NineTailedFox wrote:
My parents and my educators have always told me I was disabled because I had autism. This isn't true?
"disabled" is a very misused & misunderstood term. It's easy to generalize that, if you are Autistic, you are in some way "disabled." This is a big part of the
stigma of Autism. Can you read/write/socialize/hold a job/drive a car? If not, then you may be labeled "disabled" for not being able to do one or more of those things. But the problem is, I know NTs who can't do any of those things, so labeling someone with Autism as "disabled" is not always an easy and clear cut thing.
The other part is that Autism is a very broad spectrum, encompassing a wide variety of people from the barely able to function, to very successful business people and celebrities. So where you fall on the spectrum would in many ways indicate how "disabled" you may be.
As for finding a "cure" for Autism, since it's not a disease or illness, there is not cure. Just like there's no cure for being born NT.
But depending on where you are on the spectrum, plus additional things like your body chemistry, certain medications do help many people to improve their life. But what's also needed more than a cure, is help for Austistics do learn to cope and deal with their particular problems. Like some people need help learning to read/write/speak, others need to learn how to succeed at school or a job. Some everyday things for NTs, like shopping, can completely mystify a person with Autism. But there are a lot of skills that can be learned to help people cope with everyday functions that they don't understand. Another important thing is to help Autistics use the skills and gifts that they do have in a more effective way, like in a job. So rather than a "cure," I advocate for help and training, so that people on the spectrum can lead a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
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