Feel that you will never get a gf or a bf?

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I've had girlfriends, but I doubt I'll ever have a relationship which will actually work out. People in general tend to dislike me the more they get to know me.

With the kind of women I attract, never.

theres someone for everyone! too bad me and my fiance broke up. theres other girls that are interested in me but the problem is it still feels wrong to see other girls... im just to monogamous and loyal i guess... haha

Me and my GF broke up a matter of Days ago...

I'm 12 (As I've read this is for 12-20 ppl) and yeah, I have this feeling. I know you'll say "You're to young...blahblabhabla..." but I'm just to shy to approach someone to the level of liking each other so I always get to the "very good friend" zone.

I think you guys should see this. It's Neville from Harry Potter. XD

I think I might eventually get a girlfriend. I'm still uncomfortable around most girls, but I came out of my shell socially recently. I'm too chicken to ask a girl out, but I bet someone will eventually ask me out even if that isn't the norm. I've noticed little things that have seemed to indicate that certain friends or acquaintances of mine who were girls seemed to have some interest in me, but I'll never know. I'm going into college, so I'll never see many of these people in the flesh ever again.

At the present, I am having troubles with "friend" friends, Let alone "relationship" friends

I feel this way sometimes, but it I try to be cautiously optimistic. There are a bunch of people on Wrong Planet to meet, which I feel helps one to work on socializing and relationships. It is important to be patient at times.

I'm a 17 (18 on 31st) year old living in WA state, I never had a girlfriend, never hold a girl's hand, never kiss any either... sometimes it feels helpless... "Will I ever get a girlfriend?" I wonder to myself and answer is always "no"... so idk, I think there is someone out there for me.. but being a aspie gosh it's hard, don't you all agree!

About me: I'm a poet, I play guitar and sing while I play, not so good with singing or playing right now, but will be.. people think I been writing for couple of years, but only a couple of months,
anyways.. yeah so I wonder is anyone out there for me?

*many hugs* if you accept/want them.

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As for me... When I was still figuring things out and dating guys, I was sure I'd 'end up' with someone. Now I've come out. Yep, the 'die alone with cats' seems more likely. *facedesk*

I probably won't, but I'm not really that interested in all honesty.

I went to a party tonight.. and later on I saw people (male and female) both sitting together and talking/laughing... and me sitting away from people, staring at them I guess... I thought "I will never be like them" so I have no clue when I will even get a gf...

I have never felt hopeless... I happen to be attractive enough to woo quite a few boys, much to my disdain.
HOWEVER
I have had a boyfriend for almost three years. I must be doing something right.

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Last edited by TheInfamousArgyle on 31 May 2011, 10:37 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Well, that's good for you . congrats

I really wish I could be in a romantic relationship with a girl, just one to be with, hug with, talk about things with. Nobody intense, just someone quiet, kind, shy, deeply caring and understanding, and most of all someone who wants a longterm relationship, not a one night stand. But it seems finding someone like that at 16 is almost impossible