk to online. :thumleft:



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23 Mar 2011, 8:52 pm

Does anyone partaking in this thread play Fruit Ninja?



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23 Mar 2011, 8:55 pm

Nope, can't say I do. :P



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23 Mar 2011, 8:59 pm

i got on well enough with nt folk for a long time, but only really had meaningful interactions with those i shared an interest with.. is lonely now.

i've not played fruit ninja.. is it a flash game or something?



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23 Mar 2011, 9:01 pm

iTouch/iPhone/iPad game. I'm currently addicted.

The good version is $0.99 on the app store (if you're into being legal.) The Lite version isn't very good (obviously); more of an intro sort of thing.



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23 Mar 2011, 9:04 pm

has no apple products.. no 'political' reason, just not that interested.



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23 Mar 2011, 9:06 pm

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iTouch/iPhone/iPad game. I'm currently addicted.

The good version is $0.99 on the app store (if you're into being legal.) The Lite version isn't very good (obviously); more of an intro sort of thing.

Jailbreak it, then get this. :wink:

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has no apple products.. no 'political' reason, just not that interested.

Yeah, I've realized that Apple is ****, but I got a first generation Touch a few years ago that I still have, and keep for messing around with and music. :P



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23 Mar 2011, 9:17 pm

i think i'd probably like apple, as much as any other.. no point me having an iphone with nobody to talk to though lol



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23 Mar 2011, 9:18 pm

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i think i'd probably like apple, as much as any other.. no point me having an iphone with nobody to talk to though lol


Bit late in the UK, isn't it?



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23 Mar 2011, 9:20 pm

tis, 2.20am.. but i have nothing important to do.. ever. unless i become Fudo's avatar ;)



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23 Mar 2011, 9:22 pm

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tis, 2.20am.. but i have nothing important to do.. ever. unless i become Fudo's avatar ;)


Ah, yeah. Forget that the UK is five hours ahead, and not six.



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23 Mar 2011, 9:25 pm

think it changes on sunday..
i will sleep if/when if i run out of cigarettes.