Who has NT friends? (If non-NT tell me how they treat you)

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GlitchyEel
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01 Jun 2012, 7:43 pm

I only have NT friends and all of them know about my Asperger's. They treat me like one of their own and it's great :D Sometimes I think that they try to protect me from the jerks at school because of my Asperger's, but I'm fine with it as long as they don't disrespect me as a person.



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01 Jun 2012, 8:30 pm

i used to have a few NT friends
but after my dad passed away i was moved to a rual village
then i was moved to a childens home with autistic people in it.
and i go to a speacal educatoin needs school so theys no good way to keep in touch with old nt's and no way to make new nt frends
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27 Jun 2014, 11:00 pm

Yes, I know this thread is really old.

I have a few NT friends - one of them goes hiking with me a lot. The others are just nice to me and I am nice to them and they help me when I am not doing so good at school. I know some Aspies/Autistics as acquaintances at school, but I am not complete best friends with them. The NTs know I have HFA/Aspergers and they don't pick on me. There are a few NTs I don't really like because they are just idiots with everyone. But I am an unusually funny person so many NTs like me at school.



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30 Jun 2014, 8:41 am

I have a bunch of friends that aren't exactly "NT".

Me, my practical e-sister, two friends of mine, and my boyfriend all have diagnosed autism, with me and my e-ster having Asperger's. Though I would swear two of my other friends have some kind of HFA, as both of them have a few key traits. One even admitted to having a few "obsessions" in the past (the Titanic, funerary rites, gothic romantic writings a la Edgar Allan Poe, and the macabre) but he doesn't believe he does. I literally would bet my life he does have at least SOME form of HFA, and as him and my e-sister are a couple, maybe he'll work it out somehow.

Another one of my friends has ADD and psychosis issues, and a load of people are scared of him, but I think I'm the only person who isn't. Plus he admitted to fancying me, which is kinda awkward. His older brother in my year also has ADHD.

One has dyslexia, and enjoys annoying me. Out of my friendship group...I'd say maybe four or five are completely NT. The rest have all sorts, and we all fit in together pretty well.



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30 Jun 2014, 3:35 pm

all of my friends and acquaintances are NT simply because i have never met many another aspies in my life, or those that i have met and know that they are aspies, simply, i haven't gotten to know them (yet).
i'm alone with my ASD
yet one nt friend has come to me, so i can help her cope with her cousin (who i assume is LFA) that is driving her crazy. :roll:


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30 Jun 2014, 3:59 pm

Most of my friends from school are NT, I have one friend who I know outside of school who is autistic. I have a few friends, I'm not sure if they have ASD, but they have some traits of it.


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02 Jul 2014, 4:35 pm

I have some NT friends, and a few of them are very close to me. My NT friends treat me nicely, and they always like having me around.



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04 Jul 2014, 6:26 pm

I have a acquaintances who are non-aspie, but I've only ever been able to be a close friend to two or three people, two in the Autism community, and one who wasn't. The one who wasn't is a friend from when I was 5 or 6 to more or less present, but I've always been the third wheel. It's my fault anyways, I'm a doormat type person, and often end up that way without realising it. :lol: I have one other friend, I don't know if she counts, her little brother is Autistic, but we're not best friends yet really.

I have a few good friends who like my craziness. :)



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23 Jul 2014, 6:22 pm

kill231 wrote:
My NTs friends are kind to me and respect my difference and I am forever grateful for that. And my Non Nt friends. We are like siblings. Siblings who are closer than brothers and they will forever be in my heart.

How do your friends treat you?

i take a while to make friends but i have a few very close ones and i get along well with a lot of people as long as there normal, i avoid people who are special at all cost which is something I've honestly learned from being in sped ed, most of my friends are normal kids i knew from middle school. albeit there all pretty interesting characters. i guess the kids I'm around right now are just really to messed up in the head to bond with. personally, i try to avoid telling anyone i have the disease that i have and id suggest you all do the same. I'm not your soul brothas nor do i want to be. i want to have friends and go to parties and get laid. that being said i have had friends that were more like me but that always fell apart after a while. i mainly post here to help people who i think are kinda like i was when i was younger, even though there sometimes older then i am. i guess some of my closer friends know but i dont identify with it that much and when i do its usually when I'm feeling bad about myself. I've even promised myself I'm not gonna be with anyone until I'm safely out of sped school and i would certainly never tell a girl i was with i had it ever even if i got married to her or something.all the people i told i told when i was a little kid and didn't understand how much it could screw my life over.