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buryuntime
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07 Jul 2009, 10:07 pm

I identify as asexual for now.



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08 Jul 2009, 8:24 am

Homer_Bob wrote:
I feel I have some asexual qualities but I'm not asexual because I am attracted to girls and I do have feelings about them like feelings of sadness, frustration and jealousy of not being able to have any of them but I do greatly desire some in my dreams. However, at the same time I maybe attracted to girls but I do not want sex of any kind and I could easily live as a hermit. I wouldn't be happy but I could do it because I'm already prepared for it and even though I'm still young, I'm totally use to being alone anyways. I never pursue girlfriends and it's not exactly at the top of my list of things to do. It's weird, I have sexual feelings towards them but I still never want to have sex. Quite strange. I wish I was one percent asexual because I hate having those feelings. I can certainly pass as an asexual though.


Hmmm...well maybe you don't really desire them, you just like the idea of them?


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24 Aug 2009, 12:46 pm

There was an article in the paper this morning about the Asexual Visibility and Education Network (AVEN)

http://www.asexuality.org/home/

It said about 1% of people are asexual, and that lots of asexuals have romantic orientation (gay/bi/straight) and interest, and lots don't.


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25 Aug 2009, 3:36 pm

Yep, I'm asexual. It's just how I am.


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28 Aug 2009, 9:26 pm

Recently, I've been thinking that I might be asexual. I just had/broke up with my first boyfriend, and it made me realize that I find the whole dating/sex thing completely repulsive. I'm just not sure if I'm just developing slowly or if I'll be like this forever, but I suppose I'll know in the next few years.


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28 Aug 2009, 10:05 pm

I'm asexual too. I think that its fairly common with aspies. I've never really been attracted to either boys or girls. When I've kissed girls, its a really vile feeling - kind of like eating chopped liver. I haven't kissed a boy, but I imagine it would feel vile as well. The only problem is that girls expect you to kiss them or else they get mad.



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31 Aug 2009, 10:49 am

I'm not sure if I'm asexual, I've never had a boyfriend and am not particularly interested in having one and do not seem to feel much attraction to people in that sense. The thought of kissing someone kind of grosses me out and I haven't thought much about sex, it doesn't really interest me. I might be asexual but I think (and hope, since I'd like to feel attraction to others) that I'm just immature and will eventually feel that kind of attraction towards people.



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07 Sep 2009, 3:46 pm

I have absolutely no interest in reproducing and to be honest, sex just seems wierd.



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07 Oct 2009, 3:18 am

I am slightly asexual, I can tell when a girl is "hot" but I don't really care, everyone else drools over her while I admire that she is attractive for a moment and then slip into who cares.

I don't have any interest in sex either, as in Idon't want sex. Ever. I don't even want a girlfriend.



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07 Oct 2009, 3:46 am

Nope, definitely straight. I know for a fact that I've attracted girls, but I don't notice the "vibes", so the opportunity passes.



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07 Oct 2009, 8:40 pm

I'm definitely not Asexual. I love sex. And I'm definitely attracted to girls, both romantically and sexually.


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08 Oct 2009, 2:57 am

Sex is a good way to know yourself and your partner, I have noticed I have had sexual urges since I was 9 or 10.



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15 Oct 2009, 9:24 pm

I'm attracted to females and that jazz, but I don't think I'll ever get into a relationship. I don't think I am well suited for it. Plus, I don't like babies at all, and adding more isn't going to help the fact that this planet is overpopulated.


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16 Oct 2009, 2:26 pm

I have been toying with the possibility of me being asexual. I might just have a way low sex drive though. -shrug-

Though I also don't know if I'm an aspie either, so my input is pretty useless. :P


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19 Oct 2009, 2:42 pm

I certainly am. I like to think that I am driven mostly by intellect instead of, er, those kinds of things.

I don't see why I should have to waste my time and have to submit myself to such a humiliating and disgusting experience.



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20 Oct 2009, 1:15 pm

I might become asexual because i just think that sexual relationships are too stressful. Plus, I may take a full time job in the peace corps so a relationship wouldn't work. Plus, although I get terribly shy upon being around girls my age, I don't really feel attracted to them sexually. i talk to them like i talk to everyone and i tend to not mind that they are a girl. I do not understand why most men(mostly young men 18-30)have to be so arrogant and see women as just being there to look pretty or reproduce rather than a fellow human being. Thus many do not like it when their wives come to them with problems or request that they tag along to shop for stuff. I don't know yet if I should get married or not but if not, i'd still like to have children via adoption. I still feel that I need to live on and I can't do that unless I have children of my own even if they aren't genetically mine. I want to experience everything I can in life while not becoming too uncomfortable and that includes having children but not having sex.