theQuail wrote:
Thanks for replying.
I normally spend 30 mins to 5 hours on the computer daily, usually somewhere in between of course. My father wanted me to spend 1.5 hours or less!
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Hehe, I can't imagine that. Luckily he doesn't really enforce it...
Yeah, internet addiction is a scary thing, and WrongPlanet is a really fun site to read. I take breaks every once in a while (a recent one enforced by Hurricane Ike power outages, for example) to make sure I'm not too dependent on the computer.
That 1.5 hours or less is the standard us parents get to hear over and over and over from the "experts."
I think the fact that you are aware of the addiction element and careful about it is a very argument against strick limits. The best way to keep your parents from enforcing a limit is to show that you are able to limit yourself and act responsibly, and don't use the computer to hide from the family or life. It sounds like you do show responsibility, which may be why your dad doesn't get too serious about following the gold standard he keeps hearing. It gets hard for us parents, because we get pushed in so many directions and we don't want to make mistakes with our kids. But AS kids do have different needs and the standards can be different ... its just, well, so much information gets thrown at you as a parent about how horrible it is to let your kids on the computer too much. Just be aware that your parents face that pressure and do your best to continue showing them that you understand the pros and cons of being connected to this tool.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).