DailyPoutine1 wrote:
Sino wrote:
DailyPoutine1 wrote:
This is so discouraging girl always treat me like I'm some sort of ret*d kid just because I don't have social skills. How am I supposed to do the first step when all I get is others laughing. I really hate this world why can't all of them die.
Careful. That's the same line of logic Elliot Rodger went down, and wherever he is now, he almost certainly isn't getting laid.
But whats the goal of them living if they don't give me anything? Why do others deserve there love and not me?
No one 'deserves' love along with happiness, success, etc.
This is known as 'entitlement' and it is not a healthy way to think.
If you believe the world 'owes' you something and that you DESERVE love than you are entitled.
The truth is, for ANYTHING, you just go out and try and get it.
If you fail to and cannot than just keep at it.
But, I feel your pain.
Over the years I have also felt robbed and cheated.
I am NOT entitled. There is a difference between being entitled and wanting something.
I want a relationship and love as well but I'm not entitled to it.
It's just when you do your very best and STILL fail, than you feel robbed and cheated.
You want stuff in life, you have to EARN it. But when you feel you HAVE earned it but STILL fail, that is when you can call life unfair.
And yes I agree life is unfair. But that doesn't stop me or let me go down a the Elliot Rodgers path and it shouldn't stop you either...
Keep your chin up. You're 14 - probably the worst time in life for many aspies...
Just focus on making friends and getting a girlfriend.
When you face rejection don't become angry but let it go...
Let all the rejection help you develop strength against it.
Eventually being socially rejected will barely even hurt anymore...
I agree - f*ck all these people.
But let 'karma' do the job for you instead of hurting them yourself...