Aspie girls vs NT girls

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NT girls do a lot of things that I question, but I can't say I don't envy them sometimes

Come on, dont you think thats kind of low? A lot of the users here probably think of themself as "ret*d" or have been called that before, so im not sure why you think its a cool thing to call others?
And if someone here said "autitistic guys are kind of ret*d" do you think thats a great thing to say??

Lol at all the aspie females coming to chime in at this old thread.

Look, tbh it's hard not to idolize you guys, you're all so rare and once we do meet one of you we find so much compatibility, success, etc.

The first girl I ever went on a date with was an undiagnosed aspie girl - she believed she was, and after being her friend for a long time I could tell she most likely was.

Anyway, when I did ask her out on the first date, she didn't even realize it was a date, and she only figured out the second date.

But I had never met anyone like her before and she had such amazingly unique, alternative views of the world.

The same can be said for my first girlfriend. While not an aspie, she did have mental disability/learning disability, and apparently a part of it was 'traits related to Autism', according to her mother, something I could also pick-up on.

But I still definitely stand by my belief I said earlier in the thread, months ago, that we shouldn't idolize or place you on a pedestal before we even meet you, and should find the positives in both.

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Which brings me to my next point, the fact that the aspie girl I went on my first date with made me feel terrible, constantly changing her mind about things (interested in dating me, but can't because she thought she was lesbian, changing her mind and realizing she's bisexual, only to say she only sees me as a friend and doesn't want to date anyone right now, changed her mind once again about a week later and falls for a male friend, felt extremely moritifed in her words at the fact, but couldn't stop herself from being with him, now engaged to the male friend and still with him since June. All for me to be left in the dust, having an unhealthy relationship with my first gf while I watch them show-off about theirs all the time at our group).

And my first girlfriend did the same, changing her mind about me all the time, and other sorts of behavior that can only be classified as bullying.

I lasted longer with my second, N.T. girlfriend, though she herself was very unique and a little kooky. But I could still tell she was very much more N.T. than the rest - although she was a little playful/naive/childish (in an innocent, adorable way) she was also very intelligent, confident, independent and headstrong - a rare combination I wish I could meet again someday.

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