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Do you and how do you self harm?
Yes I do Self Harm, I cut myself with a knife or razorblade (explain) 11%  11%  [ 22 ]
Yes I do Self Harm, I cut myself with a knife or razorblade (explain) 11%  11%  [ 22 ]
I do self harm, I burn myself (explain) 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
I do self harm, I burn myself (explain) 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
I do self harm, I both cut and burn (explain) 2%  2%  [ 3 ]
I do self harm, I both cut and burn (explain) 2%  2%  [ 3 ]
I do self harm, but i do it in another way (explain) 12%  12%  [ 23 ]
I do self harm, but i do it in another way (explain) 12%  12%  [ 23 ]
I do self harm, I both cut and burn and do it is another way (explain) 3%  3%  [ 5 ]
I do self harm, I both cut and burn and do it is another way (explain) 3%  3%  [ 5 ]
No I do no Self Harm 20%  20%  [ 38 ]
No I do no Self Harm 20%  20%  [ 38 ]
I prefer not to answer 3%  3%  [ 5 ]
I prefer not to answer 3%  3%  [ 5 ]
Total votes : 194

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12 Dec 2006, 7:00 pm

Yes I do self harm.
I cut/pinch/pull off my skin with my fingernails.
I also punch my hand/wrist.
I also bite the inside of my mouth.
I pull out my hair.
Sometimes I even lightly burn my fingers by touching them to a lamp.

I NEED HELP STOPPING :!:
A teacher gave me a stressball to use, and it works great, but sometimes I forget. I even cut my fingernails so I'm not tempeted, but I sill pull out my hair, and bite.

HELP :!:



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13 Dec 2006, 7:00 am

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Ive been really depressed and felt low sometimes but ive never resorted to cutting. I used to bang my head against the wall for a long time without let-up when i was younger but it was to block out the noise/stress i was experiencing. im too squemish with blood and stuff to cut, even if i am feeling very low (not very manly xD) i tend to relive these bad feelings thru external means, my anger directed towards teh outside (punching walls and stuff 8O) so i guess im lucky in that respect, although if it came down to it id rather hurt myself than cause pain to others. but im getting better in respects my anger, if i feel the need to damage something ill take it out on something soft like a pillow or someting :lol:


I bash myself into the wall or punch myself if I'm angry as well. I try using a pillow but sometimes I use plastic (or glass rarely, but sometimes) bottles which I smash + crush outside in the garden. It depends how angry or depressed I am.

Once, I think it was the other day, I bashed my head into the wall and a part of my head started bleeding.

I got to take it easy. :lol:



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05 Jan 2012, 4:55 pm

I cut mainly but i also sometimes burn, scratch, hit myself, bang my head, bite myself and pull my hair. I cut on my arms but have run out of space from years of doing it, so recently had to move to my legs, which before now were reasonably unscarred (about 120 scars from two episodes)

I feel less alone now i know other people on here do this too...



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05 Jan 2012, 6:12 pm

'I've cut my self once with a razor (several small cuts on the back of my right wrist), once with a nail (several long scratches on back of right arm), and once with a pair of scissors (deep cut on left palm).


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09 Jan 2012, 1:26 pm

I've cut my arms, given myself a concussion by hitting my head on the floor, punched myself, scratched myself, tried to pull my hair out, i have scars on the insides of my cheeks from biting them (but I think that's more anxiety), pick at scabs (if that's self-harm..), and that's about it i think.. I'm also a bit of a pyro but I don't actually burn myself. I don't know why but I always feel calmer after hurting myself, like I'm cutting out or beating up the bad feelings. But when I hurt someone or break something (like I kicked a hole in the wall, banged my birds cage (I felt awful about that :( ), and I've put cracks in my laptop screen from punching it) I always feel so much worse. :cry:



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09 Jan 2012, 1:54 pm

i'm not sure if it counts but i work at a mall



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09 Jan 2012, 5:20 pm

Well, I don't really SH very often, but when I do, it's during fits of extreme anger. I generally bite and scratch myself, usually my left arm. Although I seldom SH in that way, I find it a wonder that I've never cut myself within the past three or four years. :/



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11 Jan 2012, 2:00 pm

okay... hoping for some insight... my 6 year old bangs head when he is angry... it almost seems like a knee jerk reaction and nothing we try seems to help... curious to know if anything goes through your head before you self injure for those of you who do this in response to anger.... or if you know when you will bang your head... any signs that tell you you are about to self injure?... anything that has helped you break that chain reaction or stop to think even just for a second? any advice out there?



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11 Jan 2012, 7:38 pm

kcal wrote:
okay... hoping for some insight... my 6 year old bangs head when he is angry... it almost seems like a knee jerk reaction and nothing we try seems to help... curious to know if anything goes through your head before you self injure for those of you who do this in response to anger.... or if you know when you will bang your head... any signs that tell you you are about to self injure?... anything that has helped you break that chain reaction or stop to think even just for a second? any advice out there?


Well me cutting myself is just me being emo, but in your sons case it sounds like he is getting angry over something, goes into a meltdown state, and is then getting frustrated because he can't communicate properly in such a state and is hurting himself as a result.


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15 Jan 2012, 9:34 pm

I cut with an exacto knife, on the top of my wrist. I cover it with a watch, to hide it. Cutting has probably saved me from suicide at least twice through the relief I can get from it.



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16 Jan 2012, 3:34 am

I don't self-harm, but I did, and I'll always consider myself a self-harmer (not a 'recovered' self-harmer) when it comes to SHers rights.

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30 Jan 2012, 10:14 pm

i cut my chest cuz it's less visible and i bite my fingernails till they bleed, i smoke cigarettes so i been considering burning myself but haven't tried it yet


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11 Feb 2012, 8:28 am

I hit my head, I bite my hands, I peel skin off of my lips, I used to hit my head against things but I kept getting in trouble for that... what else... Ah - occassionally I cut myself with a knife out of guilt, if I feel I did something horribly wrong and made someone upset/hate me. (I cut on my leg, as it's less noticable, less in the way, and less melodramatic). The cutting thing is more of a self-punishment thing, then anything else. I can't really feel the pain very well anyways, as I'm hyposensitive.
The other harming things are stims, or things I just unconciously do. I have occassionally burned myself with hot water, but that was unintentional, as I can't feel tempuratures very well either.



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11 Feb 2012, 11:15 am

I've cut before, Ive burned myself before... Sometimes I hit my head on the wall, punch things, kick things, bite myself.... idk what else?



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20 Feb 2012, 3:56 pm

I'd dig my nails into my skin or stop my breathing for a few seconds, anything more extreme I wouldn't want to do.



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25 Feb 2012, 3:39 am

Thankfully this has died down with me over the last two years. I'd always headbutt walls/punch them till I cut my hands open. I also used to cut my lip with scissors and I used to/sometimes still will punch myself, sometimes till I bleed.


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